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i talk to him more than anyone i tell him everything im always thinking of him i even dream about him we known each other for a while but we have never dated always stayed friends hes my best friend & i love him with all my heart. i want to be with him forever he is perfect in every way but he doesnt do relationships well. hes been single EVER SINCE I MET HIM! & its not like he has sex with people hes just alone he says he will never get married & wants to stay alone. so last month i fianally got the nerve to confess my feelings for him he was shocked but still we are just friends well last nite i was at work & we were texting each other & he told me that he now goes with this one girl. i broke out in tears! i ran to the bathroom and vomited i felt so sick then he text me again & said he was joking i was so releived! i think that tonite ima tell him that i cant talk to him nemore it just hurts to bad one day he will have a girl & it will hurt me to much what should i do?

2007-10-10 04:02:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If u have read my last questions u might have got my situation and now i donno what to do and how to teach him a lesson plz helpme where do i need to go to get him punished and how can i get divorce and also get some money also as my whole life would b ruined after that ... I m in trouble i donno anything plzz plzz help me!!!

2007-10-10 04:00:00 · 35 answers · asked by honey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just doing some general comparing. Would like to know from daughter-in-laws, how often do your in-laws visit your home?
Thanks.

2007-10-10 03:58:38 · 17 answers · asked by veronicazombie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats with pushing a 3some? Our sex life is awesome and there shouldn't be a need. This is reality, not fantasy. He even served me up on a platter yesterday to some guy he doesn't even know. I would NEVER have sex with another man, unless I was divorced. Why does he lust other women ALL the time? Not getting it at all...Help me understand this. He strokes himself all the time and even came yesterday as I read the chat info in complete shock. I'm starting to think he needs some kind of mental health treatment in the area of sex. HELP!

2007-10-10 03:54:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so Im really into this girl for ages then this girls closest friend tells me shes into me aswell, so I asked her out and now she is "thinking about it" what does this mean exactly and do you think she will say yes?

2007-10-10 03:53:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anony-mouse 3 in Singles & Dating

together 7 years, married for 3. about a year ago we went through a terrible time in which we split for about 6 months. we really did not get on and he can be cruel at times and pick on me. and i had enough. i admit that i texted another man a few years ago and then last year he did the same and text a woman at work. nothing happened- no sex, just texts. i thought i had got over all of it- my mistakes and his, but it has come back and flooded my mind and i feel terrible. we do love each other otherwise we would not be together now and gone through all that hell, but i feel my marriage is now "not pure" and how it should be. i can not forgive myself and i can not forgive my husband. i am always the strong one in the relationship, he doesnt like responsability and as a woman this did bother me. i think i wanted to escape my life at the time. but its no excuse. i feel like crying and i feel dizzy all the time because im stuck thinking about it. what can i do? im so sad.

2007-10-10 03:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know its a serious decision but why do the majority of men seem to swear by the motto " I'm not ready. " What is so scary and why do you think there are there so many women out there waiting for a proposal? How did you know when you were ready or have any of you proposed just to keep your girlfriends happy?

2007-10-10 03:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

family it so happened that relationship with my girl friend is past one half year i try to explian her right from the start iam a married man our relationship in long run is not good .she tells me cannot forget me all those things well i don't know what todo she is damn good looking i hate to decieve her please suggest

2007-10-10 03:47:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For example, i saw the girl makes his bf get on his knees and kiss her feet in the public street apologizing for being late for a few minutes! He almost cried, and she laught and teased him. After some time she said it was a punishment and a lesson for him.
And what about you? Did you ever see?

2007-10-10 03:45:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my husband did things in the past that have caused me insecurities...

and recently i said to him, "I just want to be the most beautiful woman in the world TO YOU" not to anyone else, but just TO HIM....

maybe its asking too much, but when he honestly told me that he couldn't say that, because it wasn't true...

I pried for what he liked better....

and I got a list of qualities like smaller boobs, brown eyes, bigger butt, yadda yadda....

So now, everytime I see a girl with these qualilties, I get super insecure...

I don't know how to just get over it and live happily.... these things plague me every day...

what would you do?

2007-10-10 03:43:17 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up and now we are just friends but now he is going out with a girl and he told me that he wasn't going to go out with anyone. I don't know if i can handle seeing them together.

What do i do ?

2007-10-10 03:40:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend over a year ago, he told me he was having a divorse, but lived with his ex wife, 2 chirldren and his mother. He said he couldn't aford to move out, he does not have much money. He also works for me as a maintenance man in my buisiness I gave him the job after I met him. I have asked him to show me a copy of his filed divorse papers but he said he cant, because his wife filed for divorse in another country, Portugal where they both come from. He said he is not sleeping with his wife. I have a gut feeling that he is lying to me and I feel very depressed about it. He never spends the night with me, although I want him to. I am 37 and he is 29. He does tell me he loves me all the time and is always nice to me. We have been on holiday for a week once. I am moving house and he wants to move in with me, but I don't know if I can trust him.

2007-10-10 03:38:23 · 29 answers · asked by J R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... So I've had one loooong 5+ year relationship, a few flings, and went on pitiful boring dates. I broke up with my EX cuz I lost all feeling for her... It was sad for both of us :(

I am currently seeing a new girl and have been with her for nearly a month. This is only my 2nd relationship and I'm 23. She is the same age and has NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP! She could even be a virgin... Her father passed away when she was 7, and she has 4 male roommates (one is gay).

We both clearly like each other... Any tips or insight so I don't screw this one up?

2007-10-10 03:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and it hurts very much. He wants to come back but I am keeping him at bay till a time when I feel I can talk to him without being upset. He said "he doesn't know if he can wait" and when I said "we are back to day one then, if you want me to trust you again" he said "oh well I don't want to be at day one, I don't think I can do that"...

He 's just a user isn't he? He just wants to come back so I can wait on him hand and foot, subsidise his low income and feed him.... (the money I was helping him out with, bought HER drinks - my hard earned cash!)

What shall I do. Sever all ties & grow strong OR stop being mean to him and see him , tonight? I have asked him to wait till Friday... Is that unreasonable?

2007-10-10 03:37:25 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is currently being ordered to show cause in court and for the state to intervene into the child support case. We have a court hearing in 2 months. He will owe 20,000.00 by that time "all in past child support ordered by the court"

Then he filed a motion to modify child support, and is serving me today or his wife is "which the court said was legal" Anyways, he is trying to lower it after donig NOTHING for 2 years. Will he get away with it? He is not working and has not worked or given me any money for 2 years?

I am no longer working as it's more expensive to pay daycare, my husband is supporting all of us i take care of the kids 24/7.

The past child support was based on him working 12.00 an hour, and me 5.25.

Mind you 1,000.00 of the 20 grand is JUST INTEREST

What will the judge do to him in court for even trying to lower it without having a job? What will he say about me no longer working and i have FULL CUSTODY btw. he just has supervised visits.

2007-10-10 03:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was really good mates with a guy and I then developed feelings for, he knew about this, and we still continued to be mates anyway, when i was really drunk on a night out I went and said that i thought that i loved him, and he said that he didnt understang why because I can do better than him, i understand that what i have done is really stupid and i dont even love him and i dont even know why i said it, but do you think that the friendship is likely to be ruined after what I said? what advice can anyone give so that i can sort this out with him? I really dont want to lose him as a mate. now he is ignoring my texts! xxx

2007-10-10 03:33:32 · 41 answers · asked by *kirsty* 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently had an affair with another woman and my wife has seperated from me. We still ive in the same house because I am from out of state and have no family. We have been dealing with this over a month now. We attended marriage counseling but we both agreed it was stupid since we still communicate well. She wants to make the marriage work, and recently started talking about things we can do in the future. We haven't been intimate. I am still in the guest room. She is having trouble forgiving me as she should. I am just trying to do things that will show her how remorseful I am. What can I do to make things better and to show her I want to be committed to our vows, and that this will never happen again?

2007-10-10 03:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Striker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-10 03:31:48 · 2 answers · asked by Minnie 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-10 03:22:26 · 10 answers · asked by creative m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I transferred from my old job where the guy i liked worked there too, to a new one. he was so upset that I was transferring becuase we're both so busy that we kinda only got to see eachother at work. anyway I've trasferred a while back and he would come visit sometimes, but for some weird reason, he suddenly stopped talking to me, so I'm trying to get over him. but a few days ago, I went by my old work to talk to someone and I saw him and he saw me too but we didn't say anything to each other.
Well anyways, I'm having problems with my new work, they keep messing up my schedule and stuff, so I'm considering going back to my old job. but I'm kinda afraid that the guy is gonna think I'm stalking him, and I don't want there to be any awkwardness...so if I do trasnfer back, (which won't be for another two months cuz I need to have to finish this semester of school first. what do I do when he sees me? The only reason I'm going back is cuz its better. by the way, I'm 18 if that helps at all

2007-10-10 03:20:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so then why? if the answer is "no" then no answer pls.
It's time to have some fun! : )

2007-10-10 03:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by Manik 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im looking for a reading that a child and adult can read together during my wedding ceromony, it has to be NON RELIGIOUS as im having a civil wedding. Ideally i would like something fairly light hearted but am open to anything. Pleae help.

2007-10-10 03:18:57 · 6 answers · asked by lucy m 3 in Weddings

2007-10-10 03:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Minnie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 03:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by kilgore87 1 in Singles & Dating

so i fell really hard for this one guy i started dating because he was the sweetest person ever..he took me on several dates, we texted constantly, we called each other, have so many things in common, he cooked me my favorite food, we saw movie together and holded hands..then he drops me off and we kiss finally..it was so adorable..but just that..than the next day he calls me to tell me that he wants to stay in contact just that he doesnt want to be in a relationship because he has never had a single life...he had a 3yr relationship and a 2yr relationship so he wants to take it slow..BUT I REALLY LIKE HIM AND DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM..wat do i do? how do i act? to not lose him and i dont know if he should know that i like him? did he leave me because i kissed him?! im so confused..and it seems that he doesnt even know how much i liked him

2007-10-10 03:11:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 03:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by praveen . 1 in Singles & Dating

I was pregnant for the first celibate year and he uses this as an excuse despite the fact that you couldn't even tell, of course, for the first 4 or so months. I have caught him over the years on the Internet and each time he was looking at a woman's butt. On top of this he never even made a SINGLE comment about our lack of sex until I mentioned it! I KNOW he's not cheating, I almost wish he were, at least that would explain things. I am not too interested in having sex with him either mainly due to the fact that I find his lack of desire in and of itself a turn-off, not to mention the resentment I've built up over other issues. The difference between him and I is that I am HIGHLY aware of my celibate status whereas it doesn't seem to bother him at all. He never mentions it, again, unless I do. He seems to think as long as we're not fighting things are fine. We never had a very intimate relationship. He does perform oral sex and I don't if a gay guy could do that. Me not ugly or fat.

2007-10-10 03:08:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the story:

I feel in love with someone in a relationship already. We had whatever we had for 6 months. Then that person broke it off with her ex we got together and I messed up 3 months later and we became just friends, she got back with her ex.

Then a little later we started up again while she was in a relationship. I said two days ago I don't believe in love, now she doubts everything we shared. Instatly fell out of love with me (she says it was fading slowly, but that halted it) and doubts she wants to be my friend.

Oh, and she made it very clear "we" will never be again. Even if she's single, I got my stuff together, it will never be. How do I get over that. We made plans, I proposed, she said yeah. How do I let that go? How do I just be her friend?

2007-10-10 03:05:11 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan R 2 in Singles & Dating

Let me set the stage...We're both divorced his ex is also older than him, so he does like older women...I have a daughter that's 32...however we are so drawn to each other he's the kindest, most romantic, sexiest, hardworking man I'm sure I've ever met...I love being with him we have so much fun, because I do look younger no one gives us odd looks.
I just wonder does age matter? Any advice?

2007-10-10 02:58:13 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

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