Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

2007-10-10 20:28:30 · 23 answers · asked by linda 1 in Family

2007-10-10 20:27:50 · 8 answers · asked by Phillip M 3 in Singles & Dating

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them

2007-10-10 20:22:34 · 5 answers · asked by ~electra~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife some times crys for no reason it pisses me f and i yell i ask her why r u crying she says because i feel like it and because im a women why would she cry for no reason and do all women cry for no reason also what im i spose to do to make her stop crying yell at her ?

2007-10-10 20:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I will share mine when i was little I was quite the nose picker me and my sister had bunk beds i slept on the bottom bunk and on the side of the mattress i wiped them all the time whe we moved my parents took apart the bed and upon moving my mattress they discovered my booger museum all different sizes shapes and colors collected over like two years my dad gagged and made me cut the fabric in a circle where i had put my boogies and throw out the piece of fabric my siblings do not let me live that down! I grew out of that now i use tissue like a lady!

2007-10-10 20:14:34 · 4 answers · asked by TootsiePop 3 in Family

Some women say its what's inside your heart not outside and also I find women want money only or should we say it seems like they are gold diggers. What do women really what?

2007-10-10 20:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by T. J 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30 and met a great guy. We've been together for 3 years and we talk about marriage often. I think things are going to work out. When I was younger, I did a few adult videos in a different point in my life. I want to be honest with him, but I'm scared of what he will think. Not many peole know I did this. Should I tell him?

2007-10-10 20:04:44 · 14 answers · asked by cooperpi 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is 15 and she gave her number to a 24 year old guy in queensland shes in adealide with me and apparently hes been saying weird stuff to her

he wont delete her number and she cant change it coz then her mum 'will ask questions' and she wont tell me what he says tho

how can she get him not to call or txt her?

she met him online and hes had her numeber 4 a few months what can she do? can she block him somehow?

plz help shes really scared and im scared for her

2007-10-10 20:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by kiss_on_the_lips_22 2 in Friends

why would.a. married woman commit adultry knowing there going to lose self respect once it is known on them by family.friends. and there husbands. with a younger man in his teen.s and there in there.40.s do they think we would want them no. way. why risk it and lose your self respect over being used by a teen isnt it sicking . or what would you say they lack moral.s in there marrage when they have a good man . and children to so why loose .something you want but can never have but being looked down on by other,s . there age. once caught doing this with a teen. when there in there.40.s why?

2007-10-10 20:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to reunite for over a year now, but i dont know what is behind the reason he mentioned to my daughter who is a young teen.,....in a letter he wrote "secretly" to her it said he wants to take her places but he cant right now because mom wont allow it but that is the way it has to be right now. (end of quote) and my question is why did he want to take her alone somewhere out of all my other kids and including me? he says let it go but i cant and will not reunite until that is clear in my head.
what do you think? been there anyone? if not then at least i got this off my chest.

2007-10-10 19:57:51 · 6 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Singles & Dating

I let her go, she has moved back in, clothes everywhere. I trip over then everywhere

2007-10-10 19:57:48 · 11 answers · asked by crackers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They are not gay, just like the clothes. How do you advise them on if they should?

2007-10-10 19:41:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

... probably would NOT be okay with that. How do I convince her to let me do it?

P.S. I'm NOT gay, I just love the feeling of womens clothes and makeup.

2007-10-10 19:38:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He will have TWO degrees before the year is over and I have none, I have been a stay at home mum for 2 years and I do want to be because I want to raise my kids myself but at the same time it would be nice to get out and use my brain more and be in different surroundings with other kinds of people to talk to (my friends are mostly mothers too) I kind of resent him sometimes even though he is a great guy but I feel annoyed and don't want to do housework unless he is at home helping me with it. It annoys me when people say often "you aren't out there earning money so you should do all the housework and let your husband relax" I earn money too! I made my own darn business to get extra money because last year he decided to take time off work without telling me, I am STILL making money and raising our daughter full time, why should I be responsible for majority of domestic duties and be so grateful to him when he is out there working having a good time

2007-10-10 19:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

hes sweet and likes me still ( alot)

2007-10-10 19:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has behaved extremely badly towards me over the past year (affair, lies, cheating, and now telling me to have an abortion I don't want).
I see all that as my problem, as it's my marriage.

Our friend who was actually his friend first is really angry at me. She is having a birthday party and we haven't seen her for 2 years [she's lived overseas - coming back for the party].

My husband was going by himself - I'm fine with that. She says because of our problems she doesn't want him to go without me. She is basically ditching him as a friend because of what he has done to me.

I tried to make her see that I am fine with them staying friends. God knows he needs at least ONE friend who is sensible and can give good advice, i was happy for it to be her. i still want her friendship too.

She is angry at me for sugesting she has no reason [of her own] to dump him as a friend. I appreciate her support, but i think her attitude is a bit strong.

how to handle her?

2007-10-10 19:35:12 · 11 answers · asked by sass24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this a guy for about two years and al of a sudden he's been asking this right in the middle of sex. Is it that he may be insecure also?

2007-10-10 19:34:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants to be married in a church but has no chirch background but wants to learn. What is her, and our best option because she does not want a christian wedding or know a lot about religion in general.

2007-10-10 19:33:50 · 17 answers · asked by scottcity25 1 in Weddings

and she kept on telling me "what if i find someone new? what will you do?"....

2007-10-10 19:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by jj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont think my husband realizes how selfish he is. I know he loves. We just got married and I moved to Colorado to be with him. I havent been able to get a job we only have 1 car and he needs it all times for his job. (Army) I left my whole world behind for him. He spends all the money before we have a chance to pay bills or buy food. He bought an Xbox360 with his last check then promised me that he wouldnt play D&D anymore (he plays sat. nights) but now he has land partys where he goes to his friends house and plays xbox. He is gone all night on the weekends and I am so loney and stessed out. Its hard to make friends because I am always home and he is always gone. My depression is getting worse to where it hurts. Its hard to get out of bed and I have sharp pains in my gut. I know he sees it but he doesnt know how to deal with it so he just leaves. I love him so much but Im at the point where my heath is more important. What do I do? I try talking but nothng is getting through to him

2007-10-10 19:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by This Sucks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Four years ago I lost a good job and my fiance left me because she said she couldnt watch me treat myself the way that I do. she said that I was my own worst enemy.so I moved back home to maine near my family but I have pretty much isolated myself only leaving the house for therepy two to three times a week and other than that only if my cousin would practicly force me to hang out with him and his wife because he says I need to get out of the house. I havent maintained any type of a relationship with anyone includeing my son and close friends.I dont work or do anything Because I hate life and dont really want to be around people. Im not even like myself anymore. I used to be meticulous about my appearence now I look and feel terrible.

2007-10-10 19:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She left for vacation for the week. I thought "yay, house to myself"!!!!!. Next thing you know, I come home and he comes in the house! Hes on the couch all night talking, watching tv, etc, and then asks "I'm sorry. Am I invading your privacy? Is it okay If I stay the night?". He doesn't have a place to live down here yet (where he works). So he slept on the couch. WTF? My roomate told me NOTHING that he was expected to stay here while she's gone!!!!!!!!!!!!!I Im soooooo pissseeeeed offffffffffffFFFFFF! I feel like strangling her! Should I look for another place to live? Or should I wait till she comes back to strangle her?


The fact is she never told me! Hes a nice guy, but still! WTF!?? I feel totally uncomfortable in my own ******* house!

2007-10-10 19:24:25 · 31 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

My family is about to move to another state, and I'm not going with them. I'm going to move in with my boyfriend and live with him. They obviously don't know this, even though I've brought some of my things to his house. We have never been an "open up and talk to me" family. Even my online friends know more about me than they do. My older brother is living with his girlfriend, whom he has kids with, and though they don't like it, they don't say anything. But I'm the girl, so they're going to treat me differently. The only way I can think to tell them is just to leave a note, but I know that's not a good thing to do. If I have to do it, I will. But, if there's any other method, please tell me. (And, I'm 19.)

2007-10-10 19:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by LivingDeadKat 4 in Family

2007-10-10 19:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by marichu g 1 in Family

after 7 years of marriage, because there is no communication in the relationship, and the marriage is on the rocks, and one of them still thinks they love the other, but the other person is no longer in love, is there any chance if they got back together that they will stay together? The relationship is very one-sided, but they are both willing to give it one more try. Do people actually fall back in love again? I thought once the love is gone, its gone for good!
By the way, there was no communication while they were separated. This doesn't sound like the marriage has potential to get back off the ground. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-10 19:18:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a six month old son. Me and his dad broke up before i found out I was pregnant. After I told him he moved and changed his number. I guess he just didn't feel like bein a dad. I know I have a while before this subject will come up but it is driving me crazy that I don't know what to tell my son about why he doesn't have a dad. Any suggestions? I dont want to make my son feel like he wasn't wanted.

2007-10-10 19:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by jenhicks87 2 in Family

cons of this relationship . she is dam stuborn about it she says she cannot think of anyother person her life well i felt bad that this relation ship should end up sour . honestly i hate to leave her it is not the question of sex or something else if i wanted i can still flurt lot with other women . told my best friend about this thing he told me it was time i talk to my wife and break the ice . well iamm wondering what could be the outcome . and this girl friend of mine oneday i don't call her up will ring up me minimum 25 times a day well it may sound for some people having two women a pleasure from sex view of point but for me everything is excess well friends suggest me

2007-10-10 19:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as far as i know,he's living with someone else already,i was thinking about the conjugal property and of course the processing of annulment.

2007-10-10 19:14:22 · 1 answers · asked by mel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 19:13:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He studies full time and I am a stay at home mum. I look after our daughter and that is pretty much it. I do housework mainly when he is at home to help out and I cook after he cleans the kitchen (usually) I don't want to do too much of the domestic stuff because I will feel as though I am accepting the role of a stereotypical housewife and I am against having to do all that crap on my own. Most days I just go out with friends, visit them, go out for lunch, go shopping and the like. Usually when my husband is home from work or uni or wherever I will be asking him to do housework with me, a lot of women are saying to be a good wife by letting him be the head of the household and it is pissing me off, I would rather us be equal, I don't want to give a man power over me, do you think it's because I was raised in a single mother household?

2007-10-10 19:11:44 · 12 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Marriage & Divorce