before me and my bf were going out, he had a gf, and i had a huge crush on his best friend. now however, i am going out with my bf... but i keep dreaming about his best friend. last night i had a dream that i cheated on my bf with him... in real life this would NEVER happen. i am completely in love with my bf, but i am really attracted to his bf, we chill together somtimes, and he is really nice to me. this only makes things worse! i don't know what to do about this, and i have had several dreams about his best friend... and i feel so bad about it.
2007-10-10 07:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dreams are the play ground of the imagination. They don't mean anything. Truly there is nothing you can do to stop these dreams so stop dwelling on them.
I have sexual dreams all the time. Sometimes they involve my husband....sometimes not. It doesn't mean I love my husband less or that I will cheat on him.
2007-10-10 08:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell your boyfriend about the dreams.
It's a LOT easier to say something will never happen and it actually never happening.
If you're having several dreams about it, your current boyfriend (sorry, bf) relationship is nowhere near a healthy one.
Like I said, be honest with him and MAYBE these dreams will stop. If not, the relationship will.
2007-10-10 08:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Paul V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard about how much you are actually attracted to you BF best friend. In my experience if you were truly in love with you BF, you would not be so worried about this. You shouldn't feel bad about this either way, the heart wants what the heart wants....
2007-10-10 08:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it would never really happen then youre fine.We cant control our dreams.Its not your fault.You cant force yourself not to have dreams.Maybe your subconscious mind is telling you something.Sexual tension can cause those kind of dreams.Not much you can do about it without actually cheating on your Bf with him.But I dont recommend cheating.
2007-10-10 08:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be telling you a sign. Haha kidding. What happens in your dream means nothing what happens in real life. Trust me you can't really control your dreams. Nothing to stress over.
2007-10-10 08:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad about your dreams. you cant control them. What you can do is not spend time with someone your attracted to, that only makes it worse.
2007-10-10 08:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a dream! Dreaming about movie stars and people that you likely have no chance with is no different.
Just keep it in your dreams if you want to keep your boy. :)
2007-10-10 08:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by jellybean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to make your dream *** true . Just do it!!!
Oh and dont tell your bf , that way you can have both ...lol
2007-10-10 08:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your certain it wont happen in real life, dont worry. ..it IS jus a dream.
2007-10-10 08:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by nay nay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it out! It can't hurt! Dreams do come true!
2007-10-10 08:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by LoganXXX 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋