Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

2007-10-13 07:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by breanna w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I want to ask our best friends (another couple we are always with) to be our Best Man and Matron of Honor in our wedding.

Does anyone have any fun and unique ideas for asking them? We don't want to do the boring dinner thing. We're all very goofy and would appreciate some cool ideas!

Thanks

2007-10-13 07:16:59 · 4 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Weddings

My kids are old enough to figure out what the squeaking bed means and I find that disturbing and mood dampening.

2007-10-13 07:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by Karrose 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I met the most amazing woman almost a year after my divorce. My now ex wife had a relationship with a coworker after being together almost 16 years.. I'll be 34 in Nov. and for some reason I think I'm still working through pain from my divorce and afraid to commet as I was hurt very deeply. I know this woman would never hurt me like my ex but I seem to be the one doing the hurting..loving her then pulling away..what's wrong with me???please help

2007-10-13 07:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you see a girl suckign on a lolli pop,
or a girl adjusting her bra,
or twirlign her hair,
or does it turn ou on if you see her underwear

2007-10-13 07:10:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 07:09:19 · 17 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Family

ok we've all seen how girls post chainletters on bullitens on myspace and other websites about what a girls wants but doesn't say or what a girl wants a guy to do for her.
ex) hold her HAND, or talk to her under the stars, kiss her in front of other girls u know , etc.

Now for all you guys out there, as a girl, i'd like to know what a guy wants a girl to do for them but never asks.
thanx for anyone who gives a good try.

p.s keep it on a clean level (don't say b_j or anything stupid)

2007-10-13 07:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone answer me this? I am in the sate of New York and I was told once a man starts to pay child support that the father, mother and child social security numbers will be shown on all records meaning the father will have access to my social and the childs as well as me having access to his social Is this true? I do not feel comfortable with my daughters father having accesss to my social and my daughters social Anyone that has dealt with going through child support can they please answer this for me? Thank you!

2007-10-13 07:06:48 · 1 answers · asked by Bleedingheartz 1 in Family

what do you think?

2007-10-13 07:05:58 · 31 answers · asked by gottalublilgiggles 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this really annoying and creepy kid that likes me at my HS, he is trying to find out everything about me, gets near me, stares at me, etc.

How can I get him to leave me alone?

2007-10-13 07:05:35 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a three year old daughter and all her father does is go for months and ignore her like she doesnt exist. He also disrespects me and talks badly about me. I want to take him for child support because that is what should be done and why should he get away with not finacially helping but I want to know will they force me to let him see his child? His name is not on her birth certificate and he has never signed anything I do not want him to see his child not to be spiteful but simply because he ignores her every year and takes his hate to me out on her! I have tried so hard to get him to be part of her life however if the court makes him pay child support of course he will want to be hypocritical and want to see her then only because he is giving money for her. I dont want to neglect my daughter of a father but he isnt loving and I can always meet someone else but she needs the child support Will the courts force me to let him see her? Can I deny visitation somehow?

2007-10-13 07:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by Bleedingheartz 1 in Family

This might sound like a joke but I’m serious. This is a question for girls, I am 18 and sometimes I wear a diaper. I don't use it, when I use the restroom I take it off and use the restroom just like underwear, but it is like a security blanket it me, nothing sexual it's not a fetish eww, it’s totally innocent, it's just emotional, I have seen help and they tell me if it's not hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it. It’s easy for most people to say it’s weird and judge me harshly, because most people got the affection they should have when they were that age, but I really didn’t and that’s something we talked about. He thought that someday if I got security from someone else I might not have the need to wear them anymore. I’m not a bad person, but for now it does my heart good, I mean some woman like certain fabrics, some guys prefer boxers, some briefs, I prefer warm soft cushy diapers, which are much more comfortable especially when sitting, to me it's just another piece of clothing, and I only wear one once in a while, and not out in public, so would any girl still be my friend, if she liked me and got to know me before she found out? I mean it’s just a diaper.

2007-10-13 06:57:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 06:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I were discussing having a double wedding, and I know that there are lots of things to consider and sort out, and I'm sure that I can't even begin to see all the challenges yet... Before I decide to do this, I was hoping that I could get some opinions on pros and cons to the situation... Thanks!

2007-10-13 06:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by Pumpkin 1 in Weddings

I have been with her for about 9 years, since we were 8. she is a senior and I am a junior. today she is filling out college applications,(we plan on going to the same college but I donno when Ill be there) Im afraid that she is gonna forget all about me. I love her and don't want to be with anyone else. What should I do? You should probably know Im apostolic pentecostal.
She says she loves me and won't forget me. The Bible College is only about a half hour away from where I live. I know it is love because the feeling of infatuation has worn down and God has made it clear through scriptures and dreams(dreams about my future with her, scriptures about true love and marriage) that this is the real thing, I have faith that she won't forget about me, but how can I stop worrying about it?

2007-10-13 06:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell yesterday,

And I felt my knee pop..It hurt SO bad I was screaming.

Yesterday I couldnt walk on it AT ALL.

But today I can stand on it...It doesnt hurt when im sitting.

But when I stand on it..It feels loose and unstable and like its about to pop! Did I TEAR A LIGAMENT?

2007-10-13 06:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we will go to tarvael , and he for sure he will ask to play around with me ,, but i dont need.

2007-10-13 06:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by chocky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well...me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years next weekend and we love eachother very very much. i feel the next step would be to commit. however we are both 19 nearly twenty and i dont know what his family would think if we did get engaged as we have been talking about it. i feel as though his family would not be happy with this decision. i just want things to work out for us without interference.

2007-10-13 06:44:42 · 18 answers · asked by SparklesFairy505♥ 2 in Weddings

My best friend, Kate, and I have so much fun when it's just the two of us, but when Kate and I hang out with our other friend, Jane, it's like I'm not there anymore because Kate and Jane are always talking, and I feel left out. I dont know what to do. I want to tell kate that I feel left out, but I don't know what she'll say. help!

2007-10-13 06:41:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yea, I'm engaged with a lovely caucasian man who treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king. We may argue and fight but that is life. We met four years ago and he met my family. They were nice around him and such but then when he would turn his back they'd pull me to the side and say nasty things about how you can't trust white folks. I mean they are my family but they have tooking things too far and at night I care about the things my mother would say to me but I would never tell my love yet, he would still comfort me at night until I just fall asleep in his arms. This has been going on for a while. I don't want to leave him because I love him and he loves me but if I listen to my family I would break his heart and he would think I'm racist. But if I follow my heart my parents want talk to me anymore. Please people give me some help please.

2007-10-13 06:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you love someone, like it was your last breath?

2007-10-13 06:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Marriage & Divorce

her fiancee begged my mom not to be there and we gave in. his parents appeared and gave her a diamond ring. the fiancee said his folks didn't want us. i don't know why. after the 'ceremony' my sis come home in tears and said she felt like a meat decorated with jewels.
his folks are not superior to us in any way. he is totally dependent on his parents. anyway they got married. everyday she seems distant and confused. she talks only money with us now and disrespects us a lot. suddenly she called and asked for 'her assets' to be given to her. now she's on a trip with them. me and my mother we fear that they are after her inheritence (dad died just before marriage). he keeps totally secret all his financial stuff with his family and wants to know all about ours. she started accusations that me and my mom we are not able to handle our finances.
we fear that she is subtly taken advante of.
the worst thing is to see her like this.
she's always uptight and fights a lot without reason.

2007-10-13 06:37:12 · 11 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends and I were chatting on the phone today. We both are married, have kids, in our 30's, etc...(just to give you a background)
She starts to tell me about her night of sex last night and I joined in the conversation and was talking to her about mine. This is something we always talk about...this is nothing new.
She tells me she asked her husband if he could have sex with anyone of her girlfriends, who would it be. He mentioned her other friend and me and made a comment of what he liked about me and my body. So she was basically hinting at asking me if I would be into sleeping with her and her husband for her husband's fantasy.
I joked with her and said, yeah...maybe if I wasn't married...

Shortly after that the conversation ended.

I got to thinking about what she said and it kinda weirded me out. She is my best friend and I guess she feels comfortable saying anything to me. It's just weird.
I don't know, how should I feel...

2007-10-13 06:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by qtpie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bff hasnt done anything but i cant look at her or talk to her because she annoys me now! i dont think she did anything but shes getting on my nerves!

2007-10-13 06:34:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Your partner wants to break up with you but is afraid to do so in person or by telephone. Is it okay for him/her to send an e-mail saying s/he is breaking up with you, and will never see you again, but doesn't say what the circumstances or reasons are for the breakup thus leaving you without a clue and with the definite impression that you will never be allowed to know why he/she left?

Explain your answer.

2007-10-13 06:29:55 · 19 answers · asked by Softtouchmale 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has never complimented me and i feel he always degrades me to feel better in himself. He also asks me often in a joking way whether i have cheated on him. I compliment him and have never given him any reason to think that i've cheated on him. He admitted to me once that he used to be a cheat. When he was drunk he also said that he dosen't think were gonna last very long cos were too different.
Good things is that we have an active sex life and i don't think he is cheating on me. We also get on very well and are able to laugh and communicate freely. I spend about six days of a week with him and we get along usually fine. I think i like him more than he likes me but then agin why does he want to be with me all the time? Is the way he treats me insecurity or because he dosen't really like me?
Thanks

2007-10-13 06:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by ckerr90 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 06:28:03 · 5 answers · asked by rccola1977 2 in Friends

If the red shirt thing is new to you, read below...

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we boarded our flight, I turned to the Sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in first class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home. No he responded. Heading out I asked? No I’m escorting a soldier home. Going to pick him up? No. he is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq; I'm taking him home to his family. The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. He told me that, although he didn’t know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldiers’ family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days. I turned back to him, extended my hand and said, thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do. Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom. "Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having sergeant Steeley of the United State's Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign" without a sound all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American. So here's a public thank you to our military men and women for what you do so we can live the way we do. Red Fridays, very soon, you will see a great many people wearing red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called "the silent"...

2007-10-13 06:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a older woman i work with...shes very mature and is very smart and straight forward...i asked her to lunch and she said yes...i know she thinks im cute...i asked her to chill outside of work and go to the movies and dinner she told me she will love to but has to find a babysitter and in the end couldnt make it....she been havin my number and she been tellin me she will call but never does...i told her to be serious with me and to tell me if i have a chance to be with her or not...she told me maybe...i asked her for her number and she told me her phone is messed up she showed it to me and it was off...she has 2 kids and has a busy schedule...i told her all i want to is fit atleast 1 hour to hang with her...and all she told me so u willing to come to manhattan for me...i told her for her i would....i know she is kind of interested because we flirt....is she testing me because im 21 and shes 28 and she thinks all i want is a piece of the pie???do i have a chance or not??

2007-10-13 06:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 06:24:27 · 39 answers · asked by playmate 2 in Marriage & Divorce