What do boys look for? Am bright good looking girl but due to events get tired easily..would a boy want me?

Question

I went through traumatic events that means i get tired easily, only can work part time, people always ask why i dont have a bofyriend but as a business graduate won't climb the ladder and have diminished earning capacity. i used to be an athlete and am attractive. would a guy want me given i am damaged goods. if not for this i would have a lot to offer, always get on well with guys, confident but can't compete fnancially so a guy may want me to earn as much as them. does this effect guys or would they love me anyway, given i didnt damage myself, i was on the recieving end of someone elses actions and recovered as much as a i can but still get tired...would a guy want a girl who is good looking but can't keep up financially? the boy i used to like is now a Senior executive...he probably cant comprehend part time or limited career. i like achieving but have limitations. would like guys opinions. if you didn't know, would you take me on? i only had good boyfriends pre-attack.

Answer 1

No you didn't, had you had good boyfriends, you wouldn't have this twisted view of yourself, nor how relationships go. You think because your damage goods thats going to stop someone who truly loves you? You have been hurt, relax, that doesn't f'in matter one little bit. This talk about getting tired? I don't know what happen to you, but people who care for someone else ADAPT. Its not even changing, its about comprimise, understanding, trust, all combined to make companianship. SO RELAX!!! DON'T YOU DARE CHANGE YOU OR HATE YOURSELF BECAUSE OF THIS!!! Realize in our culture we have a shortage of real man, I know, I'm a male. So you might want to hold on to the fact, that it isn't you thats keeping a good relationship, its most of us.... good luck and just be patient, spend time getting comfrontable with you, and trust that one of us males, well find a purpose, become a man, and bring you along....