Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

have you ever realized how much life really sucks? i thought about it today and got really depressed. i mean, im in 9th grade and am a year younger than everyone else because i skipped a grade. its just f***ing scary what people, and even my friends are getting into. people i know very well are like practically having sex....and i just think that 13 or 14 or even 15 is too young. i have a open mind...but still........it just makes me sad. ha ha that sounds stupid. but oh well. i just wanted to rant....no answers are necessary.

2007-10-10 11:52:28 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean physical qualities in a high school guy

2007-10-10 11:49:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 & my brother is 7. mom spanks us. were too old. if i dont flush the toilet or do dishes, she spanks bare butt. even if i curse a bad word. if we do something and dont admit it, we both get spanked. my brother does bad things and doesnt admit it. then we both get spanked. i have to suffer for him. my mom gets mad when i giggle and spanks me harder. how can i prevent getting spanked and giggling when i have a nervous laugh? i cant help but laugh because im so scarred.

2007-10-10 11:46:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I thought Gay Marriage was supposed destroy the "sanctity" of marriage? Judging from these states it's done the exact opposite? Shouldn't they have the highest divorce rate? For that matter, why are the top 10 states with highest divorce rates red, and the 9 lowest blue? I thought Republicans were trying to protect the "sanctity" of marriage? Well, it looks like they failed. Heck, it looks like the whole idea of marriage being destroyed by Gay Marriage has been crushed.

How can you possibly continue to hold the stance that Gay Marriage hurts the sanctity of marriage? If you say, well that's just Massachusetts. Then you need to explain Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands, and Canada, which have also survived perfectly fine.

2007-10-10 11:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 11:37:38 · 54 answers · asked by doublejan 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so basically i am in love with my bf. and my dad is in the army. i am a junior in hs. and my dad just got orders to japan. we are supposed to be moving this summer. so i will be there for my senior year. well...after that I plan on coming back to the states. my ? to you is....do you think that me and my bf can make it last for a year while im gone?

2007-10-10 11:28:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think i should be mad? (he also has said that to me as well, but he is MY boyfriend)

2007-10-10 11:28:18 · 18 answers · asked by whatever 2 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to date a man who has been married 4 times and plans to marry again?

2007-10-10 11:26:09 · 39 answers · asked by classy1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is 28 and I am 36. She has two kids, g8 and b2 both sweethearts and seem to be taking to me. We both want the same things out of life and our relationship from what we have talked about and I am falling very much in love with her and her children.
She says she is very much in love with me but something happened last friday now I am having serious doubts. She stayed over last friday and we had a few drinks and she went to bed before I did. I was watching tv and her cell phone kept ringing, this was about 1:30am so I looked in case it was an emergency(parents, family etc) when I saw she had 8 messages. I saw texts from a guy she had not told me about saying he loved her, missed her etc. They were older texts during the time weve been dating, last one on 9-19-07. She just cleaned up her texts the few days before this so she kept them. I asked her about this the next morning and she said it was an ex. I believe her & feel bad & down about the whole thing I know I was wrong in looking.

2007-10-10 11:21:26 · 23 answers · asked by dantrag 2 in Singles & Dating

married for 2 years. Hubby is pretty reserved and shy. I have to initiate everything and I am tired. He won't even touch me unless I do. My ex husband couldn't get his hands off me and my hubby of 2 years won't even touch me. What would you do in my situation???

PS: I am attractive, 5"7, 130 pounds so before you say loose weight, etc..... looks is not the issue here.

2007-10-10 11:13:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are planning on getting married May 24, 2008. He is in the army, currently stationed in Fort Knox, KY but we are both from North Carolina and would like to have a beach wedding. Does anyone have any ideas about how we could have a cheap but nice wedding, because we have no money! We have to pay for it all ourselves, so we want something simple, but unforgetable. Does anyone have any ideas about where we could have the ceremony and reception? We want to have the cermony somewhere on the beach of North Carolina... Thanks!

2007-10-10 11:12:50 · 9 answers · asked by Little Miss Sunshine 1 in Weddings

okay theres this teacher that gave me a zero on my test because i asked my classmate to help me on this question.
so is he harsh or not?

2007-10-10 11:11:09 · 34 answers · asked by bAbi♥gUrL 2 in Singles & Dating

I want a relationship for life and will put everything into it.

2007-10-10 11:07:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin who is 42 years of age, very pretty, talented, and with a good personality and of decent reputation is always in church praying and praying for others. When I introduce her to men, she always says: "I want a man with a good pure heart with good intentions not just anyone."
My family especial has been trying to set her up with a lot of dates. She is not picky, but just too religious, and too virtuous.

What are your suggestions?

2007-10-10 11:04:53 · 9 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Marriage & Divorce

evertime we argue she calls the police .and has had me aresed on flase charges nothing seems to work. now we are getting divoce I love her but i cant take any .sence i been out she doesnt call.seening my 2year old isnt happening eather.

2007-10-10 11:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by slowdown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Around the age of 8, were you meant to the girls you liked? At what age or when did your attitude toward the ones you liked change?

Please answer this, and just to let you know, I'm not 8 years old, I just need this question answered.

2007-10-10 11:00:42 · 1 answers · asked by cherryblossom32496 1 in Friends

I've met a few women that I've dated at concerts. You'd think a club would be a good place, but for me-zilch, well one time.

2007-10-10 10:55:15 · 13 answers · asked by Mason K 4 in Singles & Dating

Why are realationships so hard? need advice!?
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Latley though we have hit a rough patch. We were seperated for a week and during that week I ended up meeting someone else. The guy I met is 3 years younger than me. He is a really sweet guy and I cant stop thinking about him! He has been understanding about this whole situation. Me and my boyfrind are now back together but I am still talking to the other guy. (but NOTseeing him on the side)When I go to bed thats who i think about, when i wake up thats who i think about, during the day thats who I think about! It's driving me NUTS!!!
I have to keep reminding myself that me and the other guy would more than likley NEVER work out, so why do i keep thinking about him? Why do i find myself wishing i was at his house instead of my BF? Why would I rather be in his arms? What to do what to do? I'm driving myself crazy!!!! Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-10-10 10:48:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this question is directed more towards guys between 15-19 years old (i'm 16)

i just wanted to know what you look for in a girl. like physically and personality.

i am 5'5", 100 lbs, blue eyes, dark auburn hair, very light skin, toned, my face is pretty similar to my avatars but i dont think my eyes are quite that big lol

i have a good sense of humor, i'm patient, a good listener, confident, i sing and act, i love being outside, going to the movies and dancing.

what do you think of me? would you go out with/be attracted to someone like me?

[i am NOT looking for a date or anything i just wanna know how guys see me]

2007-10-10 10:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by starjuice811 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. There's this guy in three of my classes, and he sits across from me in my science class. He spends most of the period flirting with and talking to me. In my other two classes, he stares a lot, but I don't sit very close to him, so I don't talk to him much.

My theory is that he is just bored and has nothing else to do...he's pretty social, but we don't really get to talk to people from other tables in science, and the other girl who sits at our table doesn't like him at all.

2007-10-10 10:41:48 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsay 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I go blonde: would that be more attractive?

2007-10-10 10:40:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my good friends is getting married in November and I am throwing her a Bachelorette party. I am just afraid to do something too crazy or too clean. I want something middle grownd and every site I go to for games and Ideas are a little to much for my taste. HELP! I know it's a tough one.

2007-10-10 10:38:16 · 11 answers · asked by Andrea A 1 in Weddings

Do you think they are in love ? does he still think of me? I asked him to give me another chance and he told me it has been a nice 7yrs. to go on with my life .Help I just can't get over him

2007-10-10 10:38:08 · 5 answers · asked by kellie1031 age 50 and divorced 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i told dis boy that i liked him and then he told me that he had 2 much **** going on 2 have a gurl friend an then he told me not 2 get him wrong and 2 write back.So i wrote him back and said that it was ok and i wasn't mad and that i would wait 4 him and **** and then he wrote me a note saying that hes sorry and he doesn't think im his type.and can we still be friends.After i worte back and say ok we can still be friends he went out wit this girl named eryn. I just really don't understand y he would tell me that he didn't want a gurl friend and then go out wit this other gurl. Y did he do that.

2007-10-10 10:37:16 · 31 answers · asked by raeblue13 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and he said he liked me .but wheni asked him out he said no because he wanted to pay attention to school so he could stay in football but then he asked out one of my friends but she said no and i have no idea wat to do

2007-10-10 10:35:50 · 5 answers · asked by inlovewithphilip 1 in Singles & Dating

-been good friends with a girl for a long time
-shes always been with guys that just didn't deserve her, did not treat her well
-finally started to get together and things were going great
-she says she wants to be with me and that would be the best thing, that would make her happiest
-Then says just doesn't want to be with me right now but in the future and hangs out with other guys

not sure what to make of this?

2007-10-10 10:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by BarryBadrinath 2 in Singles & Dating

She has only guys texting and calling her everyday, but she made get rid of every girl who was just a friend. It seems like alot of girls think when guys have girls who are just friends, thier automatically cheating. But when girls have guy friends they always say their easier to get along with. WHY?

2007-10-10 10:35:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for a couple who makes 70K combined income a year and has 20K in the bank for a down payment. Also, no debt and a few student loans (that get paid every month on time)

One person is also working on their master's (paid for buy their employeer) and will increase their income by about 15K-20K when completed (about 1.5 years)

2007-10-10 10:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Weddings

He was at his mother in-law house, he put his head at his mother lap, usually she would give him a massage to his head, if their body are so closed to each other,would you believed they also do sex too if no one in the house? he had fantasies have sex with the mother in-law every time he see her,right after he married to his wife?do any one believed they did not have sex also?

2007-10-10 10:31:41 · 16 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when they have a sexual desire what do they do, do they

go out to various clubs and bars, and actively seek men, sleep with different men, until one sticks with them?

is the sexual part inside their brain and body, dead?

since they feel it is wrong for men to watch porn to relieve sexual tension, I am curious to hear what they do with theirs?

and what makes their actions morally superior to a man viewing porn?

2007-10-10 10:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by animosity 3 in Marriage & Divorce