Family & Relationships - 10 October 2007

I have been dating my best friend for the past 7 years. He and I have always had a lot of fun; though he has always participated in acts I do not agree with (He does drugs and drinks a lot). I have been supporting him and his habits for at least 6 of the past 7 years, and now we have 2 kids (a girl age 2 and a boy age 7months). He has been unwilling to keep a job for more than 3 months at a time, quitting stating that it drove him crazy. He has discovered online gaming (World of Warcraft, Also known as WOW) and now he sits at the computer all day and night, in his underwear while I work, take care of the kids and house – not to mention pay all the bills as he is not working. He does not cook, clean or help out in any way that does not involve complaining about how little we have.
At this time, neither of our kids wants much to do with him as he constantly ignores them, or sends them to me for whatever they need, be it a drink or snack or anything.

2007-10-10 08:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My new lovers b day is coming up in about 2 weeks. He asked me to be with him on his b day, what can i do to make that night special and one to remember? We have only been seeing eachother for about a month now, but we have known eachother for years... Help me please!!!!

2007-10-10 08:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by Chocolate_Kissez 1 in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 yr. He already asked me to marry him ( I said NO) He is 22 and I am 20 he wants to spend the rest of his life with me he says. i am his first real girlfriend his first kiss first EVERYTHING. I am not sure if we really have a chance of being together exclusivley forever, or is he more prone to want to experience other things? I am comitted to him 100%, but I am the one who is experienced.

2007-10-10 08:23:36 · 7 answers · asked by Amy Leigh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy I was dating for 2 months broke up with me because "he wasn't feeling it" for a long-term relationship. However, he won't stop calling and texting me, but makes no arrangements for us to hang out. What's going on? How should I handle?

2007-10-10 08:22:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have 3 children, 2 of which were his from a previous marriage that I adopted. I have had them since they were 4 & 6 and have never heard hide nor hair from their birth mother. MY girls are 12 & 10 now and then we added our son 2 1/2. Our son is disabled and has ALOT of doctor appointments and also therapy. My oldest is in braces and has constant orthodontist appointments and our middle daughter has tutoring and chorus 2 X per week. ALSO I take his mother to dialysis 3 X per week. Nobody is going to give me a job. I sell insurance and bring in around 12,000.00 per year just working in my spare time but this isn't enough. It's not that it bothers me that he asks for help but he demands it and degrades me constantly as if I'm a liability. He says that it's his responsibility to provide for his children but not a grown woman who is his wife - she should be helping out too. By the way - I am up and gone EVERY morning TCB! Is he wrong 2 B so selfish or am I blind 2 his request?

2007-10-10 08:18:19 · 30 answers · asked by cannonkd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you guys think? There is a stereotype that they're cheap and easy and i was wondering what you thought.

2007-10-10 08:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 08:17:38 · 2 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my bf that my wish was to be married in 2009. We are both 27 and we have been together 2 years. He said he never though about it especially a particular date. He says that he wants to marry me "someday" but didn't want to talk about it. Does this mean that he doesn't want to marry me? If he is not interested in the long term should I stick around?

2007-10-10 08:17:12 · 17 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if anyone here has a best friend of the opposite sex and if so how close are you?

Are you close to the extent that people who don't know you often mistake you for a couple?
If they do is that because you're physically close ie you hug alot and are just generally physically intimate.

How would you feel if you started seeing someone who had a friend this close? Would it bother you at all or could you understand the relationship is platonic.

Opinions please...

2007-10-10 08:14:34 · 14 answers · asked by Rainbow-Taster 2 in Friends

My friends bf is acting very odd she called him 2 days ago and he was acting weird. He said "obviously you don't love me anymore if I can't turn you on". What are other signs? Is he cheating?

2007-10-10 08:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

.....a girl could do to make you hers instantly?

*Beauty
*Same interest
*Ability to sing...etc

2007-10-10 08:10:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (now fiance) just asked me to marry him on Monday. He got me a really nice ring (which I love so much) but more importantly were getting married ,and im super excited. I have always thought its weird that guys get nothing for asking a girl to marry them, and I remember when we first started dating, he mentioned the same. So I want to buy him a nice gift, especially since i have the money for it right now (a great time). I dont want to get him a watch because I know he might not ever wear it. I want to get him like a ring maybe? But if I got him one for his wedding finger, then he would have 2 bands by the time that the wedding comes around (a wedding band on the day I say I do). He wore my class ring on his pinky for the past 6 months, until it broke wear it had been resized when I bought it...would a pinky ring be weird? Ughhh im at such a loss for ideas...

2007-10-10 08:05:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

a minimum prison sentance but not one mentioned castration which I think should be carried out on the spot to any man who abuses a women or child as well as the prison sentance. Also sex offenders of which their are large numbers operating in Britain should be deported immediately no matter what their nationality. And never allowed to return to Britain or their own families. They damage complete families not just the women or child in question. What do you think?

2007-10-10 08:03:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know there are exceptions, but why do you think this is usually the case?

2007-10-10 08:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

bear in mind we have been dealing a long time

2007-10-10 08:00:54 · 9 answers · asked by sexy_lily2709@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-10 08:00:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged on Monday (it is now Wednesday) and I was thinkings this weekend I might go look at some wedding dresses, were getting married in July, is it too early to start looking and doing some light planning?

2007-10-10 08:00:37 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am bisexual I like to have sex with women....but....Me and my boyfriend ahve never had a threesome...we are looking for women but we have had no luck...what is the best way to go about it? We just want to find a woman to participate with someone that could possibly be a friend first and for me to hang out with at the mall go do girly stuff with? What is the best way? And if you have had experience with this before what did you do?

2007-10-10 07:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by s_riley1987 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is going to sound a little confusing, Ive been friends with a guy that ive been in love with for two years. Through this time we've had hard times, good times, but always ended up talking again in the end. We would go out play pool with his friends, go to eat, and just drive around and hang out. At the beginning he would say how only only really cares about 2 girls and it was me and his exgirlfriend. And one night finally after about the first 6 months he told me he wanted to make love to me. So we met up that night and talked for about two hours and then we just started kissing and all that good stuff then it happend in his back seat.. He acted completely normal after we did. So we were at a park and started walking around and he started talking about how he still loves his ex gf. I was in shock. But then after this he preceeds to kiss me and tell me he cares about me so much. Y til this day does he say I want you, i miss u baby, and i need u?He hasnt brought up his...

2007-10-10 07:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Ritaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

before me and my bf were going out, he had a gf, and i had a huge crush on his best friend. now however, i am going out with my bf... but i keep dreaming about his best friend. last night i had a dream that i cheated on my bf with him... in real life this would NEVER happen. i am completely in love with my bf, but i am really attracted to his bf, we chill together somtimes, and he is really nice to me. this only makes things worse! i don't know what to do about this, and i have had several dreams about his best friend... and i feel so bad about it.

2007-10-10 07:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm happily married and recently my ex contacted me after 7 years to see how things were going. At first everything was innocent enough and I thought we could be friends. Then she started to send me nude pictures of herself in my email.

At first I didn't think anything of it as her hobby had always been Photograhpy and they were tasteful and she would ask me if I liked the lighting and things. Then they became much much more raunchy to downright porngraphic. When I said she didn't need to be sending me those things, She thought I was joking. So I backed off talking to her for a awhile other then saying hi when she emailed me. Then she emailed me one day about her going to a club and making out with 3 people 2 men at once another women then almost having sex with her bestfriend who is female. Then she asked if I would have an affair with her which I flatout refused.

They have a child who has a disiese and her husband works doulbe shifts to pay the medical bills. Should I tell him

2007-10-10 07:57:26 · 25 answers · asked by moscow1677 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am training to be a registered nurse and he is a deadbeat, but when I mentioned my course he started lecturing me like what I do is really easy and he started telling me how to do procedures - i told him i would be learning female catheterisation this week with a patient and he's like "oh its so simple just put lubrication in and do this" i said id rather wait to be shown by a professional than get mixed up with his information,

he plays down my career yet just sponges off benefits. Is he jealous, why would he keep making out that my work is meaningless and unchallenging? he has done this loads

2007-10-10 07:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In a relationsip why is it that when a woman holds out on sex the guy isnt interested in the woman anymore? Are ALL men like this or just most men? I have been dating this guy for almost two months now I like him and he likes me, but I have told him Im not ready for sex. For men sex is just physical, but for a woman its physical and its emotional. Once a woman has sex with a guy she is in some way emotionally attached to him. WHY dont men understand that? Im not ready to be emotionally attached like that. Sex is so private and intimate so its not just physical for women. Is it POSSIBLE to date a guy and NOT have sex for the first several months? Or not? I would love to hear some men's opinions!

2007-10-10 07:55:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Harriet* Jane* and me went round this guys house to sleep over&have a few drinks. I ended up not staying the night but Harriet&Jane did, Harriet had sex with Stuart* that night. The week after that night I went round his house on my own and we ended up makin out but nuthin else, then we started seeing each other quite often, when I told Jane that I made out with him she told me she liked him but she said she didnt nemore. So I carried on seein him and Harriet new i was aswell but she didnt mind cuz it was a drunken one night stand for her. Anyway, i wanted to date Stuart but he had a girlfriend the whole time which i knew about from the start but it didn't bother me. Then after a month we just stopped seeing each other, dunno why. I really miss him and i tried to arrange to meet up a week ago but he had a driving lesson. So i thought **** it i'll just ring him so i rang him tonite and asked if i cud meet him after work on sat. He sed yes but i dont know if he really wants to?

2007-10-10 07:55:25 · 10 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for only 2 months, my job is relocating to the city where he lives. I have been looking for an apartment but he asked me to move in with him. We like each other alot but we are NOT in love. He says that he thinks our relationship has a very good chance and that if I rent an apartment then I will be stuck with a year lease. I love spending time with him and I agree that we may have future, I am just concerned that we are moving way to fast. He says that he cares a lot about me but it will take time for him to care deeply (love me) and I don't know how I really feel about him. We are both divorced and in our 40's. He still has kids that he has joint custody of, my kids are grown up and I don't have that responsibility anymore. Should I move in with him and see where things go or should I just get my own place. Financially living together would be better for both, but we both make it on our own ok too.

2007-10-10 07:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by dj83164 1 in Singles & Dating

That is a minority of guys i know most of them are not that way.

2007-10-10 07:51:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just looking for advice and raw honesty. We have been together for about 5 months. She says she loves me is possibly that she really does at this age. Can a 19 year old girl really know what they want? She is very mature for her age and she actually has moved in with me. She is not materialistic form what I can tell. She is absolutely gorgeous and just one of those girls that any one could fall in love with. I'm good looking for my age but not 19 anymore. She will be 20 next month. i get along with her so well. She is very complicated and interesting. i actually need help figuring her out it seems impossible most of the time to be honest. I need help with this one. I could right a book about this girl, very unique in her sexuality to the way she is overall. Never meant any1 like her before and have been with my share of girls

2007-10-10 07:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for about 10 months with no definite wedding date set. My fiance and I have been together for over 4 years. Over the last few months I have realized that we are really not compatible in many ways. We have no common interests, our family backgrounds are completely different, and I am starting to doubt that I really even love him. He is a wonderful guy, and obviously there is something good about us for us to stay together for so long. I just don't want to end up in a bad marriage. But, one of the reasons I am reluctant to break off the engagement is that I would owe him $5,000 and cannot afford to pay him back right now. Does anyone have any advice for me?

2007-10-10 07:49:34 · 40 answers · asked by elaine 2 in Weddings

sorry iasked tihs before and iwantto put more detail in it..

ok im 14 and at my school thers a guy who is really really hot, but he dosnt want a gf :|
hes quite shy, but i talk to him quite alot because i sit next to him in some of my classes..
im really annoyed because i take ages makin mysef look niceand he dosnt even look at me a lot soi dont think he fancies me, im not being big headed, but alot of guys fancy me only im really picky..
... ?

2007-10-10 07:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20.
4 months ago my cycle used to start on the 2nd.
Suddenly 3 months ago decided to freak me out and start a week late, and had continued such... so I've been expecting my period on the 8th for 3 months now.
Also hubby and I have been using the pull out method for 2 years... and have yet to get pregnant (even thought we're tech not trying to get prego it seems like when we do try we might have trouble. If we have a baby we're happy with that.)
So taking that into consideration...
Hubby and I had sex, he ejaculated in me- one week before my due period. And again, one day before my due period.
My period was due the 8th.... And I've missed it. It's only been 2 days, but should I consult a test? Or should I expect it was what happened before and I'm just being irregular...
Sorry for the explinations. PLLLLease give me some suggestions.

2007-10-10 07:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by Katrina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships