Please someone help me out with this. I feel sorry after i hurt her. But she tries to explain me. But i dont understand. What should i do?
2007-10-09 23:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Salman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she must be having some other priorities like her family, try to know those and adjust your self accordingly, don't hurt her and when ever you get angry just avoid talking to her
2007-10-09 23:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're NOT right. Your GF is entitled to a life - without you - just as much as you are entitled to a life - without her. By being controlling etc. etc. you're driving a wedge between you.
Now, this may take professional help - don't be afraid to ask.
1. Work with yourself to figure out why you feel the need to control her every move every second of the day.
2. Work with yourself to figure out a way to express how you feel without getting angry or violent or abusive. This will stand you in good stead with everyone - men, women, children, etc. so do it.
3. Work with yourself to figure out a way to trust your GF without having to control her.
2007-10-10 07:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take it slower with her if you love her. I don't see a future for the two of you if you continue to hurt her. Next time it happens, stop and think before you speak. If you don't, you will lose her for sure. Is that what you want?
2007-10-10 06:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats love.. You cant help yourself at times. Best is do the same to your girl friend, I think you can learn from her.
2007-10-10 06:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by BS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly you don't deserve a girlfriend yet. You need to grow up more.
2007-10-10 06:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋