So there's this guy that I am totally into. I really like him and we've been hanging out lots lately. We are both in our 20's. Whenever we get together he gets super close to me and snuggles me, and he's never tried anything sexually with me (except kiss me). Last time we hung out, he said he loved hanging out with me so much and if I wanted to hang out the next day. So the next day I texted him and asked him if he wanted to hang out still but he said he'd love to but he's really tired from 3 games of football that day, and he was leaving in the morning for a tournament. He said he didn't realize how tired he'd be. It is a 30 min. drive.
This was on Saturday. It is now Wednesday and we have texted and chatted on MSN but he hasn't asked me to hang out again. Should I just let this ride and wait for him to ask me, or is the ball in my court? If you were in my situation what would you do? Or if you're a guy what would you expect the girl to do? Thanks in advance!!! :) I really like him.
2007-10-10 08:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it sit a while. Obviously he's into you or he would'nt have told you he was when he was'nt trying to get into your pants. That's a risky thing for any guy to do.
If I were you I would'nt try to contact him. A few days will go by and he'll wonder.."where the hell is she?" And he'll call. Make it a little bit of a challenge. He needs to realize that hanging out with a awesome girl like you is a reward.
2007-10-10 08:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by texasbelle_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it ride. I hardly get to hang out with my boyfriend. Just relax, but remember you're in charge. If it's becoming a problem, talk to him about it. There's nothing better than talking.
2007-10-10 08:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by duckieluvergurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i wonder why he hasnt asked you to hang out..well he might be waiting for you to ask him..or he doesnt want to hang out with you at all but it seems like you guys have chemistry and talk all the time so he has to be interested..umm i'd say you should ask him to hang out and see what he says.
2007-10-10 08:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go,
see what happens, could be he is just busy right now.
2007-10-10 08:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by bakerone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww nice to see sum1 in love. i think he probs just forgot about it. wat were u talking about on msn? maybe he was too much into the convo that he forgot? really its no big deal. u 2 r fine.
2007-10-10 08:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sean H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋