i need to confront a little bratt who meddled in my business, i know what i need to say to her, i need to tell her it was wrong and get her to admit what she did was wrong, and i need her to be sorry for what she has done, but she has to admit it on her own i cant make her say sorry to me or the other party involved in this, she sticks her darn nose into places it dont belong, i know she did what she did out of love and maybe some idle curiousity, but darn it the kid is a little scheamer, how will i ever be able to trust her again? not to butt into my busineess? and just how do i disapline her for this one?
2007-10-07 19:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by ♥musiclover♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is not my sister, she is my 15 yr old neice! and she knows better!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-07 20:04:27 · update #1
You don't. She is a kid, and you talk to kids Explain to her what she did wrong and how bad the situation could have gotten. Tell her that mature people think about the consequences before running their mouths. Tell her that you appreciate her concern, but that you are an adult, and you will handle your own situations.
2007-10-07 20:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's not your child, you don't discipline her. If you are not her parent or main caregiver it's not your place to discipline her. It sounds like YOU got caught doing something that maybe you shouldn't have. If she did it out of love, then maybe you should apologize to her. Maybe she owes you NOTHING!! Did you ever think maybe your business needs butting into?
2007-10-08 03:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Fireant 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Threaten to tell her parents.... and if she screws up again really tell them. If you know what to say then tell her sort of in front of her parents.... like 20 feet away... then they might notice and discipline her so you dont have to
2007-10-08 03:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by pepsi_grl13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mess in her business and show her what she did. But, give her space to regret.
2007-10-08 03:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wintermute 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say, I love you niece. Very Much.
2007-10-08 03:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋