Is it time to make a move? Whats the signifigance of this connection?

Question

Lately Ive been hanging out with a new group of friends I met through school(college) and Im pretty sure this one girl and I have a connection. As a group we party go to bars and do all that good stuff, however Ive been giving this girl alot of attention and shes been responding with signs. It started out with us just having fun partying, dancing then it evolved to holding hands on one ocassion etc. When we talk to each other she always smiles at me, I smile back we make eye contact frequently and Im pretty sure we have a connection? I mean even this weekend(friday) her and another couple and I went to a sandwich place after the bar and when we were eating she was like "is this our first date?" laughingly...and Saturday while at the bar she told me she wanted to "talk" when we get back to the house. What does that suppose to mean? Is it time for me to make a move? Whats our connection mean?

Answer 1

Connection means, connection, as that you "connect" on certain issues and feelings. In your case, its the mutual feeling of liking each other, well actually loving each other, "liking" is a term junior-highschool students use not, college.... ether way. Ballz up and say something to her instead of sitting there with your mouth open. I mean what did you say after she said that? Sure? You should of said, yea if we were going out, and put HER into a position to say something else.... don't drop the ball next time, talk to her, your in college, you should be able to relate your feelings, concerns, ideas, dreams, and ambitions, or else your really not ready for a relaitonship. Don't worry thou, that never stops anyone, hence the 75% divorce rate.....