Ok... So I've had one loooong 5+ year relationship, a few flings, and went on pitiful boring dates. I broke up with my EX cuz I lost all feeling for her... It was sad for both of us :(
I am currently seeing a new girl and have been with her for nearly a month. This is only my 2nd relationship and I'm 23. She is the same age and has NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP! She could even be a virgin... Her father passed away when she was 7, and she has 4 male roommates (one is gay).
We both clearly like each other... Any tips or insight so I don't screw this one up?
2007-10-10 03:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We always have a blast when we go out together!!!
2007-10-10 03:38:25 · update #1
It's pretty simple really. If you want this to last then treat her like you would want to be treated.
2007-10-10 03:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by jdevico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and take it slow. dont assume things are going a certain way, and don't be afraid to ask her how she is feeling about a situation.
You need to respect her and show her how to do stuff, (if she doesn't know). I am 19 and in my first relationship ever. I had to take it slow, and my boyfriend was nice, took it slow, and didn't assume i was ready for, let's say a kiss.
I was the one who kissed him. Let her do the same, unless she is signaling otherwise.
Good luck and I hope all goes well!
2007-10-10 03:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you lose feeling for your first girlfriend? If it was due to not seeing each other engough for example, then make the extra effort to see your new girlfriend. The idea behind dating is to learn from your past mistakes in relationships so do that here. Good luck!
2007-10-10 03:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would think that there is something seriously wrong with a girl that has 3 roommates that are all guys not to mention I would probably have a problem with it...and yes I am very secure with myself. It is also weird that she has not had any relationships. Take a long hard look at all the questions you are asking about this girl and realize that most of her quirks are not normal compared to most people.
2007-10-10 03:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-06 10:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by beliveau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try to be understanding of her!
A relationship is not 50/50. You both have to give 100% if you want it to work.
Good luck :)
2007-10-10 03:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know each other and don't jump into bed with her. That would be more damaging if things don't go to far. Take your time, date for a bit and see where it leads.
2007-10-10 03:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Celebrate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself..Be honest and open with each other and don't pressure her because if she is a virgin she will most likely want to take things slow!
2007-10-10 03:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sansa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That's really the only way not to screw it up and to see if it's meant to be with her. Don't push the relationship, just let it happen.
2007-10-10 03:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by h&t_oct282007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about the things that are on your mind. communicate!!
We can give you advice, but for the relationship to work, ask her the questions....
2007-10-10 03:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋