My girlfriend is being immature?

Question

Hi, yesterday, I had an argument with my gf over the phone. It was just a small argument. So she said "if you make me mad again, I will go out with this guy named Alex, he has been asking me out many times, I 'll say yes if you make me mad".

I was disappointed. I always thought love shows respect and not being spiteful. If you are mad, then we can work it out, no need to go out with another guy. How would you feel and what would you do?

Answer 1

How would I feel? Condescended towards, like a puppet, resentful, and disrespected.

What would I do? I certainly wouldn't stay with someone so controlling and manipulative. She needs to learn how to deal with her feelings and communicate her needs, rather than treating you like a child (ie. "if you'll do this, this will be the consequence")

The definition of love that you told us is pretty dead on. I'd say, don't settle for anything less than that. I know it was just a little argument, but the saying "what's inside comes out" is really true. Make the right choice.

Answer 2

Well, yes disappointed first, and then I would just end up that "relationship", for somebody that really care about me, not about acting as a brat.

Please don't play her game being immature too, is better to keep far from air-headed girls like that one.

Answer 3

She isn't serious. She's willing to leave you for someone else just because you're making her mad.

Answer 4

let her go ......& tell her if you are going out with someone lese I will also do the same on my end.......

she will realize.... the mistake if she wants to continue with you .

Answer 5

dump her .... let her not hold your feelings at ransom... tell her please go... seriously mate... trust me.. u deserve better }{}