Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

this guy shane
died on sunday..his heart meter gave out when he was
sleeping(?)
he wasn't even 18 yet and te ceremony is right down the street
my sister new him and i met him a few times
he was the nicest peson we ever met and
should i go to the funeral??
or should i stay home? ='[

2007-10-10 19:10:30 · 18 answers · asked by .anna. 2 in Friends

There is a short story were a guy and a girl are talking. She brings up that they have been dating for 6 months and she wants things to become more official. When she brings up that they have been dating six months it reminds him that 6 months ago he had his car checked out. From there the story goes on to show how women over think things in relationship and guys are just kind of clueless sometimes.
It is a great story that is pretty funny. If you have any idea who wrote it, or what I am talking about let me know. If you have any questions I might be able to clarify it more.

2007-10-10 19:05:34 · 3 answers · asked by Jeff D 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 5'7 waist 25 and weigh 115lbs is this an ok weight?

2007-10-10 19:04:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been w/my bf for 3 years (he's 29 never married, i'm 28 w/3 girls part-time). we don't live together but i spend most of my time at his house (we don't have sleepovers when i have the kids so we don't confuse them-not till we are engaged).

we've had our issues due to me having PMDD. i see a counselor and takes meds for it. he almost cheated on me 6 months into the relationship (went out to dinner w/another girl but called her to tell her no more talking when i found out and left him). 2 months ago after an bitter fight-he called a girl co-worker just for someone to talk to-they talked for 2 hours then never spoke again. 3 weeks later she called him while i was at his house-he answered saying his gf was there and that she was not to ever call him again-they no longer speak.

just this past weekend we went camping w/his family. when we returned home-i did all the laundry,dishes,and made dinner. we left for work after that.

pls read below-important for answering

2007-10-10 19:02:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my bf alomst 1year ago,and i went on a few dates with some really awsome guys,but i dont have that inner spark or that feeling of excitement anymore ;(
whats a girl to do?

2007-10-10 19:00:38 · 1 answers · asked by miss fetch 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I go to the store today to get food and some odds and in's for my daughter's Bday next month. So I give the cashier my bank card and she said it decline ok so I left everything there ( Forgot my cell ) so I go home and look on line at my bank statement the $100.00 I had in there gone to Kay Jewals but where ever it was costed $125.00 ok so thats a over draf fee. ok so I asked my husband if he got something from kay jewals he said no so I called him over to the computer so I called the bank to see who used it and got the last for numbers from the card that has been used. Of course it was his numbers. so then I called key jewals and asked them what it was it's a neck lace with the name Melissa on it. So I showed the lady my id and my Account info so I asked her if I could she the neck lace so the neck lace is in pices right along with his card. so I go home look at my husband with a smell and me and my daughter and I goes and takes a nap Kay jewals calls to let him know it ready

2007-10-10 18:59:05 · 12 answers · asked by Melinda B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The kind of unconditional love where you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that, out of all of the people on this planet, she/he is the one and only? That you would litteraly take a bullet for without a second thought? Or if they were in a fire accident and they looked horribly deformed and you still stayed with them forever? or that every kiss after the first still felt like the first kiss? Or if they left this world for the next, that you would stay loyal even after death and not marry or even date afterwards?

THINK ABOUT IT LONG AND HARD AND BE BRUTALY HONEST!!!
THINK ABOUT IT LONG AND HARD AND BE BRUTALY HONEST!!!
THINK ABOUT IT LONG AND HARD AND BE BRUTALY HONEST!!!

2007-10-10 18:57:35 · 24 answers · asked by Juice 3 in Singles & Dating

Not ebay.

2007-10-10 18:54:58 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah Outspoken 3 in Weddings

Seriously, men out there...what do you find sexy about a women? I don't buy into the idea that you want all of us girl's to look like GIselle (though what a world that would be!) What do YOU PERSONALLY like?

2007-10-10 18:51:51 · 9 answers · asked by courtneealexis 2 in Singles & Dating

I have enough reason to believe she has visited some dirty websites, atleast since Saturday. Her inbox is filling with (unread) dirty spam, the "blocked website" list is filling with names of dirty sites, and last week I found a porn picture a kid gave her, from a magazine, under her bed! She forever denies that she saw it or put it there,
and doesn't know how it got there. (I know she did it, I'm not dumb and she mad that I blame her, not sad that she's in the doghouse). So I'm clueless what I should do
about this with her since after last week she obviously went against me "Saturday" on the net. For one thing she's now banned from the net, "anywhere"! She was already in royal trouble from the "porn" picture. I wish I could fax her to the moon for a while!

2007-10-10 18:51:41 · 17 answers · asked by BlazingFire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

going out with a fiver and coming ome with a fiver it seems they want equal rights only wen it suits

2007-10-10 18:50:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, first of all I come from New Zealand but originally from the Philippines and because my "PARENTS" speaks Tagalog (national language of Philippines).... well ever since I was a little child, my dad always say stupid and dumb to me in Tagalog, the way he says it to me breaks my heart and it really hurt... so on 30th September, I did nothing wrong and my dad just keeps on saying to me stupid, dumb and etc in Tagalog and so well, I couldn't stand of what he said to me, I said to him "FUCK YOU" and when he heard, he starts hitting me and throw one of my black school shoes but unfortunately, nothing happened to me instead it happened to my mum since she was blocking for me from being hurt... =( now she got all the pain especially when she was kicked by my dad... so im wondering any advice??? of what can/should I do.... my mum said to me that I should always greet him even though he dont talk to me, but its weird for me, so please its urgent...otherwise I will put myself into death! and another thing is that do you think I will be put into hell from god since I swear to my DAD? im scared!!! =(

2007-10-10 18:50:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I cant sleep. Then again, I have no job and am worried about making ends meet. Whats your excuse?

2007-10-10 18:49:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At what age did the opposite sex start showing interest in you, like they wanted to be your boyfriend/girlfriend?
At what age did you start to feel like members of the opposite sex actually wanted to engage in sexual activity with you?


Please include your gender in your response.

2007-10-10 18:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by egn18s 5 in Singles & Dating

Was it good...did yall enjoy it and how was the overall feeling....cos wen i first did it it wasnt that good....just need some feedbacks

2007-10-10 18:46:05 · 17 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy i used to date, whom i want to remian friends with, lies about EVERYTHING. hes already lied about being married, he has lied about getting some new great job when he really didn't, he lied about his " wife " sending a picture of someone else more attractive than his real wife. he alwasy brags up his life. and you might say that he is doing it to make me jealoous or something , but thats not the csae because he hardly ever calls so i know he doesnt like me. unless he does and playin hard to get. what do u thinK?

2007-10-10 18:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you rather find out that your partner has been CHEATING on you for the past 2 years

or

Doing drugs with his friends for the past 2 years?

Hypothetical question.

2007-10-10 18:45:14 · 14 answers · asked by Claude 6 in Singles & Dating

Why do most guys complain that girls talk too much? I really dont see anything bad about it. I mean, that means there isnt that much awkwardness with the silence and that the guy wont need to talk much. Or is it just me? And do girls kinda dislike it if a guy asks too much questions and talks a lot?

2007-10-10 18:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by bootoohed 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the characteristics that you would want your boyfriend (or husband) to have? What makes him your ideal boyfriend/husband?

2007-10-10 18:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Mutual Help 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 18:32:34 · 6 answers · asked by redneckangel82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Answer must be humerous, either parody a movie or song.
Find something topically interesting, and leave your phone number if female and good looking for all the male stalkers copying this question? NOT!!!

What is expressing your love? Either a poem, art, or a feeling, perhaps an oxymoron, preferably not your husband or ex, for the guys to be fair, the ideas some might call baggage but have a positive spin as a lesson where you experience true love as a burn mark dowsed hopefully in Herbalife Herbal Aloe Gel, just joking! Gotta have fun, and the odd sales pitch, you too. But not the whole answer???
Must not be in cliches, or hints, go easy on me, I am legally blond!
Please limit use of words to no more than twelve letters per work and do not use double triple quadrupple negatives, split infinitives, expletives, offensive words, or just plane rude insults, ie no mocking condemning etc, have fun, enjoy creatively loving the meaning for what you love living?
Smile in you're typing?

2007-10-10 18:31:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any ideas?

no I'm not getting a divorce
yes I live in the US

why am I asking? I'm just curious.

2007-10-10 18:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by jane d 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you proposed to your girlfriend and she said no, would you break up with her?

2007-10-10 18:27:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known him for two years, Ive liked him for a year & a half. He has a girlfriend-who lives far away.He began actually dating her 3 months ago.When I found out he got a girlfriend I was crushed. But I saw how happy he was.
When he has that smile on his face, it makes me smile;just knowing that hes happy. & Im happy for him. I just want him to be happy, even if it is with another.
Its been 7 months since her. I cant let him go. I tried to & I told myself I didnt like him. It didnt work. I told one of my friends that I didnt like him-she caught me.
I cant let him go. Its hard on me because it makes me sad even though Im happy for him.
I can just stop liking a guy-but with him its different.There are little things that make it like we belong together.At first I thought it was coincidence, but theyre a constant.
I want to stop liking him, but I dont. I dont want to tear him away from who makes him so happy. My friend said that I more than like him if that was case. I just dont know.

2007-10-10 18:27:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's all I ever think about.
When I see him and he doesn't see me I love to just watch him exist.
When I see him looking stressed out or upset or in pain I can physically feel the pain mirrored in my heart.
When his name comes up in a conversation, my ears perk and my eyes sparkle...ask anyone.
When I think of my future I can't even imagine it without him there (and I have a VERY creative imagination.)

I miss him more than any human being has ever missed any other person place or thing in all of time.

...he is my ex.

can i get him back?

2007-10-10 18:20:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Soon to be 54, I need a man who will respect my privacy. I want to pamper him, want him to pamper me once in awhile, but don't want either one of us to EXPECT it. I can respect his issues, if he can respect mine. I don't like children, in-laws, NO SMOKING, extensive drug use, alcohol abuse, or over eating. No money loans, no borrowing my car, no forcing religious beliefs on anyone. Did I mention I hate smoking? I just want to enjoy life for as long as God lets me. Am I expecting too much? What do you thinK? Good Luck & Blessings

2007-10-10 18:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor is the sweetest neighbor anyone can have. He is 32 years old, has ceerebral palsey, and has trouble walking. He also has cancer, and lives in the ghetto. I help him out whenever I can, and invite him for dinner, as he has no friends, and his family is far away.
he recently told me that his wife passed away some time ago, and her parents are insisting that he take her money since she dies, and it is rightfully his. He refuses any money, and any help because he thinks that it is blood money. He is very sick, and lives off of social security, and is barely getting by. I want to help in amy way I can, and I said that if his wife was alive, she would want him to have a good life, so he should take the money, even if he'll hardly touch it. At least he will never have a problem with food, bills, and he can live in a better place. Please help, and help him to understand that his wife would have wanted it this way. Her parents tried giving $10,000 recently, but he just refused it.

2007-10-10 18:15:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jenyfer J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What characteristics do you look for in a girl, looks-wise?

2007-10-10 18:11:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 18:10:29 · 8 answers · asked by Tadeyas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend's husband is abroad. he advised her to apply for a job in the same country he's in. unfortunately,my friend is and undergraduate and is right now jobless and is taking care of their 2 children. she has no time to apply for a job locally, since her hands are full taking care of the children. and yet, her husband wants her to apply for that job, and use her sister's credentials as her own. in other words, he wants her to submit the documents of her sister and pass them as her own credentials.(sis is a college grad).he just asked her to photcopy the docs and change the name. my friend doesnt want to, but his husband is talking her into it every day, to the point that they were now fighting bec of that.her husband said that she should just follow his instructions bec he's the husband and therefore, she must obey. my friend cud bring the kids with her if she gets accepted at that job. what do u think?

2007-10-10 18:09:02 · 14 answers · asked by j 3 in Marriage & Divorce