Ive been thinking about this for a long time cos i make my close friends angry and ill give one example, i told this one person who wasnt really a close mate to give me something, and i asked that person on about 10 occasions to give me it but they wouldnt and i really didnt care at all, but with this girl that i really really like; i asked her to give me it on 1 occasion and she said she would give it to me another day and i still got angry at her, why is it that i get angry at her even though the first person wouldnt give it, but the girl said she would another day, so why do i get angrier at the girl than the other person?
2007-10-10 09:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because you have higher expectations of her than the other person. Most people do of the ones they love.
2007-10-10 09:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, people always hurt the people they love most. Probably because family and close friends love unconditionally. Secondly, it sounds like you were probably spoiled by you parents and/or family. In return, now you expect people that care about you to give in to your requests. I suggest you think about how you're making these people feel. And treat them the way you like to be treated before you lose them.
2007-10-10 09:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋