2007-10-07 23:54:53 · 16 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Not wrong - just very stupid.
2007-10-07 23:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons why someone would marry one person while "loving" another - Prince Charles & DIanna Spencer are among the best known examples. Charles was deeply involved with Camilla - but because of her status as a divorcee - couldn't marry her without Charles having an heir by someone who wasn't a divorcee. Therefore he married Dianna. Once Dianna bore the "heir and the spare" she was no longer required in the picture. Tragic. She was such a lovely person - and Camilla is such - well - Charles deserves such a - well - we won't say in polite socitey.
Anyway, today there are still cultures that arrange marriages based on many other things besides love. And, for the most part, those arranged marriages last and do extremely well. Whether one or the other "loves" someone else - well, that's not for us to know. But assuming that both honor their vows and remain faithful to each other - enough feelings can grow to make things work quite well. Kind of like putting a pot of cold water on a hot stove - it eventually heats up and bubbles on forever.
The problems begin when one or the other spouse decides that he or she wants both the spouse - and the lover.
Is it wrong to marry someone you do not love - especially if you do love someone else? Again, there are so many other factors that in truth there are no cut/dried answers to that question.
2007-10-08 08:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances. Everyone has a choice between what you want and what is right. Basically, weddings are optional and it only occurs if two people love each other so much they want to raise a family. With that, what you want is also what is also right. Conceptual Simplicity, Structural Complexity.
Damn it! I can't understand what I'm saying now. Basically Marrying the one you love is the right thing to DO!
2007-10-08 06:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Coin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a very good start for a happy marriage. I'm sure that if both parties put effort into it, it could work; however, why marry unless you're truly in love? It doesn't seem fair to either person.
2007-10-08 07:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just imagine yourself marrying a guy and u're in love with someone else..this will be totally unfair for the one you married..you can't live with him like that..you'll keep thinking about the other one..just be careful..these are people's hearts you're playing with and also your little heart will get broken..if you love someone else but he doesn't love you back don't go marrying someone because of that..don't rush things..just try to stay cool and engage yourself in stuff that you enjoy...before any commitment.. give yourself time to get over this guy before marrying someone else
2007-10-08 07:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u not marry the one u love? i mean if u love someone else u should have never gotten married because now u are in a marrage that is not true and probly will not last very long.
2007-10-08 07:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by schultzie2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong, morally wrong. Marriage is a limetime commitment between two people that love each other not a game of "gee, i don't love you but i'll marry you anyhow". Good luck, i hope this isn't you.
2007-10-08 07:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by mom to be 6/27/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"thinking of marriages are made in heaven" a proverb
if ur married dont think about past , if ur unmarried think a while about ur lover becoz u accepted him whole heartedly so u have to accept both his postive side and negative side
i relates upto our mind
think a while before taking a decision is a good one
all the best
2007-10-08 07:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by hasini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it is not fair to the person you marry that you don't love and anyway, why would you? Why would you marry someone you don't love?
2007-10-08 08:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe and maybe not . Without knowing the circumstances it is difficult to judge . Unless the reasons are practical and very good ; it can cause terrible unhappiness for all three people concerned .
2007-10-08 07:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by kitiyapron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love a man "a" and get married a man"b" yes it is wrong.
why don't you marry the man you love that is "a"? i can't understand!!!!!!!!!!!!what would be the reason to marry someone you feel nothing for?you will end sad and unhappy.
what is best?happiness or unhappiness? its your call.
2007-10-08 07:05:48 · answer #11 · answered by ALEXANDRA-MARIA S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋