hi there this is koiel, i m married having a son of 2 years. My husbands loves me a lot and i also care him, we had a love marriage. but now after 3 years i started feeling i have infatuation with another guy, he doesnt love me at all,, y he luves me, i m married, a mother....i dont know where should i go,,,what should i do??
2007-10-09 22:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Instead of being selfish and only thinking about yourself and the prospect of some one night stand, trying being a *loyal* wife to your husband.
Did you really think this might be okay?
Are you really that shallow of an individual that you would even consider cheating on a husband who loves you and you claim to love as well and for what, a fling? You have no sense of honor or loyalty.
Pitiful.
2007-10-09 23:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what's going on at home. Having a baby will change everything in a marriage and it takes years sometimes to recover romantically.
Forget about Mr. Crush, he doesn't care for you, and you won't be able to change that. Focus on the amazing human being you loved enough to marry. It is normal to get crushes on other people, but acting on it, especially in your case, is not usually going to be the cure.
Think about taking more time for your husband and you to spend quality time together without your son. It sounds like you just need to re-connect with your man to get things back into perspective. If that fails, try counseling. It sounds like your marriage is a good one worth rediscovering and fighting for.
2007-10-09 23:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Zylah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what is the problem. You have a husband that love you, and you love him. You want to cheat on him with some other guy. Put yourself in his shoes and try to think how hurt and devastated you would be in that situation.
If you care about him, then show your love and make it work.
and grow up. This is not high school, although you sound very young.
Good luck
2007-10-09 23:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by 747pilot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do you mean, "what should I do". GROW UP! You don't have that decision. You want a man that doesn't want you and your married with a child!
I feel so sorry for your husband and especially for the child, because all you are is a selfish, unintelligent wife and mother if you could worry about nonsence like that!
2007-10-09 23:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just say your husband loves you but the other one doesn't? well there you go? if that can't help you solve this one I don't know what else... one advice though is very to be with the one who loves you not the one you love.. forget about this dude patch things up with your husband.. or you will end up loosing both..think of your son, he needs a stable family settings to grow up to be a responsable adult.. you can't let thins like this affect your kid, you say your a mother act like one.. leave that dude alone.. good luck.
2007-10-09 23:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY, but i serriousllllyy dont get guys and girls who have flings or things for another person who
are in a commited relationship. either be in it or not!
my advice is if you really care for your sons father stay with him and lose all contact with that other guy! who doesnt love you the way your husband does!
peace n loves people
2007-10-09 23:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well befor eyou give up your munkey, remember you are MARRIED, and you took VOWS, just because you get hot over other man, doesn't mean you need to sex it up with him!!! Save your marriage&family,but distance between you and this guy!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-09 23:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop ALL contact w/ this other guy, permanently! spend more time w/ your husband and child! good luck... in time you will forget about this other guy...
2007-10-09 23:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should u do?what shd u do that a stupid ? Go find ur self
2007-10-09 23:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by OU81MODE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why ask "what should you do?", when that other guy (you said so yourself) doesn't love you?? duh.. and come to think of it, you have a son.. Do the math and answer your own question..
2007-10-09 23:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋