I have been dating this guy on and off for three years during that time I realized we both matured a lot. he has been really instrumental and motivual force in helping me start my business and for that he will always be in my heart. We only had sex once three years ago. We both share a really good friend between us. She tells me that his problem is that he gets bored sexually HOW DO I BLOW THIS MAN MIND I AM WILLING T DO ANYTHING AND HOW DO I KEEP BLOWING HIS MIND. He is a really good guy and would make an excellent husband one day. Keep in mind the first time we had sex was three years ago and it was great and that was the last time. Recently we have really reconnected. He is someone I can be quiet with that is so important and there's no ackwardness. Were both in our thirtys.He is not bored with me he just gets bored generally with sex.
2007-10-07 15:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
relationships dont last if the sexual spark ain't their honey.... sorry but u dont need a man making u feel that having sex with u gets boring !... move on and find a man who will find sex mind blowing every time u do it.
2007-10-07 15:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. I can't relate to being bored with sex. I mean, I may have gone through very short phases (like a week at the longest) where I feel somewhat bored with sex. But 3 years? I dont know. Have you tried to be aggressive and initiate sex between you two? Maybe he just isn't sure that you want a sexual relationship and he's not the kind of guy who will just try to make a move without being sure.
2007-10-07 15:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by egn18s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tease him. Then tease him some more...then tease him the most. Wear sexy clothing under your dress when you go out. Let him know that it's under there. Perhaps let him take a voyueristic peek once. Wear stockings and hot sexy shoes. Do in a window on a high floor of a hotel....wake him up with a bj...when he comes home or to your house (whatever) make sure he finds you alone in your bed masturbating by yourself...when he opens the door, he'll know that you were waiting for him to show-up and show him you...
Both create an alter ego and go out on dates as those people sometimes. Make sure that this "person" is completely opposite of your selves. DOn't break character ever.
2007-10-09 06:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by TheGarlicButterSaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it starts with communication. My husband and I are very comfortable with each other sexually...I know what he likes and does not like (which is not much)...and vica versa. You have to be willing to talk and ask questions while you are having sex and oral sex. Find out what he is into, what pleases him, what he would like to have done to him. Know his fantasy and make it real for him. Nobody should EVER get bored with sex...there is just tooooo much to do and tooooo much that can be done to keep it interesting. Honestly, with men, the best place to begin is with oral sex. There are things that I have done with my husband that I never even thought about doing with people I had dated in the past. But the key point is, we are comfortable with each other enough to try new things in the bedroom without feeling weird or embarrassed. Use your imagination and find out what it is that could keep him from getting bored.
2007-10-07 16:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by jenn4chrisphillips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physiologically, you are able to nicely be waiting for intercourse, yet are you waiting for the actual and emotional outcomes? have you ever seen protection? have you ever seen in case you and your boyfriend harm up sooner or later (it fairly is possibly to take place, due on your a while) which you will would desire to tell yet another guy you misplaced your virginity at age 15? and you are able to subsequently be judged or categorised because of the fact of that? At age 15, you do not understand somebody nicely sufficient after a month to have intercourse. If he's "taking each and every thing actual sluggish" he's attempting to tell you he's not waiting yet. comprehend his needs and wait...ideally till you're of criminal age. inspite of the consequence, you will sense sorry approximately having executed this so early in existence.
2016-10-21 09:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do spontanious things, do things that your comfortble doing that way he too will see you hot. if he's about to come over, make sure your naked, find out if he's ever had any fantasies and make them come true, just not the same day, that way you always catch him off guard.
start it off in the car, end it in the bedroom.
try not to make it happen ev. wk. work on maybe just once a wk., heck start once ev. two-three wks. for starters
2007-10-07 16:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by itsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to wake that wild animal inside!! You may need a little help, wine,porn,and attack without reservations, use all your secrets/tricks to trip his trigger hard&often!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-07 16:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u absolutely sure your his flavor
2007-10-07 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
animals?
2007-10-07 15:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try alot of oral techniques
2007-10-07 15:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋