If this something she keeps doing and your not doing anything then YES get out.. find someone faithful have you asked her why? do you guys discuss your problems as a couple I would try a couples therapy but if she can't change then let her go.... your at risk for ST D'S.. you don't know if she practicing safe sex.. you know people who keep messing around even after marriage they are sick this is a sickness.. my husband is the same way.. I am about to give up we have to think on our selves too.. .but i know for sure that they try to stop but can't is just like an addiction.. I wish the best for you hate your going trough this.. good luck.
2007-10-08 01:02:41
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answered by boricua_2290 5
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What do you mean she keeps cheating on you? how many time's has she done it?
MORE information sheesh.
Divorce her if she feel's sexual intimacy is more enjoyable without you or lift your game and learn how to satisfy her properly spend more time down under on her and remember it's not all just about the damn cl!t , there is more to the womans vagina then that 1 section and if men learnt how to use their tongue's properly maybe your women wouldnt run off on ya so often.
Try different positions , or here's a novel idea , try romancing her and getting her in the mood so many time's we here men are visual creatures they need porn to be turned on or dirty words well you dont get none if you dont give none so quit with the excuses people and put the effort in period.
Good luck.
2007-10-08 04:47:34
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answered by JadeyOz 5
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You'll know when you're ready to file the papers before anyone else does. But I'd be more concerned about why you havn't already made a move to do something about it. Seek some counseling for yourself. It seems you might need some help with this and your self-confidence. Personally, I'm not a big fan of marriage counselors. If you think about it, the more a couple fights, the richer they get. I went with my ex, and it just made things worse. Not saying it's not worth a try if nothing else has worked tho.
2007-10-08 04:23:33
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answered by bonnieboobabe 5
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It sounds like its not the first time she has cheated. She has issues that is for sure and needs to see professional help. I would give her an ultimatum and tell here to get the help. separate from her. If you love here and want to give a secound chance after she has gotten that help. Its up to you but its a really hard cycle to break. If she has cheated and been caught more than once she doesn't care much about your feelings.
2007-10-08 05:03:53
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answered by rr t 1
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I always wondered why they call it cheating? If your playing a game then maybe you should pick up your toys and go play with someone else. That should teach her not to cheat.
2007-10-08 03:49:17
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answered by ceci 1
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Do you still love her? Divorce should always be a last resort...have you tried married counseling? Does she want to remain married to you? Is she carrying on an affair or seeking out different lovers? If she is carrying on an affair it could be that it is hard for her to let go of the other man for a numerous reasons. If she is seeking out different lovers thats another ball game. She may have totally missed out the point of marriage being one of commitment and loyalty to one's partner. I strongly suggest you both seek martial counseling.
2007-10-08 03:44:40
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answered by MissBarcelona 3
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Do you stay around because you love this woman (who obviously does not feel the same) or do you stay around because you don't know how to leave?? This is a huge deal. This woman is making a fool out of you....if you stay.
2007-10-08 04:16:06
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answered by Anonymous
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My motto is everyone diserves 1 chance but the second time its done
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answered by Robert 1
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It all depend on your degree of love toward her, how much you should continue to allwo her do it and if you don't like her doing it, call it a quit because she won't stop doing it. My advice is to let her go since she is choosing other men over your, its a great despise, being belittled and if I were you, I will park my things and leave or she leave if I own my house.
2007-10-08 03:44:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I would. She keeps doing it because you allow her to. You keep staying with her so she has nothing to lose. Stand up for yourself.
2007-10-08 03:42:45
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answered by kim h 7
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