He love me so much...what ever he do i can't appreciate it...i am so very upset of this situation...what can i do about this...i hope u will give us an answer..
2007-10-07 23:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well at least you realize that you dont appreciate him. If that is the case you need to let him go find someone that wil love him. You cant make yourself love someone. He may just not be the one for you, and if that is the case there is nothing wrong with that, it is only wrong if you lead him on into thinking you love him. Let him find love and you will find it too!!
good luck
2007-10-07 23:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by mad_curves_n_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is if you dont have feelings of love for him after that period of time, it is time to breakup.
From a different perspective perhaps a more reasoned response is that in time you will come to love him. Years ago, arranged marriages were common and people often did not meet each other until shortly before they were married. Eventually, in most cases, each person came to have deep feelings for each other because that was the expectations of society.
A more cynical answer is that love does not really exist, it is an recent invention of western society. The french trubadors at first wrote elegant, wistful poems about the relationships between me and women in midevil times. Before this, most marriages were arranged by the patriarchs of the family or the parents of the woman. In a revolt against this lack of choice woman embraced the ideals of these romantized poems of love between men and women. Ergo, you seek what is merely a concept invented and cultivated by Western society. From this perspective, perhaps all that is necessary that he cares for you and treats you well.
An answer other than these sweeping generalizations would require knowing what characteristics about him you dont like or what thoughts that you have keep you from loving him. Perhaps if you make a list of these things you can determine your own answer to your lack of romantic feelings for him.
2007-10-08 06:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by rorzzz09192007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't already love him you are not going to.
Break up with him and find someone you love. Staying with him is just going to continue to cause pain to both you and him.
2007-10-08 06:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by blueink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Windex. Windex heals all wounds.
2007-10-08 06:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Firedragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't love him now you never will - break up for his sake.
2007-10-08 06:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Gooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop leading him on and find someone you have those feelings for
2007-10-08 06:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋