I'm happily married and recently my ex contacted me after 7 years to see how things were going. At first everything was innocent enough and I thought we could be friends. Then she started to send me nude pictures of herself in my email.
At first I didn't think anything of it as her hobby had always been Photograhpy and they were tasteful and she would ask me if I liked the lighting and things. Then they became much much more raunchy to downright porngraphic. When I said she didn't need to be sending me those things, She thought I was joking. So I backed off talking to her for a awhile other then saying hi when she emailed me. Then she emailed me one day about her going to a club and making out with 3 people 2 men at once another women then almost having sex with her bestfriend who is female. Then she asked if I would have an affair with her which I flatout refused.
They have a child who has a disiese and her husband works doulbe shifts to pay the medical bills. Should I tell him
2007-10-10 07:57:26 · 25 answers · asked by moscow1677 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to be COMPLETLY away from this situation.
No more e-mails...no more pictures...no more period !!!
2007-10-10 08:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First stop talking or emailing her. Tell your wife so she knows what is going on. I would not tell the ex anything. Just walk away you are no longer her husband better to let her self destruct on her own.
2007-10-10 15:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by accsmile 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like this lady has issues. Anyway of course you should tell him she is disrespecting his dignity and not only that but what about her son it is not his fault, I think she needs to settle down. The only thing is that if you tell him you need to have proof of this or else he is going to think you still have a thing for her and she could end up flipping this whole situation on you. Put yourself in his shoes, I am sure you wouldn't want any one doing this to you.
2007-10-10 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by gabrielaqlejandra 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stay out of it, and stop all contact with her. Sounds like she is having some pretty bad issues going on, and there is no need for you to be pulled into it. Her husband is having a lot of issues himself, and would not like to hear from you, especially about this.
2007-10-10 15:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No. And block further messages from her from your email box. Be glad that you got rid of her. Mr husband now will have to find out for himself.
Block her email address NOW. Do not wait. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200. NOW. Got it??
Never communicate with her again. Never. Ever.
2007-10-10 15:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I hope you saved all the emails for proof. I would just contact and ask him if he knows what she is up to. If he sounds interested then tell him. If it seems like he doesnt care what you think then just back off. Then you need to block her email address so she cant email you. If youre not careful she could end up ruining your marriage.
2007-10-10 15:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
nope. Just tell her she can't email you anymore and stop replying to her messages, even to just say hi. She will eventually stop. Save the message with the date on it where you tell her to stop in case her husband finds more messages from her and calls you to ask about it.
But if he doesn't already know about her issues, he will find out soon enough unless it is just with you. And if its just with you, refusing to respond to her emails will help her get over her temporary desire to reunite.
2007-10-10 15:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You need to stop all contact with the ex. And don't tell your wife about this either.
2007-10-10 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what if this was you
you know having a kid with a disiese working double shifts
just to make ends meat
and support your family
and your wife was doing this and saying this to her ex
would you be lucky enough to have her ex MAN up and tell you
i say tell him and tell her to grow up
poor kid
2007-10-10 15:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by summerbliss 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stay out of their marriage.
I would stop contact with her and tell her why. Block her e-mail and do not talk to her. You do not want this to come back on your marriage.
2007-10-10 15:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
why are you still communicating with her? if I were your wife, I wouldn't care much for that.
and no, don't tell him. Poor man has enough heartache already. let him find out on his own.
you should not have any contact with her at all. that's why they are called EX wives
2007-10-10 15:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋