The age I am talking about is from 21-26. Due to him pursuing higher degree in research medicine, he feels not necessary to move out yet, so he lives with his parents.
Would you find it a major issue or turn off that he still lives with the parents?
2007-10-07 20:57:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to date a guy who still lived with his parents while he saved his money for a house. He wasn't a "mama's" boy or anything. I didn't find anything strange about it at all. He was a nice guy.
2007-10-07 21:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Beckers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not while he's still in school. If he hasn't left after a few years out of school(when he should have had enough time to save for his own place), I may start to wonder, but why would he bother leaving home when he's so busy with school. I'm sure studying research medicine takes a lot of time and energy, it would be depressing to always come home to more work and an empty house!
2007-10-07 21:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on a lot of factors. How much I liked the guy, if he plans to stay at his parents' for his whole college career [medical school is a long process], if his parents were cool/ how often his parents were around, etc. What it would depend on most is if the relationship was long-term or if it was a fling. In the latter case; no, parents are a real turn-off
2007-10-07 21:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problem with that, he has been at school and studying so not just sponging off the parents. My brother is 29 and lives at home, because he pays a large chunk of the rent and it means that the 3 of them can stay in a nice home rather than moving into a tiny 1 bedroom studio flat.
2007-10-07 21:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit of a turn off, but could be okay in a circumstance such as getting an advanced degree. College can be pricey.
However, if he were just one of those folks who is a "career college student" that would be horrible.
If he's 26-30 (or older), he better be working on his Master's degree or Ph.D.
2007-10-07 21:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with living with your parents. Everyone is different and has different needs. If someone likes you/loves you, where you live shouldn't be important. Please remember when receiving answers, people are going to give you "their opinions" based on their lives. Everyone is different. I am a 32 year old female living at home, and my 31 year old brother lives here too. There isn't anything wrong with it and if the girl thinks there is, well, maybe she is the wrong girl then. I think we all care way too much about what other people think, when we should be concerned with our own opinions and choices.
2007-10-07 21:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by meljoy444 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be a HUGE problem if the guy was beyond college age and still lived at home. 21 is probably Ok, but much beyond that and you're really pushing it. Just being honest...
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2016-10-06 07:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by hoehl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who lived with his parents for a while and it was cool. His parents were really great! I missed them more than him when we stopped dating. They had a lot of space so it wasn't like we were all on top of each other. I had my own place so he was there a lot. It really just depends. I wouldn't date someone who lived with there parents if I had lived with my parents too.
2007-10-07 21:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by stax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! absolutely not !It's no problem with me individually speaking ,my ex-boy friend was 22 years old and I am 27. Would you go out with a 27 year old waitress-bartender who is(very pretty by the way ) and attending community college for graphic arts? just wondering!
2007-10-07 21:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋