Are women really concerned how a man is built?

Question

Some women say its what's inside your heart not outside and also I find women want money only or should we say it seems like they are gold diggers. What do women really what?

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

I am a guy but when you go into a relationship, its not about looks but you shouldnt want to be with someone who does not presnt themsevles well or wont be able to support a family because of there lack of desire for more. I mean, How can you imagine living like that, you know pay check to pay check and never getting anywhere. Keep in mind, I am a man and my wife does not work and I support my family well. I know she is not there for my money or looks that for sure. We have been together since we were 12 so I know money is not an issue with us. Now we have 2 kids.

Answer 3

I once used to fall for men with good looks....It's useless, coz after sometime when the true personalities start surfacing, the man's looks simply seem to fade away......It becomes so insignificant.

But when the man possesses a pure heart, has an interesting personality, fun, loving, knows how to treat a lady & is willing to give the woman what she truly deserves......the love & attraction just seem to last forever.

It's not fair to blame people for being attracted to good looks. it's all about their personality. What is important to one person, doesn't necessarily have to be paramount for another.
Some girls go for looks, some go for the personality. Usually as girls mature, the latter seem to be the trend.

So, don't worry about it.... Just be who you are & do what makes YOU happy. Then only you'd be able to keep another happy.

All the best.

Answer 4

It depends i have met alot of girls that are all for looks. Those are the types you need to stay away from. For me my boyfriend is perfect because he listens and respects me. Thats all a girl really wants. Girls tell you everything they want and need like I blab to my boyfriend about how i feel and he never listened. Then he started to listen and he turned into the guy of my dreams. Just listen to what the girl needs and she will be yours. Im the type of girl that isnt concerned on what is on the outside i just want someone to open there heart.

Answer 5

A man that will treat us with respect! Not all women go for looks and money! My partner is quite big built and has no money but he treats me right thats why i love him!

Answer 6

honestly, we are just as concerned as man on how our partner looks. Because we do not want our friends and family talking on how small or fat or thin our man looks.

And YES! we love money... don't you? woman tend to want to date men who have a stable career and big incomes, it provides security. It means that we do not have to go through paying the bills for dinner or paying anything else for our men...

And unlike men who generally likes their woman to be slim, pretty, beautiful and wears big cup, different woman have different taste for men and also different wants.

good luck!

Answer 7

it differs according to each particular woman. but i think a lot of women want a combination of looks,heart and money(although the last one is not that important...well not to me anyways)

Answer 8

I think woman are concerned if they're attracted to some guy or not. This attraction is not always because of physical appearance.

Answer 9

when a "woman" is younger, of course it's about how he looks. when she finally grows up she will know to look at his character, heart and personality among other things.
same thing goes for guys too.

Answer 10

My boyfriend is a dork with a heart of gold, and that's all I ever wanted. :)

Answer 11

That question is different between all women.
Personally extremely built guys look disproportional to me, like, lumpy. =)
A guy who makes me laugh always gets my attention.