I'm just looking for advice and raw honesty. We have been together for about 5 months. She says she loves me is possibly that she really does at this age. Can a 19 year old girl really know what they want? She is very mature for her age and she actually has moved in with me. She is not materialistic form what I can tell. She is absolutely gorgeous and just one of those girls that any one could fall in love with. I'm good looking for my age but not 19 anymore. She will be 20 next month. i get along with her so well. She is very complicated and interesting. i actually need help figuring her out it seems impossible most of the time to be honest. I need help with this one. I could right a book about this girl, very unique in her sexuality to the way she is overall. Never meant any1 like her before and have been with my share of girls
2007-10-10 07:51:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop the paranoia already or, so help me, I will throw a dress on you.
Earth to moron: SHE LOVES YOU!!!
And you obviously love her. Stop looking for something bad to happen. She's 19. She's old enough and smart enough to make her own decisions.
And it's "write" not "right".
And since you've been with your share, get yourself STD tested.
2007-10-10 07:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Paul V 1 · 12⤊ 0⤋
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I'm just looking for advice and raw honesty. We have been together for about 5 months. She says she loves me is possibly that she really does at this age. Can a 19 year old girl really know what they want? She is very mature for her age and she actually has moved in with me. She is not...
2015-08-06 08:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Soraya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done this before. A few times really. It may or may not work out. It really just depends on the person.
Just play it by ear and enjoy it while it lasts and if it works out. Great! If not. Then move on and find the next best thing.
No one really has a crystal ball and can tell you one way or another if it will work. Any relationship is work and work is a four letter word. Some women at that age really don't know what they want and some think they know and then some really do know what they want. So I say just go with it and enjoy it and what will be, will be.
2007-10-10 08:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by rudger123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is hard to find. If you think you've found it, go for it. If it falls apart it's not going to be any worse than if she were in her 20's. It might even be better for her, b/c at 21 or 22 she'll still have plenty of good years ahead, and at 30 you won't be completely off the market.
Just don't do anything stupid that traps her.......like knock her up.
2007-10-10 08:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by thewon4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always easy to know what's going on in the mind of an eleven-year-old boy. It can be hard to see if he likes you because he may tease you or send you mixed signals. However, if you work on making him interested by showing him how friendly, confident, and kind you are, then you'll be able to see his true feelings for you in no time. At the end of the day, boys just want girls who are happy with who they are and who are interesting and caring
2015-04-09 05:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Craggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a 56 year old man that was married for 10 years to young lady that was 21 when we met.it was a fantastic relationship while she was alive.we would discuss openly every aspect of our relationship including our age difference in the future. i have 2 beautiful kids by her and wish we could have watched them grow and marry together.but i do my best as i know she would have if i would have been the one to go and I'll find out her feelings when i do. AGE IS A MATTER OF MIND,IF THE TWO OF YOU DON'T MIND WHY SHOULD IT MATTER.as for kids people say i robbed the cradle and maybe i did BUT I PUT TWO BACK.
2007-10-10 09:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls are women at age 15, it depends entirely on the girl... on the other hand there are some that are 35 and still acti 15. You've got to decide for yourself, I'd say give her a chance.
2007-10-10 07:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
of course she can be in love with you at age 19 , as far as does she know what she really wants , well girls think they know what they want , but life and getting older changes people , i think maybe you shouldn't worry about the future right now , if the relationship is good now and everythings fine then don't try to fix whats not broke [ wink]
2007-10-10 07:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, hon. A girl at 19 has a lot of growing up to do. She will be a very different person in ten years.
Who were you 10 years ago? Were you ready to settle down with someone? Did you have the same values and ideals? I doubt it.
I think you know the right answer but you are trying to convince yourself out of the truth.
Regardless, she has already moved in with you so you made that decision. Let it play out if you want but be prepared for the inevitable.
2007-10-10 07:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by P&Rsmommy 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Dont question it. Just go with it. In 20 years, the difference between 47 and 40 is not big.
Roll on Buddy !
2007-10-10 07:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by BirdogsID 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋