What do you married women think when you see a cute guy, or what happens to you when a cute guy passes you by? I am curious to know this because of the reality of it. By no means do I mean to ask anything about cheating and I hope none of you ladies ever do that to your men! Are there studies related to my question? Has that ever happened to you? Or has this ever not for one second gone through your mind? Thank you all for your responses. : )
2007-10-10 08:55:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think everyone appreciates a good looking person. Personally, that's all it is for me. It certainly doesn't do anything for me sexually since I am very fulfilled in my marriage. No thoughts about cheating. It would be like the same thoughts that I would have for an attractive female.
2007-10-10 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, a woman who's been married and raising a family for 20 years just finds out her husband is a cheater (because cheaters are incredibly prolific liars, to both the other woman and the wife) and overnight she becomes a total drama junkie, a glutton for punishment and loves the pain! You think? Give us a break. Naive, maybe. Just as naive as the side pork who believes that she is the love of this guy's life and will hang on for dear life to the scraps he throws her. Naive because she, the wife, believes her husband of decades when he tells her he loves her and is remorseful? Naive because she took vows and believed that her husband who was standing there beside her, took the same? Naive, maybe. Betrayed, absolutely. Not every man or woman will cheat again. Sometimes when they hit the wall (and usually yes, that may take getting caught) they lose the respect of family, children, coworkers and friends. Sometimes they even lose their jobs. We've seen this happen over and over in the news lately. Sometimes they don't actually "get" it until they are caught and are faced with the idiocy of their actions and the pain they have caused. Sure, many wait a bit and sneak back out there looking for some cheap thrills again. They fix mistakes and get more sinister, cover their tracks better and warn their pork to keep the down-low. Sometimes. It's not cut and dried. You're making judgments on women's decisions because you're sitting there living vicariously through a "friend" that obviously has about as much moral fiber as a peanut. Until you've walked the walk and lived through the devastation and the aftermath from a betrayed spouse's experience you are not going to understand his or her reactions to the situation any more than I can understand why a woman would let herself be some man's dirty little secret. *****
2016-04-08 01:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we married women think the same,I just look at the attractive guy and go on with my day!What do married men think of cute woman/girl?
2007-10-10 11:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugarbr02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not what goes on in a mans mind when he sees an attractive woman,if it was, than all man would be considered cheaters.A cheater is someone who actually cheats with that woman.And yes all men have evil thoughts from time to time.
2007-10-10 09:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a writer so when I see a good looking man, I think about what I could do with his looks for a character I am putting together. Sometimes I do think to myself.....WOW.... and run and write down his description before I forget the details. As for my personal reaction---of course I notice an attractive guy, I'm not dead......
2007-10-10 10:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think "Yummy". Probably pretty much the same thing that my man thinks when he sees a really good-looking woman... well without the whole undressing and cataloging for a future little sex show in his head session that is. You men have THE most vivid imaginations, I swear!
~Tyed~
2007-10-10 09:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by owltyedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I see a handsome man I think what he would look like with his clothes off and if he would be a good lover in bed. many things run through a womans mind.
2007-10-10 21:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think they are an attractive person and that is about it. No sexual thoughts at all. I can appreciate beauty of any kind, men, women, clothing, cars etc.
2007-10-10 09:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course married women can still think a man is attractive, we're not dead! And yea, I find plenty, look but don't touch is the motto.
2007-10-10 09:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look him up and down to "investigate" but that would be it. That would probably make my day right about now! Would never act on anything, just admire and be grateful for the beautiful sight!
2007-10-10 09:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by mrsclh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋