Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

what options do i have?

2007-10-10 08:54:44 · 3 answers · asked by Rick and Tammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 08:54:00 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Lasha♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah, basically I work way too hard to get to that point where the girl in my life wants to sleep with me, but then I can never get the condom to work. No, seriously. I can't roll it over my angry banana. It stops unrolling after the happy mushroom. No joke. I try to forcefully unroll the rest, but then I just punch myself by accident, which hurts actually. This sounds like a joke, but I'm serious.

2007-10-10 08:52:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so me and my bf have been going out almost a month. We have kissed but not french kissed yet. I have also told him that I am a virgin and I know he isn't but whenever someone brings up sex and I mention that I am a virgin he says that he can fix that. Meaning I guees that he wants to have sex with me. Know what I want to know is what I should do? I do like him and I am ready to have sex but I don't if I want it to be him. Also he is not pressuring me to have sex with him but he is being truthful when he says he can fix that. What should I doo about it. We have not gone out on a real date yet since I baby-sit all the time and my parents don't know. I am almost 17 and he is 15 and will turn 16 sometime next year. It is not only his age being under the age of consent that I don't want to sleep with him but I don't know if I really want him to be my first. If I ever do sleep with him I would wait till he is 16 or older. But what should I do also he is not pressuring me? HELP

2007-10-10 08:48:44 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I was verbally and emotionally abused by my stepfather for the latter half of my childhood. He never did molest me physically but he did make lewd comments and insisted to my mother I was having sex when I was only 12, which I was not. Sometimes he would get drunk and actually crawled into bed with me a couple of times, I guess he thought I was my mother. I was always worthless, stupid, a **** and a ***** from the time I was 9, according to him. My older brother left because he had the option, but I didn't. I could never do anything right, and I never learned to trust myself or my instincts. That has gotten me into a lot of trouble in my adult life. I kept quitting college, because I was convinced I couldn't do it, I wasn't good enough. I married a man that abused me and my children, but I left him and we still do not have a place of our own. I am convinced I am a bad mother, so they often stay with my mom, but she thankfully divorced my stepdad a long time ago. How can I heal myself?

2007-10-10 08:48:12 · 8 answers · asked by scottishbeauty 2 in Family

I want to do Vanilla ice but my DJ said that prob wasn't a good choice unless I wanted the wedding party to be staring blankly at each other.. And then running to hide. He suggested a slow song and then after dinner he'll hit Mr. Ice.
What songs can you think of that mention friends?? Funnier the better and I love the 80s!
Thanks!!

2007-10-10 08:44:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am in love with this guy and we've been going out for like almost 2 years and its been an on and off relationship. I think he doesn't treat me the way he should and don't think he's faithful. Are there any guys out there that are faithful? Is there such a thing as someone being faithful? Anyways I met this other guy that is older and is very sweet and I like him. I've been talking to him and think he's awesome and well he really likes me what do I do?

2007-10-10 08:44:10 · 19 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

I have finally realized that women do have a serious case of it. I am trying to change. So do you think there would ever be a society where women feel that they are not entitled to everything.

2007-10-10 08:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why can boys from about 17-28 be so immature? what can i do to make them leave me alone?
my brothers have got their mates round. and they will not leave me alone!
they're all acting really immature and they are sooo annoying!
they wont stay away from me or let me be on my own.
my question is what should i do?

2007-10-10 08:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i don't know whether to feel angry or relieved.

2007-10-10 08:41:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 14 years. 3 years later I gave birth to our son and 3 weeks later he had sex with my best friend in the back of her car. I found this out 7 years later and 2 more kids later. I asked if he had a girlfried and he said that he has been talking with a girl via phone, email and on business trips to CA. This has been going on for 3 years. He says that it is over and nothing sexually ever happened between them but I don't believe him. He say that I am the only one he loves and wants to be with. How do I know that he is not playing me again. Is it possible for him to change?

2007-10-10 08:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was playing football a bunch of my friends, guys and girls and we have coed times so its kinda fair. we play tackle but usually when the guys tackle the girls they do it pretty softly. except for this boy named ryan who always guards me, whenever he tackled me he grabs my breasts to bring me down, always "accidentally" but I know he does it on purpose. a

any ideas on a good way to get revenge on him on the football field, i wanna really make him regret messing with the girls

2007-10-10 08:40:19 · 48 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u think its wrong to have a guy who is a friend......only
a friend noting else......that i chat with sometimes........even though i m married?

2007-10-10 08:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by Dear to all 2 in Singles & Dating

It will be a year this saturday that my boyfriend and I have been together.He sold his house in Florida and we moved away from all family.I wished for us to reside in NC. About 2 months after we were together I started noticing his insecurities and controlling behavior. I have left and came back to him 4 times already thinking it would get better. After our move it's not better and he is more down and negative now then ever. He is a hard worker and a great father to my son.He has never beat me or anything of the sort.Yet, my family is concerned that one day it could lead to that. He has threatned to kill himself many times if without us. I just feel I have lost myself, I feel as a prisoner, walking on egg shells to keep him smiling. I've left to visit family~ I'm torn on wether or not to return. Please help Me!!!

2007-10-10 08:37:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your opinions! :-) Just a few questions I wated to post...out of curiosity:
1. how important is it that your woman knows how to cook?
2. in a perfect world, how many times per week would you and your loved one be intimate?
3. what do you normally do after being intimate? (sandwich, cuddle, talk, sleep, smoke, etc.)
4. what initially attracts you to a woman?
5. what is the fastest way to a woman's heart?
6. do you have a body type preference? (petite, athletic, thick, etc.)
7. what one trait or habit is an automatic deal-breaker for the relationship?
8. your age (if you wish to leave it)

Thank you for your honest answers!

2007-10-10 08:36:32 · 5 answers · asked by YSIC 7 in Singles & Dating

If you ask how should you do it? Do you straight up ask will you be my gf or do you come up with something creative like a token showing your commitment?

2007-10-10 08:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by Rickyxlnos 2 in Singles & Dating

he thinks i still like him but i moved on. I don't care for him anymore. he doesn't like me either. i don't want to talk to him.

Any Ideas?

2007-10-10 08:36:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From beginning...we have been together 4 1/2 years we have two small children together. I am 22, he is 25. We love each other very much, although we do have a somewhat rocky relationship. We spend alot of time together and we tend to bicker alot about small things. I have alot of trust issues stemming from an affair he had while i was pregnant with our first. He was talking to her and hanging out with her behind my back, but swears they only slept together once when he ended up at her place after a night at the bar. These trust issues have gotten alot better since it happened a year and half ago. We worked through it mainly because we were having a baby, but also because we loved each other and he knew he had made a big mistake. Since then, we have been getting better, raising our daughter together and moving on with life. He and I have an amazing sex life. We have sex nearly every night and it is always extremely satisfying for both. We're both very sexual people and like 2 experiment

2007-10-10 08:36:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 08:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by jim m 1 in Singles & Dating

i do my hubbys lunch box for work each day, he keeps it in a rucksack that has lots of pockets.

He took our recently processed holiday photos to show his work mates who happen to be mostly female.

I emptied his bag earlier on to do his box, and noticed the photos at the bottom, i took them out and later on decided to place them in the album.

I discovered that the photos were only of him and the children, and the ones of me alone, with him and children were gone. Wondering where they were, i looked in his bag to see if they had fallen out...

and in the secret zip there they all were.

Am i making a big thing that he could of not shown these photos to his mates?

Is he ashamed of me?

why would he seperate these from the rest?

2007-10-10 08:35:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one would like to be friends with ...someone we like to know ?

2007-10-10 08:34:01 · 1 answers · asked by E.B. Jacques 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you think whhen your boss is family the bulling is worse?

2007-10-10 08:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by lovin life 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think of him in moments of loniless, and loss. The what ifs plague me, and it's been nearly 10 years! I'm curious to know what other people have done.

2007-10-10 08:32:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He cheated once and seems very sorry for it, he hasn't acted like the controlling asshole he used to be. He seems to have changed and seems like a sweetheart now. I'm scared that he'll do it again. We've been going out for a year with that 3 month cheating break and we've been back together for the past 4 months, I feel like I could forgive him eventually, but I'm scared and I feel bad when I rub it in his face. He says he did it because he was scared of feeling deeply about anyone (he was in a 2 and a half year relaitonship with a girl who left him for someone else) (Thats what he did to me). I kind of believe him but I'm not sure. What do you think? Should I forgive him? Do you think he'll cheat again? Do you think I'm making a mistake? Or should I give him one last final fair chance?

2007-10-10 08:31:41 · 34 answers · asked by Vexi_Lexi 4 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy that I am totally into. I really like him and we've been hanging out lots lately. We are both in our 20's. Whenever we get together he gets super close to me and snuggles me, and he's never tried anything sexually with me (except kiss me). Last time we hung out, he said he loved hanging out with me so much and if I wanted to hang out the next day. So the next day I texted him and asked him if he wanted to hang out still but he said he'd love to but he's really tired from 3 games of football that day, and he was leaving in the morning for a tournament. He said he didn't realize how tired he'd be. It is a 30 min. drive.
This was on Saturday. It is now Wednesday and we have texted and chatted on MSN but he hasn't asked me to hang out again. Should I just let this ride and wait for him to ask me, or is the ball in my court? If you were in my situation what would you do? Or if you're a guy what would you expect the girl to do? Thanks in advance!!! :) I really like him.

2007-10-10 08:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going out with this guy that Im not aloud to go out with. My brothers told me I cant and since my moms dead and my dads gone alot there in charge. Anyway this guy told me tonight we were gonna have sex or hed slit my throat(Im 13 and hes 14) Do I tell my brothers and get in HUGE trouble or have sex. I really dont want to have sex!!

2007-10-10 08:29:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this girl that my boyfriend claims he doesn't like. He's always trying to annoy or embarrass her by making rude comments to her in front of other people. She either ignores him or seems oblivious to his intentions, she isn't the brightest crayon in the box. He's constantly looking at her too when she's around. He keeps making negative comments about her to me but since he's paying so much attention to her, doesn't that mean that he's attracted to her on some level? She is kind of pretty.

2007-10-10 08:28:19 · 30 answers · asked by monkey 3 in Singles & Dating

Let me preface this by saying that I am putting it in the marriage and divorce category because I am hoping to get some better responses that I would from the teeny-boppers in singles and dating. I am dealing with this situation, which, admittedly, is a little weird. I have been with my boyfriend long enough to have worked out all of OUR issues - he's not the problem here. The problem is that about a week ago, he had an awful nightmare that I was cheating on him (preposterous) with one of our mutual acquaintences, and that I was very cocky about it, and not sorry at all. This is an awful dream, of course, and he woke up very very upset after having it. We talked about it, and he knows that I would never cheat on him, so things mostly smoothed over. Until yesterday. A group of friends are planning a get-together, and we are invited. Unfortunately, so is the acquaintence that he dreamed I was cheating on him with.

2007-10-10 08:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I told the guy i like him and he told me he doesnt like me in that way.

I have accepted it but i dont understand why he wants to go somewhere just the 2 of us.

Hes told me not to think anything of it.

But he still seems to want to talk to me on the phone and every day on msn.

Is he just trying to be close mates with me or whats he doing?

Thank you for any advise.

2007-10-10 08:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning a really informal wedding, I will have no bridesmaids or groomsmen. My fiancee and me and our daughter will be the only participates plus the minister. I was wondering could anyone give me ideas how to include my family in the wedding. Also give me any ideas about how to do the ceromony. As many ideas as you can think of, THANKS!!!!

2007-10-10 08:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by elizabethp1522 1 in Weddings