We have been dating for only 2 months, my job is relocating to the city where he lives. I have been looking for an apartment but he asked me to move in with him. We like each other alot but we are NOT in love. He says that he thinks our relationship has a very good chance and that if I rent an apartment then I will be stuck with a year lease. I love spending time with him and I agree that we may have future, I am just concerned that we are moving way to fast. He says that he cares a lot about me but it will take time for him to care deeply (love me) and I don't know how I really feel about him. We are both divorced and in our 40's. He still has kids that he has joint custody of, my kids are grown up and I don't have that responsibility anymore. Should I move in with him and see where things go or should I just get my own place. Financially living together would be better for both, but we both make it on our own ok too.
2007-10-10 07:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by dj83164 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah
2007-10-10 07:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by cool like A.C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just get your own place. You like him a lot but anything can go wrong anytime. If you decide to move in with him it might change your relationship. You guys both think there's a good chance taht you'll have a future together, then why rush? It's only been 2 months. You have to take it slow and give it time to get to know how he is more. If you move in with him, i think you guys are moving way too fast. Even thought you have your own place, you can still spend time with him, because he can come over. You should focus more on your job and have your own place. You said it will be okay if you live on your own, so why not try it? If it doesnt work out on the 1st month, you can always move in with him later on.
2007-10-10 07:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by loveLY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not new to the game get your own place and stay with him once in a while because the worst thing that could happen is that you move in then it does not work then you get put out with no where to go. So keep it simple have your own.
2007-10-10 08:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know the other person better . This is the best idea.
But you might try living with him for a few months and see what happens--you can always move out.
2007-10-10 07:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say not yet.
Find a room-mate or something like that, but don't go with him yet.
If he says he doesn't love you that means he's not sure of everything yet.
But if he do, he'll understand and wait for you to feel ready to move in together.
But for now...please don't.
2007-10-10 08:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no girl please 2 months you don't even know him nor do you know what it is like to live with him do your own thing see how it goes then make that move
2007-10-10 08:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No-- get your own place....You are not close enough...when you get on each others nerves you can go home....
2007-10-10 08:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
2007-10-10 07:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋