Do u think its wrong to have a guy who is a friend......only
a friend noting else......that i chat with sometimes........even though i m married?
2007-10-10 08:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by Dear to all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK U ALL FOR YOUR ANSWERS IN ADVANCE.
2007-10-10 08:39:44 · update #1
I'll also say it's not wrong. I'm saying that maybe becuase a girl who loved me I loved her got married but she calls me sometimes and talks to me for hours. So yeah it ain't wrong :) but if your husband finds out then he will suspect you for sure. He is your friend but make sure your husband doesnt find out or else he will think of your freidnship as wrong to that guy.
But if you like sharing things with that guy and like to talk to him as a freind then it's not wrong.
2007-10-10 09:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by ][)ee\/\/ana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right. There's nothing wrong with a guy friend, whether you are married or not. Friends come in all shapes, sizes...and sexes and everyone needs friends. Being married should never mean giving up or feeling guilty about having friends of the opposite sex.
2007-10-10 15:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by y-c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having a guy friend.
Get rid of the paranoia. If you're husband thinks it's cheating, assure him that you're just friends and nothing sexual is going on. If he still doesn't believe you, he's probably not the guy you should have married.
2007-10-10 15:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Paul V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! It wouldn't be fun to just have girl friends, would it? Boys have friends that are girls if they're dating or married! Unless your husband is jealous or something like that, it's ok to have friends of the opposite sex.
2007-10-10 15:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if it causing you marriage problems. You couldn't let nothing come between you and your husband. But if he totally knew of these guys before marriage that's a another subject, and becomes a control issue.
2007-10-10 15:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by beatyful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife has friends, sometimes she goes with them for lunch. I do not see anything wrong with this. I trust her 110% However, some people do not see this the same way, you must elucidate whats right and wrong for you, and communicate with your loved ones.
2007-10-10 15:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Manuelon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is wrong at all. I am a man, and I have several female friends. Just cause you're friends with someone doesn't mean you're having sex, or even attracted to them. Based on your question, I'm guessing your husband doesn't trust you. Have you ever given him a reason not to trust you?
2007-10-10 15:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope, nothing wrong at all with having opposite sex platonic friends when you are in a relationship.
2007-10-10 15:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not as long as your only friends and your husband knows about your friendship with the guy
2007-10-10 18:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by boogles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know? Does HE mind? If not, chat away.
2007-10-10 15:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by marisia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋