What would you tell your male best friend if they told you they want to dress as a girl 24/7?

Question

They are not gay, just like the clothes. How do you advise them on if they should?

Answer 1

Honestly, I would tell them that they are my friend no matter what-but not all people will treat them right, so be prepared for some problems.

Answer 2

The way I came out was this: I wrote my mom a letter, in that letter, I wrote everything I wanted to say and included a lot of information. The reason why I think this is a good way is that it allows you to say everything you want to say without being in the middle of a war when you say it. Often, when you are face to face and the adrenaline is flowing, you forget a lot of the good points you wanted to make. So, write that letter, give it to your mom and tell her that you'll be available to talk about it after she's done. You may have some fight ahead of you, but nothing can change what's in that letter and if she wants to try to act like it isn't happening, there it is.

Answer 3

"Good for you. If you need my help with anything, just lemme know."

Crossdressing isn't connected to homosexuality most of the time. It's something else entirely. A man can want to dress up in women's clothes without being sexually attracted to men. So if I had a friend going through this, I'd support them. Because judging by the responses here, no one else would.

Answer 4

to him that society frowns on this desire,that he wants with no disrespect,. He told you this because he trust you,Tell him he has to see a professional dominatrix. he can act out this fantasy and be accepted and feel so beautiful during the time frame agreed on with him and the Mistress and with her only; Tell the Mistress even he is going to the extreme of a sex change operation He has to have a lot of money to want to be a girl with or without the operation . tell him their is to much competition out there getting so hottt looking all the time,,He will have a hard time getting and keeping a job. Tell him you understand

Answer 5

I accept you & your life choices. No matter what you look like, you are still my friend. The outside of your persona does not change the person within.

It's ok if you don't understand him. It can take family & friends a while to fully understand stuff like this. However, you can accept him as he is. He's still the same person he was the day before, it's just he's now more honest with himself.

Answer 6

Hi, I think you should not be judgemental, regardless of your personal beliefs and perhaps even encourage them to experiment, if no harm is going to come from it. Might be a passing phase and if not, I'm not prepared to impose my judgement on them. My position is...if it hurts nobody it's ok. If you see the behavior changing indicating a real mental problem, etc., it's time to intervene. Meanwhile, who is to say what it right and wrong ? We all have our fantasies, etc and exploring them can be a good thing if keept within reason, legal and hurt nobody,

Answer 7

I'd tell him that if he likes to dress-up in girls clothes that he should do it, but I'd also tell him that I like to dress as a girl too every now & then and ask if I could join him.

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Answer 8

i would say u are gay cause i dont think no guy would wana dress like a girl just cause they want to i would tell them to come out of the closet or if they like it that much to go find a girl

Answer 9

Ask him if you can go to a drag bar for fun...hehe. That would be quite the experience. Just accept him. He's not any different than he was before you found out....

Answer 10

i would support his decision. my male best friend has kids, and my concern would be how he would prepare his kids for this life change. i wouldn't tell him not to do it. I would just voice my concerns and ask if he was ready to embrace the challenges that are ahead of him.