so this guy... we've never talked to eachother but im friends with his friend and i over heard his friends and he talking about me several times...and like right after they were talking about me his friend would come over and try to talk to me (im shy so convos go nowhere w/ me n less i kno u well.) well the guy is always looking at me outta the corner of his eye. but it seems like n e time i walk near him he'll leave son after. i've overheard his friends say all sorts of suspicious stuff that make me think he likes me but then he seems scared of me. is he probably just nervous around me so he doesnt wanna embarass himself or something or could he be kinda mad at me for liking him w/o really knowing him lol? i just dont get it. n e shy guys on here or n e one lese who might be able to make a guess as to whats on his mind about me??
2007-10-10 12:22:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he likes you and is scared about what his friends will think
2007-10-10 12:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either nervous/shy (like you?) or maybe (contrary to what you surmise) he's just not that into you. I assume you're both fairly young, or at least inexperienced. Once people get a little more experience and are *still* single, they often lose inhibitions and are more direct... which usually ends up working better and faster than playing guessing games. If you really like this guy, you should determine how he feels. If he likes you too, you should try to break the ice. Or not. Up to you. Maybe he's a creep or a psycho killer! Good luck.
2007-10-10 12:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by answerbot 3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't enough information for anyone to know for sure what he is thinking.
Maybe if you are going near him but not acknowledging him (because you say you are shy) then he leaves because he is upset. Maybe he is just shy, too, and is overwhelmed or does not know how to act or what to say.
Just talk to him normally, find the guts. Or if you don't have those guts, ask one of your mutual friends. Hope that helps.
2007-10-10 12:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Space 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 23:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your shyness, I have to say I'm surprised you're asking this question.
Aren't you scared of him too? If not, go talk to him. If so, then figure out why you feel that way and you have your answer.
2007-10-10 12:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Crypt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he is " scared " and not just shy ?
You want it then go after it ! Maybe you're scared ?
Wood
2007-10-10 12:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by woodster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think hes scared of u hes just shy
2007-10-10 12:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by kelly-love x) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probaly just shy, he'll come around eventually
2007-10-10 12:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him, and say hello. Put him at his ease, then ask what he likes.
2007-10-10 12:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Zheia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋