my parents divorced when i was 5 and then i had something relly bad happen on my last vacation im only 13 what do i do
2007-10-09 16:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Justine K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well on my vacation my mom got relly mad at me and told me to get out of the car she claims she was just "cooling down" but by her tone of voice i could tell it was a lie the cops found me i cant get it out of my head
2007-10-09 16:31:46 · update #1
im ok but my mom always lies 2 me i pray and ask God 2 help i just wish id thought of it sooner
2007-10-09 16:34:52 · update #2
i dont really trust annyone annyway and the cops did not care y would annyone else
2007-10-09 16:36:29 · update #3
I'm sorry you are having such a painful time. Do you have a trusted adult you could talk to, a relative, adult friend(same gender),school counselor, staff at a church? If you told your parents you need someone to talk to, would they be willing to take you to a counselor(I'm not saying a shrink, that's not what I mean)?
I never went through a divorce, as a kid, but I experienced some terrible things. I was physically, emotionally and sexually abused. Back then people sort of mentally buried stuff like that, no one talked about family problems or abuse. I felt so lonely and so much pain.
One thing that helped me is when I found out God really loves me, (I thought no one loved me) Someone told me Jesus would come inside me spiritually and help/heal me; all I had to was just talk to him and ask him to. Ever since I started to know Jesus and pray I've had God's help and love. It's what I wish you had to.
Another thing that helped me sometimes is to write down what I am feeling or bothered about. If you do this keep it somewhere where people won't see it and maybe read it. Writing gets the thoughts and feelings out of your head and helps you see what's going on with you.
Here's a few THINGS NOT TO DO: Don't tell people you are not SURE that you can trust. That can blow up and hurt you if they gossip. Don't ever think that alcohol or drugs will solve your problems. Don't blame yourself, EVER, for your parents divorce or the bad thing that happened to you. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!
I wish I could help you in some real way that would comfort you. I will pray for you to be able to find some help. Good luck, sweetie, hang in there! It will get better! :)
2007-10-09 16:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by LeslieAnn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep moving forward and resolve not to let anything get you down or hold you back.
I am sorry to break it to you but bad things are going to happen to you for the rest of your life. The point is what are you going to do when these things happen? Are you going to learn from your mistakes or keep repeating them?
It is ok though. We are all in the same boat. When life gives you problems, don't focus on the problems... focus on the solutions to the problems. You will do fine if you just keep in mind the fact that you are special. You are beautiful. And you really do matter.
Good luck. I will pray for you.
2007-10-09 16:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone you trust such as a close family member, if you go to church your Sunday School teacher or pastor, or your counsellor at school. Do not let whatever happened to you in the past keep you from enjoying your life now or in the future.
2007-10-09 16:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Parent divorced at 5 is tough, but it's definitely not because of you. . What happened to your last vacation ? You need to discuss with a adult you can trust, who knows how to help you. You are not along, you just need to tell some adult with authority. Please don't keep it a secret to yourself.
2007-10-09 16:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ski Bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to some one that you trust, don't be worried about getting any body in trouble or if someone will be mad at you. You have to do this for you. Please do it.
God bless.
2007-10-09 16:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by luvspace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By a box of straws and suck it up.
Life happens, talk to an adult that you trust.
2007-10-09 16:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Deborah S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
$hit happens.......get over it or talk to someone (adult) about it. We've been there and done that most of the time.
2007-10-09 16:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to know what happened to answer your question.
2007-10-09 16:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you were not assaulted? If you were forced to do anything against your will please notify an adult you trust immediately. Ok Please. I hope you are okay and I wish you well.
2007-10-09 16:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋