she is moaning at me for not cleaning when im clean and hardly ever in the house.
for not spending time with the housemates when all they do is watch soaps and i dont like them.
For alot when i have done very little wrong, even the other housemates laugh and defend me.
She says this lot half laughing but it still annoys me.
oh yeh, we used to be an item!
why is she like this? its almost like its fun for her
how should i deal with it?
2007-10-09 23:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's women for you. Move out. Sounds like hell. Or call a house meeting and vote on who should move, her or you.
2007-10-09 23:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you two were an item she is trying to make you feel small and beneath her, like she was too good for you in first place. Girls can be very nasty ( we all know that!!) Lets face it though when push comes to shove we all have that streak in us that screams 'B*tch', so if all else fails, shock her and play her at her own games. As soon as she knows you can defend your own corner then she's sure to back down, failing that just outright confront her and the rest of them, even if they do all gang up and mouth back at you, they will know that your not intemidated by them and should move on.
2007-10-09 23:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Emily H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat two years ago, and ended up completely ignoring them. Soon got the message.
2007-10-09 23:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by DaveyMcB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you has to move out. Either that or get yourself a really great new girlfriend who stays over a lot.
2007-10-10 00:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swap her sugar for salt!!
Put some food under her bed and leave it there!!
I know it might sound immature but should make you feel better lol
2007-10-09 23:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she jealous i wud tell her to clean up the house then she can see for herself how hard it is to clean up afater other people or the best option tell her to sling her hoop out of door if she dosent like it
2007-10-10 07:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is on her period. just ignore her and dont let it affect you. she will keep talking, but just tune it out, and mind your own buisness. tell her she is not your mother nor your wife and you have no reason to pay attention to her and if she dont like it, who cares.
2007-10-10 08:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a better roomate!!!
2007-10-09 23:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋