Girls, which characteristics would form your ideal boyfriend (or husband)?

Question

What are the characteristics that you would want your boyfriend (or husband) to have? What makes him your ideal boyfriend/husband?

Answer 1

47 Things I Want That Don’t Exist In One Person, Alone: (In no particular order):

1) Places God & Family Before All Else
2) Honesty Within One’s Self
3) The Ability To Think & Communicate Rationally
4) Emotional Maturity & Security
5) Conversational & Communication Skills
6) Personal Goals For Both Self & Family
7) Strength In Character
8) Multi-faceted & Well Rounded
9) Has Enough Of His Own Personality That He Can Be Fulfilled, Even If Alone
10) Doesn’t Require Constant Validation, Yet Will Afford Me Validation Should I require It
11) Accepting Of Even That Which He Doesn’t Understand
12) Strong Traditional Values, Ideals & Gender Roles
13) All-forgiving; Able To Accept Forgiveness
14) Proactive Listener
15) Ability To Receive & Accept Help & Criticism
16) Ability To Stand Firm In His Convictions
17) Accepting Of & Be Able To Feel Love Toward My Child
18) Spiritual
19) Ability To Love Unconditionally As Well As Be Able To Accept Unconditional Love
20) Accepting Of His Own Faults / Accepting Of Mine
21) Ability To Be Empathic
22) Ability To Love, Accept & See Beyond Physical & Other Shortcomings In All People Including Himself
23) General Positive Outlook
24) Sexually Compatible
25) Patient
26) Functions Well Under Pressure; Stress
27) Spontaneous
28) Honest & Truthful Regardless Of Possible Repercussions
29) Considerate
30) Verbally Open & Able To Discuss Any Topic; Further Creates Discussions About Subjects That Will Further Deepen Levels Of Intimacy & Trust
31) Has Interests Independent Of My Own
32) Good Provider
33) Sense Of Humor
34) Ability To Be Independent Yet Also Be Dependent On Me
35) Accepting Of His Own Feelings & Emotions
36) Ability To Be Genuine
37) Romantic In Nature
38) Open & Accepting Of Change
39) Expressive
40) Genuine Interest In Me As A Person
41) Committed
42) Creative
43) Ability To Leave The Past Where It Belongs; In The Past
44) Should There Be A Disagreement, The Ability To Openly Discuss The Situation & Offer / Accept Resolution
45) Loving & Able To Express Love
46) Devoted
47) Honorable

Answer 2

In no particular order:

humor, ability to respect me as an equal and a parter not just a wife/woman, ability and will to cook/clean at least as much as I do, intelligence, good looks/good body including a certain sized penis, committed to never having children and has no children, similar interests, a good debate partner/doesn't always agree with me, doesn't mind being poor/has his own money ('cause I've got penniless dreams), doesn't do romantic cliches/is more genuine than a bunch of flowers or equally cheesy gift, emotionally expressive, not macho or 'manly' but understands people are more androgenous by nature etc...

I did find what I was looking for!

Answer 3

You know after 10 years of marriage I can happily say I formed my ideal husband, it took alot of compromising but hey that's what marriage is, full of compromises lol.

Answer 4

Someone that is not fake..... if they don't like you for who you are then it won't ever work out.... don't try and put yourself in a mold that you think they want you to fit..... as long as you are a decent person and have respect for them and treat them well then you should be fine and women will respect you

Answer 5

1 rich
2 compromise
3 fertile
4 dont demand more then 3 kids :D
5 not much handsome
6 understanding
7 never betray even after death
8 listening ability
9 excellent family (understanding)

Answer 6

It is not a "characteristic" it is the whole person. I can love him even if he does thing I hate... Love is a strange fish my friend.....

Answer 7

Kind, trustworthy, faithful, sensitive, compassionate, considerate, ambitious, and a great sense of humor.

Answer 8

he's really patient with me...he gives me space when i am angry and accepts me wholeheartedly back again when i have cooled off...he doesn't hold my shortcomings against me and supports me in everything i do...he manages to make me feel special and he knows how to make me laugh...he's just simply wonderful!

Answer 9

money money money