Would you still be my friend?

Question

This might sound like a joke but I’m serious. This is a question for girls, I am 18 and sometimes I wear a diaper. I don't use it, when I use the restroom I take it off and use the restroom just like underwear, but it is like a security blanket it me, nothing sexual it's not a fetish eww, it’s totally innocent, it's just emotional, I have seen help and they tell me if it's not hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it. It’s easy for most people to say it’s weird and judge me harshly, because most people got the affection they should have when they were that age, but I really didn’t and that’s something we talked about. He thought that someday if I got security from someone else I might not have the need to wear them anymore. I’m not a bad person, but for now it does my heart good, I mean some woman like certain fabrics, some guys prefer boxers, some briefs, I prefer warm soft cushy diapers, which are much more comfortable especially when sitting, to me it's just another piece of clothing, and I only wear one once in a while, and not out in public, so would any girl still be my friend, if she liked me and got to know me before she found out? I mean it’s just a diaper.

Answer 1

talk to this guy
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=Aokb8p72vpzn9HxuB0LD_Kzty6IX;_ylv=3?show=8mbI1dz6aa

Answer 2

People like what they like :)

if you want to stop, you could try switching to a smaller dipey, then maybe a heavy maxi pad...etc until your wearing a panty liner or nothig at all.

or find something else to give you security like a stuffed animal that you can put a diaper on?

perhaps you missed an important phase in your life, eventually you will have made up for that and will no longer need this. Either way a real friend would not drop you over this. I would'nt anyway.

Answer 3

There is no way I could be a friend with a weirdo like you. That is the most ridiculous thing that I have ever read. I am guessing that there is no way you have ever had a boyfriend-lol. Men like to look at your underwear if you're getting undressed and all they would see from you is a diaper.
This is just ridiculous and a total waste of time to read or respond to.
You need to see a new psychologist because the one you were seeing was as much as a psycho as you are if he couldn't diagnose a serious issue here.

Answer 4

Maybe you just need a quilted flannel or fur lined underwear. You will find the glory goes out of the diapers when you get old and then must wear Depends! Or are you just trying to get use to the idea so then you will be ready? Anyway I think it strange but I cerainly wouldn't not be your friend because of it.

Answer 5

I would still be your friend, its something i never heard before but no one is perfect in this world. Everyone is different in their own way and if it something you will grow out of probably and its not all the time so i dont see a big deal in it at all. and as a friend i would try and help you as much as possible, cause thats what friends are suppose to do is help one another no matter what it may be

Answer 6

of course! i would be. it's not about physical appearance but wuts inside as corny as that sounds. i'm sorry u didn't get the affection u needed as a child and i understand ur need for a "security blanket" i would just be concerned about the reasons why u need to wear one not the fact that u do wear one. u should find people that care about u and look inside ur self and say to the "inner child" as a book i read calls it and say "i'm ok the way i am and i am loved." be positive and remember there are people in the world who care and accept u and understand it's not bad that u need to do that. i am now one of them :)

Answer 7

ok
as you said, its just what it is, but....

I would be verry carefull on how many people you tell,
because,....

when you are in an argument with a guy who knows,
you'll just be mad, both of you,

however, if you tell a girlfriend, and she doesn't think its cool,
she might not say anything, but later on....
she might tell another girfriend, like "who does he think he is anyway, he's still wearing diapers"

and before you know it, the news will go round...

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying not to tell, I'm just trying to warn you.
You can be cool with the subject, but I don't think many people will see it that way.
Only your real true friends won't care, but then again, we all make mistakes in thinking who our true friends are one time or another.

Sorry if it doesn't sound positive, but I just want to make you see that it might go the wrong way

Answer 8

um. . . NO!!! im not even gonna read that whole big paragraph. alli saw was diapers. So as long as you kept it a secret from me that would be alright. But now you just put it out there for the whole world too see. so i guess there's no secret for you!

Answer 9

Yes I would still be your friend. Everyone has quirks. For intstance, I eat M&Ms in pairs, all my things have to be in alphabetical order.

Anyone who stops being friends of someone because of wierdness is not a good friend at all and is, on fact, shallow.

Answer 10

Yeah,
it's just a diaper

Answer 11

i think it would be better if your friends didnt know but i mean if u feel its comfortable and u like it then go ahead and wear it and whoever judges you is like a freak cuz they dont own you to tell you what to do and to judge you so go ahead and wear watever u wanna wear be free and happy.