Would like any ideas for something I can do for my wife. I'm in the doghouse so any of the normal marital physical fun and games are out of the question. Any ideas?
2007-10-09 21:32:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ever give her a massage? the entire body is a massageable area --experiment.
2007-10-09 21:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol if you are in the doghouse - and wanting to get out! - it means she must have had a good reason! ;-)
That being the case, don't try anything too dramatic, she will know straight away, and may need time to resolve her emotions.
I personally thing that the small gestures say a lot - if you get home before her, make dinner and put the washing on - but don't make a fuss of it.
Send her some text messages during the day - nothing soppy, maybe some jokes she will like.
Sit down together and watch a film (one that you BOTH want to see) and share a bottle of wine.
Good luck!
2007-10-09 21:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in the doghouse is no fun. It destroys trust and love that you supposedly value in your marriage.
You can start by saying that you're sorry for doing whatever it was that put you in the doghouse. And you have to be sincere about it - not just that you got caught - but that you realize that whatever it was you did - was very, very wrong and that you're sincerely sorry for breaking her trust in you.
Then you continue to apologize - a lot - until she tells you that you can stop.
Then you apologize some more - a lot more - until she tells you to stop.
Then you apologize for apologizing so much - a whole lot - until she tells you to stop.
In the meantime - YOU change your habits. For example: If you continually hang out with the guys - stop it. Hang out with her - she's your wife and SHOULD mean more than the guys. If you tend to leave your socks and such about - pick them up and put them in the hamper. You weren't raised in a barn after all and your wife is NOT your maid. If your eyes tend to wander over the hot chick at the next table - stop it. Show your wife that "puppy-dog-eyes" look instead.
Of course - if you don't want to change - and are only sorry you got caught - then I'd suggest a lawyer instead.
2007-10-09 21:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well what did you do, if you are in the dog house well you must have done something wrong, you need to think before you do anything, are you going to do the same or similar in future, sorry don't believe you if you said no!! guys do not give their gf or spouse/partner enough consideration, in a partnership or marriage the male has to learn to accept all faults, and do more than their share to make the situation work, no arguements, no fighing, a relationship can work without fighting and arguements try it you might be surprised, as for crawling back to her, well that depends why you are in the doghouse, maybe you should stay there.
2007-10-09 21:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how about good old fashioned "im really sorry" addmittin no-ones perfect and askin too move on is always an ice breaker, speakin the truth from the heart will melt eny women, dont try to give sorry gifts, talk in stead it means more. After yr 4given then u can treat her to a meal or night out. gd luck
2007-10-09 21:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by diamondjade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kind of depends on what you did wrong in order to be in the dog house. you could make a giant sign indicating what a big jerk you were and stand in the driveway proclaiming your desire to be forgiven. you could send her flowers at work with a card that says something about her being so wonderful to have fallen in love with such a knucklehead. take her out to eat, do the dishes for her or something. really put yourself down when you talke to her and stress how sorry you are. if she is like most of us, she will feel sorry for you because you are putting yourself down and then she will forgive you because you have seen the errors of your ways. by no means should the first thing that comes out of your mouth after the apology is, "could we get physical now?"
2007-10-09 21:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her away for the weekend, or even if its just overnight! find a hotel that is in the middle of nowhere and just enjoy yourself! make sure its somewhere that she will like. buy her a nice dinner and treat her like a princess! its what every woman wants deep down! flowers and champagne never go wrong either!!! or maybe something pretty and sparkly??? depending on budget of course!
Good luck honey, i hope it all goes well for you! just remind her who it is that she is married to and why she married you!
2007-10-09 21:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by dom c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a star named after her. Google star naming and go from there.
2007-10-09 21:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by mezziboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers always work for me and the puppy eyes lol. Then its straight to the bedroom lol
2007-10-09 21:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her on a weekend away
you bad boy
what did you do ? ? ?
2007-10-09 22:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by cute sexy little feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋