there is a older woman i work with...shes very mature and is very smart and straight forward...i asked her to lunch and she said yes...i know she thinks im cute...i asked her to chill outside of work and go to the movies and dinner she told me she will love to but has to find a babysitter and in the end couldnt make it....she been havin my number and she been tellin me she will call but never does...i told her to be serious with me and to tell me if i have a chance to be with her or not...she told me maybe...i asked her for her number and she told me her phone is messed up she showed it to me and it was off...she has 2 kids and has a busy schedule...i told her all i want to is fit atleast 1 hour to hang with her...and all she told me so u willing to come to manhattan for me...i told her for her i would....i know she is kind of interested because we flirt....is she testing me because im 21 and shes 28 and she thinks all i want is a piece of the pie???do i have a chance or not??
2007-10-13 06:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the gal has some sort of a relationship she is not telling you about. She doesn't want to give you the number. tells you she can't find a babysitter. She wants to go out with you, yes, but only when she can get away, hence Manhattan....
other than being a friend, all she probably wants from you is a roll in the hay, all that young passion...
You probably do not want to get serious, until she does... Don't expect that to happen. Have fun!
2007-10-13 06:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by De-Activated Bad Profile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age has anything to do with it but maturity level. I was with my ex for 13 yrs, he was 14 yrs younger than me, age was never an issue. You have to understand her responsibilities as a mother, be supportive and a friend, let her know how you feel and ask her if there is a way that she can let you in her life. No doubt she is worried about that because of her children, I will not let just any one I go out with into my kids life unless I am sure it may turn into a long term relationship. She sounds like she is considering how this will affect them, it is devastating to kids to see men go in and out of their lives. Think about all this yourself before you try to make a relationship work with her, it is more than just you and her involved.
2007-10-13 13:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Connie D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With two kids and a busy schedule, she can't just hang out with you like she's an unattached college student. If you don't get what it means to be a single parent, you are wasting her time.
2007-10-13 13:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by palan57 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hey, gimme 20 points! You asked this same question. You could at least wait 20 minutes or something.
Hand em over and I'll keep quiet.
2007-10-13 13:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she's interested, she has to make the next move. You've made it very clear by now that YOU'RE interested. If she wants to see you, she'll make it happen. If she doesn't, she won't. Simple as that.
2007-10-13 13:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
All you want is a piece of pie. She's right about that.
2007-10-13 13:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this girl sounds like shes not into you. either that or shes making you work for her and seeing how far you'll go for her.
2007-10-13 13:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i don't think she is interested but just doesn't want to say it.
2007-10-13 13:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by paula t. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋