He's always making little smart *** comments about me!!! He's all like "I love you dad" but I can tell he really doesn't mean it. I mean seriously what the hell did I do to deserve this. So one night I decided to get back at him and let him drink some wine at dinner...a LOT of wine. So when he passed out to sleep that night I snuck into his room and drew a BIG PINIS on his forehead and wrote "I LOVE BIG PINIS!!!!" HA! Then he went to school like that and he didn't even no! It was so funny he even got 3 detentions for it!!!! But then my wife got all mad at ME when he came home crying! Like I did something wrong??? I mean seriously he started it. Wot should I do to convince her??
2007-10-07 16:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by Bigferribunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-10-07 17:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok are we seeing where your son get his smart a** ways? You stooped way below his level and to give him wine until he passed out was really not good. Apologize to your son and your wife and sit your son down and talk to him. Find out from him what is is that botheres him about you. It is going to be a bitter pill but you have to know in order to see what his problem is.
Let him talk to you uninterupted and let him get off whatever he has on his chest. Even if it hurts your feelings. Listen to him carefully and anazyze if it there are things you can change. Now if he starts talking bulls*it because he doesn't want to do what you say then I would have to let him know that I am the adult and he is the child and that is just the way it goes. I would punish him for his smart mouth because a smart mouthed kid I just can't do. If the punishments doesn't work I don't know what to tell you. When my son won't shut up and I have warned him nicely I find the back of my hand across his mouth. But I know most people don't agree with spanking or coporal punishment but I do. I never beat my child to death but I wasn't going to talk to him forever and absolutely don't tolerate disrespect or stupid behavior. If talking to your kid doesn't work he may need counseling for one reason or another.
Good luck because I know that situation is not an easy one. Trust me my son is 15 now and he definitely has a mouth on him but I know he gets it honestly from me.
2007-10-07 23:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by cinnamon35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn the English language! Your kid treats you like an idiot because clearly you are one!
"I LOVE BIG PINIS!!!!" Are you a moron?
This kid doesn't stand a chance in life with you as his parent.
I'd tell you to go and read some parenting books, but from the looks of things, you can't read or write!
When did your trailer park get internet service anyway?????
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2007-10-07 23:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and show responsibility. Actions speak louder than words. What in the world were you thinking giving your son wine in the first place. And drawing a Penis n his forehead. That was a cruel and immature thing to do. I think you need some counseling on parenthood. Good luck.
2007-10-08 01:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is either a cleverly provocative question or a great display of moronic behaviour on the part of an adult.Wouldn't we all love to be your kid...ridiculed by his whole school for some prank his father did to him and perhaps now to be teased about being gay for the remainder of his school days. I imagine he will be scarred for life because of your immaturity. Get some help and be the adult in the relationship.
2007-10-07 23:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by RealGuru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I will have to say it out loud and bare with me. I know how all of your guy feel about each other. Well the damage was done now it is a time to heal. He got 3 detention and it is serious in my opinion. It will take her long time to forgive you. Your son will not be friend with you for a while. It is time to talk to your wife first and explain to her why. Try to talk when she feels better and make sure she understands your revenge. You probably have to be patience with her. For your son you need to face to face with him like a man. He needs to know that you are a boss who pays for his food and rent. I do not care if he is step or real son. It is about time to let him know how to respect for adult. You wife needs to see your point as well and you need her support for your reaction. After that you have to apologize for your part as well as your son then thing will cool off and no more fight. Sorry to see you have to be a bad guy for this action.
2007-10-07 23:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't any need to convince your wife. The most important thing is you must offer a hug apology to your son. Let your son know that you are going to speak to his principal tomorrow to explain what you had done.
After school take your son to his favorite restaurant and speak to him on how much you love him. I think your son is very shy, and the fact that he did offer to say that he loves you is enough. You need build a relationship with him, so you will know what's in his heart. God bless
2007-10-07 23:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!!!!!!!!....Whos the kid here????? No freaking wonder he doesn't respect you. You're as immature as he is! Get help man! Learn how to be a dad. There are books and all kind of resources. I'm thinking you don't give a damn about being a father and the kid picks up on it. Honestly, I feel for the kid.
Hes has the rest of his life to figure things out. As for you...theres no excuse.
2007-10-07 23:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by davemustang262001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How immature are you? You are stooping down to your son's level and no matter how much of a smart @$$ he is, he is still your son. You aren't making him respect you by playing practical jokes on him and "getting back at him". You are just making the situation worse. Parenting is not war. Be an adult.
2007-10-07 23:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mine's 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't say your son's age but the problem seems to be shared between you two. You don't seem to act like(by your own description) some one he can look up to.You and your whole family need to go to therapy to work to heal your family.
Your whole family is in trouble get some help before it's to late.
2007-10-07 23:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by info.girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's the smart ***? Who's the adult and who's the child?
I see why your son treats you the way he does. Grow up, be a dad not an ---hole.
2007-10-07 23:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by KM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋