Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

I have been living with one man for 27 years and now I've met another man who I adore. But I''m not sure if this 2nd man will keep close to me if I leave my first man?

2007-10-10 06:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2 weeks ago me and my ex broke up. Was just alot of arguing the last week of the relationship combined with both of us stressed from work and school. He needed time. Well I bothered him and yesterday said "you keep doing this over and over, you pushed me away, you happy, im done, I care but im sorry" I said I understood but no thats no what I meant to do. He texted me later that night and said he just didnt want an all day argument. I explained why I had been acting crazy (family issues) and last weeks we were together I had a really big stress I didnt want him to worry about. (didnt say specific but thought I was pregnant) I understand I need to change how I handle stress and told him that. He said thats ok, but right now we both need space. He does still care but I dont know if he'll come back or not. I am not contacting him but I think he will Sunday since its my birthday. What do I do?

2007-10-10 06:39:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it possible to support a family and move out of the parent's house on the salary that a medical resident makes. I hear they make very little, the max and min being 30,000 and 15,000 respectivly. also do residency programs allow time off for the wedding and honeymoons?

2007-10-10 06:39:05 · 2 answers · asked by sovietwarhawk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother died on May 9th.2006. She had left an inheritance for me & my son. My auntie told me that she had power of attorney over my inheritance. She said that I can't get my inheritance because it was set aside to purchase a house for my son & I. I still have no house. Now she said (16 months later) that I can't have my money because she felt that I would spend the money foolishly. I did recieve 60,000. in seperatate installments throughout the 16 months since my mom past away. I don't even know how much my mom left me but I heard it was 60% to me since I was her only child, 30% to my son & 10% to my aunt who has control of the money. I was not present for the reading of the will. In fact I'm not allowed to know anything besides what she tells me. I never seen any paperwork or reciepts. My aunt also said that if I even think about going legal with this matter & try to challenge her that I would be cut out of the will completely & get nothing. She said my mom wanted it this way.

2007-10-10 06:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by David O 1 in Family

If you had a "free request card" to ask your girlfriend/boyfriend to perform any "role" during sexual activities, what would it be? Which fantasy would you ask him/her to make come true?

2007-10-10 06:29:38 · 13 answers · asked by sexynsmartxoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were best friends for 10 years before we got married. We were both married before. Last night I learned what I already figured out. He cheated on his last wife more than once. I cheated on my Ex more than once. Our previous marriages were awful. For him no sex for 6 months or more at a time. His wife was very degrading to him. As for me I was resented for his business failing and no emotional support even when I was pregnant. It wasn't right I know. I can't imagine EVER cheating on my best friend and new husband, but will he cheat on me. We have a great relationship and we love each other more than we EVER did our Ex's. I want the answer to be no he won't cheat on me. I don't know how I could handle it if he did. I don't want to share him with anyone, not ever.

2007-10-10 06:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Who did you ask? Why? How did you keep the peace with people who wanted to be in the wedding but were not asked? Or others (say parents, aunts, uncles) who were displeased with the people you did ask?
Just wondering how other folks have handled this headache.

2007-10-10 06:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

I am thinking about opening a business that caters to brides on their wedding day. This would go beyond the basic planner. In this role, I would be a bride's maid for the day, right down to a uniform. I would help her dress, do her makeup and nails, and keep pesky relatives away.

During the reception, I would fetch drinks and appetizers, help her in the bathroom and rub her feet if they get tired. Does this sound like a service people would be interested in? Are there other things I should include to make this more appealing?

2007-10-10 06:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica J 1 in Weddings

2007-10-10 06:18:06 · 22 answers · asked by temmy G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and when he finally popped the question, I quickly started planning my dream wedding. His family and I get along really well, but ever since they found out my wedding was in december, there is a huge tension between us. They countiually ask us to move it back till may 2009, so that the attention is not taken off of his sister. I really dont know what to do, because this happy time in our life has turn into a nightmare. THis situation which is suppose to bring me and him closer together is only tearing us apart. He wants to make everyone happy, but I dont see where it is any of their business to tell us to push our wedding back. Please help!!!!

2007-10-10 06:17:26 · 18 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Weddings

What is your preference,, and why,,,,,,,,??????

2007-10-10 06:16:14 · 17 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've had the 'men's version' so what do women wish their man would do sexually?

2007-10-10 06:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by coca cola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

the question was about school, and my girlfriend was sitting next to me when it happened! Now she wont talk to me and she told her friend that she was going to talk to another guy to make me jealous!

2007-10-10 06:13:44 · 33 answers · asked by Justin K 2 in Singles & Dating

When i go out and hang out with my best [girl]friend and eat with her. i just somehow manage to lose my appetite... and i just cant eat when im with her... and i mean that in a good way, theres nothing wrong about her that makes me not want to eat


We both like each other idk if that makes a difference...

Any suggestions on how to solve this? or any help?

2007-10-10 06:09:44 · 23 answers · asked by Buttagood4you 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me 3 months ago and she started dating someone really soon afterward. Twice last week we talked and she told me she misses me and that the new guy isnt what she wants and that she fights with him all the time and treats him like s**t. She even said she doesnt even care about their relationship. I asked her why was she even with him and she said she doesn't like to be alone and she told me that more than once. What is wrong with her and why would she want to be with a guy just because she's lonely, she doesnt even like him!?!

2007-10-10 06:07:37 · 31 answers · asked by zarro 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lq5yMS5wKw&NR=1

Do you western woman are playing with fire?

2007-10-10 06:06:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married 7 years and now after the third kid. He's 5 months old she can't have a multiple orgasm. She says she can't relax. Never had this problem before so maybe someone can help.

Do I give her time or is there a way I can help get her relaxed? tried massages, candle lit baths etc.

2007-10-10 06:04:31 · 20 answers · asked by crustedfilth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i moved out of my moms becasue my step-dad was being rude to me and my sister and now im living with my dad and my step-mom thinks that she is just the smartest person in the house. well last night she said something and my dad me and my sister all got tired of it. what should me and my sister do?

2007-10-10 06:03:27 · 5 answers · asked by Taylor D 1 in Family

2007-10-10 06:01:44 · 35 answers · asked by willmiller82 2 in Singles & Dating

I am thirty years old. My father's name is ravon Gore he once lived in Supply North Carolina. My mother is Sandra Bellamy. I know I know i have at least one brother who is older than me. I am unsure of his first name but I know his last name is Sinclair. He is related to the Johnsons. He lived in Atlantic Beach South Carolina at one point until his mother moved him away. Please help me if you can. I really want to reach out and meet my family. I do not know any of them. I was raised by my mom until she married my step father otis Spivey. If you have any info please share it with me. I really appreciate it.

2007-10-10 05:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by lashenica j 2 in Family

My Ex doesnt want to sign the birth certificate because he thinks he is not the father(which he is) so what do i do. i want him to sign it but it looks like im ganna end up giving my child my last name but if i do that can i still get chilkd support

2007-10-10 05:56:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday, my boyfriend told me he wanted to see me. He was having a rough day. He said he wished he could see me right now. He said he could use my warm embrace. Is this a good thing? I love him very much. Do you think he loves me?

2007-10-10 05:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

would you see this as a positive sign (that she cares), or would you feel you were being nagged/controlled?

2007-10-10 05:52:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have read so many bio's where these girls victims of their own stupidity and are now seeking some American to save them. They have been liars, cheaters, opportunist and now they want someone to save them. What makes them think anyone wants them now?

2007-10-10 05:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by Charles O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating someone for a couple months, not too serious, but he is important to me, so I want to be supportive but not interfere with family time and cheer him up. I am going over to be with him tonight and want to bring a "Bag-o-things" to put him in a happy mood...I was thinking about good, but light movies that would set an upbeat mood, comfort food, or alcholic drinks, silly games/activities/toys, etc. Any ideas?
What would cheer you up? (and not be too "heavy" from a girl you have been dating, but not too committed to)

2007-10-10 05:51:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok so my little sisters friend acts like a 5 year old im 14 my sister is 10 and her friend is 11 her friend lisa is so dumb she is in the 5 grade and she does get all As in school but she has absalutly no comen sencse like when we were all going down to the park she fell and said we need to go back home wich was a mile away and the bathroom was right infront of us and i told her she needed to go wash it of she said ohhhhhhhh and when we were at the pool my bathing suit was riding up and i wisperd to my sister do you think any one sall my butt and lisa herd and said (i mean scread at the top of her lungs) you mean your not wering any panties duh i wasent your not sapuse to and i usaly dont were panties i wear thongs she is just so anoying there are way more storys but i cant name them all what do you tink i should do

2007-10-10 05:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband was married and had a son- he is now 13 and they are divorced. He continued to pay her with money orders but she wasn't reporting the payment because she was also receiving the state assistance money- if she reported his payments she would've been unable to receive both.
I believe him because he still has the money order receipts-he tried to fight it but b/c he didn't write child support in the for column she said they were just gifts and the court chose her side.
Anyway it's been years and she has grown up. We have paid the child support payments monthly but haven't quite caught up with the back support yet. It was supposed to be spread until the child turned 18 and we pay a little more each month.
My problem is that yesterday the child support division seized our bank acct. It had all our bill money in it and pretty much nothing more. They said it will be seized until it's paid in full.
There is more but I ran out of room- read the detail portion, please...

2007-10-10 05:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so now that I have your attention...so like they'res this guy from school that likes me and everytime I see him around he tells me "Bye Baby" and all his friends come up to me and tell me "my friend likes you" and it was flattering at first but now its kind of annoying because if he really liked me he'd come up to me himself not send his friends to talk to me right? what should I do?

2007-10-10 05:46:16 · 28 answers · asked by Ms.Carter 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do you do that to your son?
Why would you raise your son not to think for himself?
We have one @ my job and his mother called his boss and told his boss that he his working her son too hard, WTF! Who does that, do those of you that do this see that you are damaging you child, no woman would want a man like that.

2007-10-10 05:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-10 05:41:39 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating