My girlfriend gets really angry with everyone when she is having her period and last time she had it she lost it with me and said that next month when she is having her period I will have to wear her used pads to feel what it is like!
I was like ewwwwwww about the whole thing but I did not tell her out of fear she would snap my head off. I am really scarred of getting an infection if do this. She said if I don't wear them next month she is going to dump me. What should I do? Is this normal behaviour from girls?
2007-10-07 22:17:21 · 30 answers · asked by Mr Nobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there,
its very bad of your girlfriend for doing this thing to you. its unethical for someone to let others use her pads after her period. If this was a test for you then its not right, loving someone has its limitations and restrictions.
think about this...if you
do this ... then you are a fool. she can manipulate you whenever she want regardless of your feelings as well the person/s around you. she will hurt you so bad.
not doing this ....then you still have some respect for yourself.
dump her ......(she has no respect for anyone...) there is some one far more better than her.
2007-10-07 22:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by huggy_lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She gets angry with everyone when she has her period?? The girls would have moodswings during this period, etc, but i dont think being angry with everyone during her period is a good excuse. If she gets angry over such things, i suggest you should talk it out to her as this is a lopsided relationship. It seems like she is sucking up energy from you, for the littlest thing??
And no, dont do this. Stand firm on her for this one. It is definetly not a normal behaviour from girls.. I wouldnt do that to my boyfriend if i had one.. ; She has some issues with her temper, and really need to deal with them, for her own good. If she were really to dump you because you didnt listen to what she says, just let it go. It's up to you actually. Would you want to spend the rest of your life being under the mercy of she and her moodswings?
2007-10-07 22:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by MyOhMy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
when we have our periods our hormones run wild, one minute were really angry and bitchy, the next we are depressed and crying. Sometimes we snap at people and apologise later. We do say things that we regret.
Just need to understand what women go through, just be there for her. Help her relax, get her a box of chocolates.
It was wrong of her to say something like that.
2007-10-07 22:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Glamourous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not normal. That is abusive and for obvious reasons not sanitary at all. Do not wear the pads. You could get an infection. If she is that psycho during her period then she needs to get her hormones checked. There are meds out there for her to help with that now. Get rid of that one if she will not at least check out that option. She is not worth the hassle.
2007-10-07 22:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her threaten here, and don't do it. You can get an infection. Periods alobe don't make them any more or less edgy, proabbly something else. Just a GF here, so if she leaves you over this she'll be the villain.
2007-10-07 22:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go see someone about her PMS.
She has to find a way to control her emotions. Having her period is not an excuse for being rude or irrational.
2007-10-07 22:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by mahawi61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting an infection?! bahahahaha. Wow boy u really made me laugh. You can't get any infection from the pads, that you can't get while having sex with her.
But eeeeewww (as you said), that is a gross thing to do! I can't stand pads myself (and Im a girl!). Advise her to use tampons. Its really much cleaner and comfortable.
It was my bf that advised me to use tampons for the first time, so it won't be awkward.
2007-10-07 22:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's crazy. i can understand that she wants you to be uncomfortable but that's to a point of unsanitary(with a sanitary pad) tell her that you are willing to do something to show that you do care for her like maybe something uncomfortable or embarrassing. think of alternatives. tell her friends then maybe they'll think she's crazy too and will talk some sence into her.
2007-10-07 22:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by goodgodgreg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal behavior if she really tries it. But like mst hormonal women she was probably throwing a tantrum and saying things she herself would laugh at if she hadn't been hormonal.
2007-10-07 22:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Do you really want to be with someone that is going to control and dictate you ? Plus that is really gross and Im a girl... is this for real? Thats just sick.
2007-10-07 22:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by What Up! 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋