raped/not raped..heres my story..has anything ever happened to you?

Question

as dumb as this is going to sound..last night i went to a party w/friends. Ihad a few drinks but not to where i was too drunk..i dont remember anything, ecept tiny lttle bits, i remember talking to my friends friend outside thats all , I woke up in the alley , i had paseed out, it was late , & my clothes were dirty, n my pants unzipped, my blouse looked thrown on, i went looking for the car we came in & realized my friends had left, i started crying and was super scared i didnt know what to do I didnt have my purse or cell, someone called the cops & next thing i know i had 3 cars pulling in front of me, they asked me questions & tried contacting my family, they kept advicing me i go the hospital b/c if i didnt drink that much then i shouldnt have passed out or not remember anything, so some1 couldve put something im my drink..i couldnt stop crying. i was so frieghtened & upset I told them idk yet i just wanted to go home. Today i felt so so sick i slept all day & threw up like 5 times

im a pretty good girl i never drink to much and i amnot a party animal, i go to a party like once/twice a month, i have a few frinds,,,

Answer 1

Oh lovey, sounds traumatic..
It does sound like you have had your drink spiked, but if you were raped then I think you would definitely have known it.

Sexual assault is still sexual assault, whether you were "penetrated" or not is not the point.

If you need someone to talk to anonymously I would suggest you contact a local counselling agency. I would personally have gone to the hospital straight away and also reported the incident to the police.

I really have nothing else to add except for the fact that if I were in your position, I would be a lot more careful about the people I went out with in the future, and also where I got my drinks from.
I hope you feel better.

Answer 2

Sounds like someone has spiked your drink, more than likely is that the person who did it was the one who had sex with you. That is called rape.

You must go to the docs and speak to who was at the party, find out who was hanging around you etc. I would bring charges, how would you feel if it was your lil sister or daughter this happened to next time?

Your bound to be scared, possibly more scared of finding out that yes you were drugged and raped, but you arent to blame.

Use this experience to look after yourself more in the future. Never let your drink out your sight. Drink direct from a bottle with an anti tamper device on it (you can buy these from online and in alcohol stores)

Try and brave it out, no good ignoring this.

Answer 3

Whatever it is, I think you should go for a check up. Whatever the outcomes be ,be glad if it is good news, however be strong if it is a bad news.
Just take it as lesson learn in life,& move on. Seek Godly counsel it will help you very much too.
All the best,..life is still very beautiful. Enjoy it but do not overdose it. God Bless.

Answer 4

They probably gave you roofies. Never leave your drink unattended. Find out if you can who did this to you and have them arrested. You would lknow if you were raped. Hope you did not have your house keys and address in your purse.

By the way, what kind of "friends" would leave you alone like that?

You need to change your company and your lifestyle!!

Answer 5

watta sh1t friends you have!! dont be scared, dont cry and cry. your tears cant help you! i think your friends set you up, dmn them! they put some sleeping pills or something for you to sleep. do you still any drops of that liquid you've drink that night? csi could help. do you have any of your "friends" that you know could have rapped you, or has any hidden desire? cheer up gal! its not the end of the world! get up to your bed. look any dress that you look glamorous. go to school. let them see you that even though they did that sh1t thing to you , you are still beautiful! pretend as if nothing had happened. you can do it! try to read the invictus by William Ernest Henley and you will be enlightened. i can be your friend. [e-mail] ;]

Answer 6

it is not lots on an identical time as i'm on my own that creepy issues take place, yet I continually get the sensation i'm being watched when I bypass away my room whilst each and every person else is asleep, commonly it stops when I get in, however the worst grew to become into in basic terms randomly whilst i grew to become into in my room, I slept with my outfits and the lights on that night >.> additionally in my basement from time to time there's a noise it incredibly is precisely the comparable because of the fact the noise made whilst the lights for the staircase bypass on or off, yet whilst i seem over, not something has replaced. happens fairly much on a daily basis too ;; yet yet lower back whilst i grew to become into with my lady pal i'd desire to have sworn i'd seen somebody observing the backside of the staircase wearing all brown, yet when I regarded decrease back not something. additionally at night, from time to time my computing device will turn itself on, even whilst this is closed and the flexibility twine isn't in the plug, and it commonly happens at precisely 3AM or 3:24AM The creepier ones take place in school however :< (this is fairly lots haunted, because of the fact the land is so previous, business revolution got here approximately nearby) additionally, this did not take place to me, yet my pals moved right into a house the place the previous proprietor had these days died, she grew to become into an notably superb previous female however. Randomly the water would run and the storage door would open, and the youngest toddler would be chanced on conversing to the air. His mum and dad asked him who he grew to become into conversing to and he stated "i'm conversing to my pal Annie". the girl who owned the living house formerly them grew to become into named Ann.

Answer 7

You should go see the doc now, asap, to check whether there occured any form of forced penetration or whether there existed any forms of semen traces left. Please do that.

Answer 8

Whoa RAPED YUP