One of my best friends and I were chatting on the phone today. We both are married, have kids, in our 30's, etc...(just to give you a background)
She starts to tell me about her night of sex last night and I joined in the conversation and was talking to her about mine. This is something we always talk about...this is nothing new.
She tells me she asked her husband if he could have sex with anyone of her girlfriends, who would it be. He mentioned her other friend and me and made a comment of what he liked about me and my body. So she was basically hinting at asking me if I would be into sleeping with her and her husband for her husband's fantasy.
I joked with her and said, yeah...maybe if I wasn't married...
Shortly after that the conversation ended.
I got to thinking about what she said and it kinda weirded me out. She is my best friend and I guess she feels comfortable saying anything to me. It's just weird.
I don't know, how should I feel...
2007-10-13 06:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by qtpie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A. Flattered.
B. Sorry for your friend.
She is apparently willing to do too much to please her husband. And what kind of husband does she have if he makes her think of doing such a thing. She needs you to counsel her right now on what is right and wrong. On what marriage vows are about. You really should try to help her if your a friend. And yes, that was weird, and she is embarrassed. Be tactful and try to help her to respect herself more than she is right now.
2007-10-13 07:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just so worked up from her and her husband's conversation (conversation can be just as erotic as sex sometimes) that she was still unknowingly worked up about it while on the phone with you...
Yes, it would have weirded me out too, and I would have been like, "Hey, someone's at the door. I'll call you back later..." just to get off the phone.
Think about it like this though, seriously... she is your best friend and feels comfortable enough to say anything to you. Well, why not feel comfortable enough to accidently leak over excitement from her and her husband's topic of discussion into yours.
Chances are, if it ever came to that, she wouldn't want to share her man and if you were standing naked in their bedroom, she'd probably freak out on you and push you out of the room... I mean, wouldn't you?
It was just a bit of leaked excitement from an erotic conversation they had as a couple and nothing more. Don't worry about it. I'm sure by tommorow it won't even be weird between you two.
2007-10-13 06:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by shellj_foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel like getting the hell away from your so-called best friend. She is not your best friend if she could even think of having sex with you and the scum she married. She wants to use you to please the dirtbag that she is married to, because she obviously can't do it. He wants more than her and he'll be using you too.
You are sick if you could even talk to these weird people. What the hell are creatures like that trying to do to the word marriage? Maybe they're officially married, but that is not marriage! They're just desperate, because they married eachother for the wrong reasons. It was definitely not for love!
2007-10-13 07:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think she was hinting at anything, I think she was just telling you that her husband finds you attractive. I woud take it as a compliment, and not think anything else of it.
2007-10-13 07:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think pretty weird is good. She was asking you to commit adultery with her and her husband. I think that is awful.
2007-10-13 06:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no one can tell you how you should feel. just say hey, not really into a 3sum with you guys if she asks again.
2007-10-13 06:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by paula t. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would freak me out too...i dont know what i would think
2007-10-13 06:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mindy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋