If u have read my last questions u might have got my situation and now i donno what to do and how to teach him a lesson plz helpme where do i need to go to get him punished and how can i get divorce and also get some money also as my whole life would b ruined after that ... I m in trouble i donno anything plzz plzz help me!!!
2007-10-10 04:00:00 · 35 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a section in the indian penal code called Sec. 498A which was made for people like you who want to send their husbands to jail. All you have to do is go to the nearest police station tell them your husband is beating you for dowry and then your dearest wish will be fulfilled.
As far as money, you can get to stay in his house, spend his money, keep his children and use his belongings even after a divorce courtesy of the domestic violence act.
hire a lawyer and he will walk you thru the legal steps to get what you want.
2007-10-10 04:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops, PRESS CHARGES get a restraining order, get an emergency protective order(free), hire a lawyer and make your husband reimburse your lawyers fees after the court, or get a prepaid lawyer or ask the shelters/police/counselors for help on gaining government asst for a family lawyer. If you have kids, get some help as far as babysitting/daycare is concerned and get a job if you don't have one. You need to let the proper authorities realize the extent of this matter and how threatened you feel ur life and/or ur kids life is at risk. Don't give up or show weakness or they will not believe that you are serious. Once you have started this you NEED to finish it. The links below migh be some help for you. Good Luck
2007-10-10 04:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to call the police next time he starts beating you. But you need to make sure you do it secretly, because if he finds out that you're calling them, he might just get even more angry. The key point is that you can't let him know. Once the police come, they will probably arrest him. At this time, you can easily go to a haven or a place especially for battered women. There, they will help you find a job, have a home, etc. You can still turn your life around. You need to stop this now, or else in the future, worse things can happen.
2007-10-10 04:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are being abused then call the Safe Home in your phone book. It is a shelter for battered women and they can help you. I was in one a long time ago for being abused. They give you encouragement and give you ideas about where to go for work if your not working. They did not want me to go back but I did and things did change for awhile but then things went back to the way that they were. I am now finally divorced. The shelter helps provide you with clothes and makeup if you leave with nothing but the clothes on your back. The women there do give lots of encouragement. Alot of women end up in abusive relationships and alot of times they only stay because of the money situation. That is what I did. I could not even work because we would stay up most of the night fighting and I could not make it to work without sleep.
2007-10-10 04:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from reading your last few ?
I really don't think you are ready to help yourself
to Begin with you can not teach him a lesson
he will never learn and is probably to used to beating you and you doing nothing that he will never change.
what do you mean how do you punish him?
he is not a child he is a man that is beating on you
next time he hurts you call the cops if you don't have a phone
go to a neighbors home a friends home something
you need help just like he does and we can not help you do what you know you need to do
one day you will get so fed up with it you will do the right thing
or one day you will not survive his attacks on you
i would not be to worried about the sex part of your relationship if i were you the last thing you need to do is bring children into your nightmare
please contact some local shelters for abused woman start there but like I said you will be the deciding factor on if you get help or not
2007-10-10 04:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by summerbliss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you call the cops and file a restraining order. Look into your local women's shelter. I am sure the police can point you in the right direction. I've been a victim of spousal abuse. If there is violence the relationship get out. Don't take him back because more than likely he will fall back into the same pattern. If you have children, do for your kids, cause you don't want them to become victims or abusers later on.
2007-10-10 04:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by cutie_smarty_pants 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you will gain putting your spouse in detention center for beating you. If it became that uncomplicated a million/2 the husbands in this u . s . a . may well be in detention center. yet kin violence via the two companion isn't suited. And purely on account which you're a guy does not advise you're resistant to the soreness of abuse. communicate with some companies who artwork on kin violence and that they might supply you some suggestion. often it particularly is cautioned to chop up from an abusive companion, fantastically if the abuse is existence-threatening. yet whilst it particularly is a mutual component, i.e. in case you have additionally overwhelmed her , or emotionally or verbally abused her at any time, then i does not advise making any case against her, on account which you will locate the tables grew to become and which you'd be considered the criminal, and her strikes a reaction or self defence.
2017-01-03 09:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if there is a women's shelter in your area you (and if you have any children) would be very wise to move there. At these shelters they will get you access to a lawyer, financial assistance, talk with a female police officer etc. They will also help you find suitable living arrangements once you are better settled and feeling safer. Abuse is an awful way to live and nobody should have to live their lives like this. Best of luck to you and I do hope that you are able to access a shelter to help you.
2007-10-10 04:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave immediately. It is best to wait until he is at work or at least away from the house. You can call the police and get the divorce going once you are gone, but the important thing is getting out of there!
2007-10-10 04:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by Chair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call police after you get to a shelter i have read some of the replies but a protection orde is a piece of paper if your hubby is abusive do you think that a peice of paper is going to stop him it will just piss him off and you will be in serious danger and then start a divorce from the shelter if he is that abusive then he will put himself in jail but you need to get out now not later right now you need to leave even if you have to walk if you have bruises especially recent 911 then an ambulane to a hospital then a shelter
2007-10-10 04:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋