I am going out with this guy that Im not aloud to go out with. My brothers told me I cant and since my moms dead and my dads gone alot there in charge. Anyway this guy told me tonight we were gonna have sex or hed slit my throat(Im 13 and hes 14) Do I tell my brothers and get in HUGE trouble or have sex. I really dont want to have sex!!
2007-10-10 08:29:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your big brother he wont be too mad hes you bro. Thats what hes there for relax. Im me if you need too.
2007-10-10 08:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by theroadwetake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no to the sex... Second, tell your family what is going on. Third , you may need to get the police involved.
You are 13 and a lot of kids are in relationships that they don't know how to handle. I understand that you feel pretty much alone in this situation with you family history but if there was a time to ask for help, this is it. Don't allow him to rape you... because thats pretty much what he is doing. Even though he is blackmailing consent. He can go to jail for the threat of bodily harm and the solicitation of sex from a minor, even though he is only 14. No "man" would approach a "woman" like this. so keep in mind the level of maturity he must have. Think about what you want out of life and respect yourself enough to know that you need help and to stand your ground and say no.
2007-10-10 16:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Leslie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is rape . you tell your brothers and the police .and you should listen to your brothers they love you and want the best for you. Now you know why they didn't want you going out with that guy he is a jerk.stick close to your brothers they will protect you from many harmful things. dump the guy to and let him know that you are not to be controlled by any man or little boy in his case. you be the girl he can't have . Have some respect for your self and the guys you get in your life will respect you to. good luck and tell your brothers quickly. don't ever do anything you don't want to do.
2007-10-10 15:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what happens when stupid little girls go out into the world and pretend to be grown ups. Now you are in a situation you cannot possibly handle and have resorted to asking total strangers on the internet what to do, because you already ignored your family, who was right by the way.
Go talk to your family.
2007-10-10 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brothers, an adult, the police, ANYONE! If he has threatened you that's serious and you need to let someone know so they can help you. Please, honey, you don't want to end up like me. I've had to have 16 surgeries on my face to try and fix what happened to me. I was raped when i was 15yrs old at knife point. Granted that was 12 years ago and I'm pretty well recovered now but you don't want to go through what i did. please tell someone.
2007-10-10 17:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't go any where with this boy. He is obviously disturbed.
Lastly, do tell your brothers so they can tell that creep to step off. What you tell your brothers about your part in it, is up to you. But ultimately they want you to be safe and happy; that's what matters.
2007-10-10 15:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother's they'll be upset that you lied to them, but even more upset that this guy is threatening your life. You shouldn't have sex until you are an adult and ready for it! Don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex, ever!!
2007-10-10 15:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go, Do NOT have sex and please tell someone - even if you choose not to tell your brothers. You are too young to have sex and I hope you NEVER have sex with someone because they threaten you. I suspect though, that you could tell your brothers and that things would be ok . . .
Good luck!
2007-10-10 15:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur brothers, theres a reaosn they dont want u dating this dude, u better tell ur brothers so they can knock some sense into you and him, u dont want to be raped at 13 do u?
2007-10-10 16:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and tell your brothers.
2007-10-10 15:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by petra 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋