We have been separeted for 6 months and are going through a divorce, which she wanted. Almost every time I go over to her house to visit the children she kisses me, not just a peck but makes out with me. Why?
2007-10-10 02:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be that she wants sex, or still has feelings for you... or it could be that she just wants to keep on giving you hope so that she's in control of what happens with you two. Sounds mean, but there are control freaks out there who thrive on that kind of thing.
2007-10-10 02:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself why she wanted the divorce in the first place and whether she still wants it. Perhaps she wants the feeling that she can make out with anyone, including you, and would even do that with the milkman, or perhaps she realized that she should never have wanted the divorce to begin with and doesn't want it now. did you try counseling before when she first wanted the divorce? the two of you need to sit and talk this out because if she does this and still wants the divorce, she may have emotional problems and you may be one of many guys she is with - creating the chance that you may end up with some kind of disease in time if that continues - or she may realize that she really doesn't want the divorce and wants her life with you back. you need to sit and talk with her to see what she is trying to do and what she wants from you.
2007-10-10 09:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you respond to her kisses??? Yeah she wanted the divorce but you went along with it right? Stop kissing her back, she is a confused woman, immature i would say, who doesnt knwo what she wants. The next time just dont kiss her back and let her know that the two of you should not be doing this because it contradicts the divorce, does she want one or not? why are you going along with it ir you are not ready to let her go? Maybe yall should have taken marriage counceling or something,first. sit down and talk this thru with her ask her where she is really wanting this to go and stay tru to it. Be strong and dont let her play with your feelings like that, its wrong.
2007-10-10 09:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by I DONT CARE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just another one of the games people play. I hope she is not acting out in front of your children,this would be confusing for them considering she initiated the divorce. Maybe she is trying to convince them it was YOU and wants your children witness you pushing HER away. Take your children and visit elsewhere. Whatever shes up to, its not healthy.
2007-10-10 09:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Molly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked women, but I gotta chime in here. Just go with the flow. Divorce sex is not uncommon and it's AWESOME. It doesn't mean you're getting back together. Sorry. Take it from a guy who knows and has had divorce sex.
2007-10-10 09:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Don 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a weirdo. I'd say if she wants that divorce so badly, she needs to start acting like it. You aren't street trash, you don't kiss just anybody. Let her know that! Who wants to kiss someone who is divorcing them? Crazy thing.
2007-10-10 09:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sassie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she still has feelings for you , i would ask her why are u doen this to me , unless the both of you can work things out have a big talk and see where she is comen from gl to ya jewels
2007-10-10 09:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her?
Seems to me that she wants more from you. Maybe not a reconciliation, but sex.
Good Luck!
2007-10-10 09:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
perhaps she wants some.......maybe she thinks you will beg her to drop the divorce.........
2007-10-10 09:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋