i never look for anything long term just a little short term fun with no strings attached
2007-10-10 09:03:52 · 36 answers · asked by sexynsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i guess i just like the element of danger that can spring up that all
2007-10-10 09:08:25 · update #1
i don't feel guilty at all its not me who is cheating, and i am not married so i could care less about that
2007-10-10 09:21:29 · update #2
all you lady who critcize me get a grip and keep your man happy. most of the men i have been with state that communication was the thing that was missing so piss off
2007-10-10 09:23:30 · update #3
haven't been burned yet nor will i cause i am smart about it. i just asked this question to guage what married women think since i know a few who are screwing around on their men!
2007-10-10 09:34:45 · update #4
the men approach me i don't approach them
2007-10-10 09:36:12 · update #5
as long as ur using condoms...and not going on spreading diseases to the innocent wives...
2007-10-10 10:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by txladybug_2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh hun. You must really be insecure that you love dating married men. Do you have to prove something to yourself, cause I know I would if I looked half as bad as you in that pic.
Believe me hun, when a man is unhappy in a relationship it does not matter what the girl looks like. You could look likes a horses a** (in which case you do) and they don't even have to be drunk to do the deed, just desperate. They are not looking to have a full on relationship. They use you to get a piece of *** and your the stupid s**t willing to give it up (so yeah you sound really smart!!!). Keep up your great work and WAY TO GO, your mother must really be proud of you.
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And judging by your previous questions you are seriously in need of help. Your questions are pathetic and time wasting. Get a hobby and Grow the F*** up
2007-10-10 12:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by happytree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with dating married men? Well nothing if you have convinced yourself that you can live without dignity, self worth, and can live with destroying people's lives.
You are not just "dating" a married man- you are inflicting emotional pain on his spouse and children. It's amazing how selfish you are.
You are not just playing a game for "awesome sex" you are playing with lives- a game you and your married men will most certainly LOSE.
I guess it's all about the risk and excitement with married men- but I certainly hope you still find it awesome and exciting when some wife comes after you.
2007-10-10 09:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who opened the door to this one , so I am going to give you the best answer I can think of . First of all you stated that you are not looking for a long term relationship, just a little fun . There are lots of men out there looking for the same thing so it would make more sense to go for them not for a married man, you also ask what is wrong with the fact that you dont want any strings attached , but alot is wrong with dating married men , The Bible answers that , and I quote"You shall not commit adultery." this means you are not to have sexual relations with another persons husband or wife . that is the most important thing I can tell you about what is wrong with what you are doing . next , If God is willing you will some day fall in love with a man and marry him , if this happens it will not set well with you if some other woman is sleeping with him , or going out with him. then you will see how hurtful it is for this to happen with someone you love . I know because I was faithful to my first husband but not he with me. it hurt me badly .as far as communication that is something the husband and wife should work out between them not something he should tell you as he is sleeping with you. that makes things worse , and I dont know if you realize this or not but you are also responsible for what is going on in these marrried mens marriage , tell yourself your better than that , dont be responsible for the heart ache this will cause , especially if children are involved. I will pray that God will touch your heart , and you will decide to go in another direction , hope this was not offensive to you but I am well known for honesty .
Good Luck to you
2007-10-10 09:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by lilsis 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Seriously? Are you posting the question just because you like to ruffle feathers? Why not just say I like to kill people....so what's wrong with that?
They are both illegal. (although adultry is almost never prosecuted anymore.)They both leave many innocent and unsuspecting victims. They are both morally reprehensible. While he may very well find another woman to cheat with do you really want the blood on your hands?
Are you a sex addict? there are groups to help you with that problem!
If these men were great "lovers" they would be at home with their wife. Sex and love are definately NOT the same thing.
You know what happens when you play with fire!!! Eventually you will get burned.
2007-10-10 09:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by melly 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ok stop and think about what you have said and ask yourself this, if it was your husband would want to share him with another woman? Why not spend your time with someone that will want only you and you could have and be with all the time. I would'nt want to share my husband or any one else I was with. Not to mention do you know for a fact that these married men are being honest with you, they could be sleeping with 4 or 5 women a week or day for that matter and could be carrying around who knows what kind of diseases. Come on is it really worth risk yourself for a few hours of someone's pleasure.
2007-10-10 09:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by high on life 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with dating a married man? What the heck are you talking about? Are you crazy? Marriage is not something that you take lightly, it is a very serious commitment that you make before GOD.
Please don't ask questions if you don't want to hear the truth, with your little piss off comment.
Do you like knowing that if you get caught and this a** has kids you have just destroyed a family????? Get a life.
2007-10-10 09:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by zannakc 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are married man awesome lovers? That makes no sense... some man are good at sex and some are not.. married or single.
Anyway... thats betraying another women.... Its wrong and you should feel less confident about it...
Find a single man that loved you for real and youll have the best sex ever,,,, leave the others to deal with theis wifes and families at home...
2007-10-10 09:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by ☆MiraLaStela☆ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really believe that men are unhappy with their wives (or their wives don't keep them happy) you have a rude awakening coming. Men cheat because they are just plain selfish cheaters. So don't go around thinking that your "great sex" is keeping him happy. God help you when you get married, karma can be a bi@#h! And your husband will be tellling some girl that YOU don't keep him happy so it is OK for him to cheat. My God - are you that stupid???
2007-10-10 10:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Babycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's just analyze this for a moment, you prefer to have sex with men who are in a committed relationship. Which means that you don't csre if an innocent person is being hurt (that would be the spouse, who is sitting at home alone). And if you really want to throw water on the family fire, maybe you can make sure to pick guys who have children that they can ignore!
Honour and ethics, morality and trust are not hard concepts to understand, why don't you try them out sometime.
2007-10-10 09:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
What about the wife? What if you were the wife? I agree because I to have been with a married man and OMG!!! However you have to think of the "big picture". You're taking the risk of ruining several peoples lives (if there are children). You MUST have some sort of a concience......
2007-10-10 09:08:14 · answer #11 · answered by cannonkd 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋