Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

how many good marrages have ended over seeking extermatial affairs now days where either spouce has sought a affair outside there own marrage where has morals went to now days was it worth it after eith thought about it when it was to late to fix .

2007-10-13 20:59:43 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is it really possible that he'll be spending his life with me?..they have a daughter and he loves her so much...my boyfriend and his wife has been separated for almost a year now..his wife is trying to fix things up for them...he told me he loves me now..we've been on for 6months..will he choose me over her?

2007-10-13 20:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by cleopatrix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just learned that my friend from high school died 3 weeks ago along with her son and sister in law in a car accident. I haven't spoken to this friend since we graduated high school over 4 years ago.
I didn't even know she was married and had kids. We were pretty close in high school. We only lost contact because she went to the community college and I went to the University.
How am I suppose to mourn? I've been up most of the night looking at old year book photos and crying over them.

2007-10-13 20:54:51 · 8 answers · asked by christigmc 5 in Friends

2007-10-13 20:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by ice cream man 1 in Friends

okay like im not even that pretty or anythign i think im ugly ..but anyways all these guys always want me to have sex with them and it bugs like they send me msg on myspace or even when im hanging out with them...like im not a slut or anythign but what makes them think that im goign to liek say yeah or something

2007-10-13 20:51:35 · 22 answers · asked by tart 1 in Singles & Dating

I was told just over a month ago that my partner of nearly 10 years,of who i have 3 children to,had been cheating on me.I was told this by someone who my partner had to sack,(as he was causing trouble at work) This man is a horrible person and a born liar and has threatened us so much after losing his job that we had to involve the police as we were literally in fear of our life!.Which..I know..Theres no way i should believe him about the cheating,and i dont.My partner swore none of it were true,he had put his self in the position of doubt for 1 reason or another but that this man was just trying to cause trouble.However,after having this hanging over me for a month now..did he/didnt he?..i just cant cope.I love my partner dearly and could never face leaving him but im so tired of what this man keeps saying & doing,im making myself ill,i dont trust a word my partner says,i always presume he's lying to me,i cant sleep,im hardly eating a thing,i cant get medication to help as im...

2007-10-13 20:49:54 · 13 answers · asked by mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i send ex this bday gift?
it has been a few wks since he officially broke up with me after 4 years b/c he was unhappy... should i send a book da vinci code he always wanted to read (ordered on amazon for dirt cheap), and a plain card that just says happy bday... i won't wrap the present up, just send it in plain manila envelope. of course, i'm not gonna lie, i would at least hope he will say thank you, but even if he doesn't, i would feel i have done my part and, just as a nice way for me to end this chapter in my life and move on.

I took the break up badly and I did ask him back before but he said he wants to be single, feels stress-free, tell me to not have hope, find another man. i haven't called him in a couple of weeks and don't plan to.

If you had to put your money on the possibility of him calling back or even think about getting back in the long run, would it more likely to happen if i didn't send him gift or card on his bday OR if i do send him gift on his bday?

2007-10-13 20:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Svetlana Z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 20:44:29 · 22 answers · asked by KDK 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends are always looking to get married. Thinking about marriage ruins the fun of dating. All the guys I date want to eventually settle down. I just want to have a good time but I don't ever want to get married. Don't you think marriage just ruins everything?

2007-10-13 20:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey...i just got to know a girl and we have been going really nicely...i even went to her house already to see her parents... after some conversation of some sort...i sort of really pissed her off.... and she wont mind me. wont answer.. wont talk to me.. she'll even go offline once you go online..!!) how do you bring back the friendship???? what are some ways (that are sensible) to make her happy? i know she's not really mad.. she may just be waiting... and accdg to one of my friends (who happens to be her friend), said that my girl knows that i like her but she doesnt know what i want from her? she said i'm not ASKING...i'm really lost here...

2007-10-13 20:37:49 · 18 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 20:37:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 20:36:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My daughter called me at work crying because my step dad had his new girlfriend at the house. My mother has only been dead 3 weeks. I left work in order to get my girls. When asked what was wrong. I told my dad that I was not ready for my kids to be involved with his new girlfriend. Was I wrong? Both of my kids are very upset with him.

2007-10-13 20:28:37 · 11 answers · asked by tyte31 1 in Friends

i know he handles him self but we have sex maybe once a month or even that, it has made me feel insecure and lately its like i do not know how to aproach him for sex i do not feel sexy because i know he always checking out porn or anything with young girls {not under age}i am frustrated and lonely HELP ME I NEED SEX!!!!!!

2007-10-13 20:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by maree2007hamill 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have seperated for about 2 months now. We have 2 kids together. I think it might be better if I wrote him a letter to let him know how I feel, or should I just tell him face to face? The only conversation that I can get out of him is about the kids.

2007-10-13 20:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by bambi10 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-13 20:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am hes first g/f ever and he not really in to sex how can i make him more in to it
i am not fat or ugly

i wont leave him because of it but i love sex
i wont cheat

need help

2007-10-13 20:16:54 · 20 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF&I have been dating for about 4 months now, even though hes breaking the rules, his parents arent that strict as long as i attend church with him. But whenever we go out to the maovies, mall, even in a VONS i cant hold his hands or hug him in publlic [he'll literallly push me away]. This guy really has my heart and to not be able to show that to him and have to treat him as any other one of my guys friends breaks my hear. How am i supposed to hande this?

2007-10-13 20:15:40 · 2 answers · asked by Alyza 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is an organism the act of ejaculation or is there more to it than that and do men have them if so what are the signs of having one im not sure if ive had one or not

2007-10-13 20:10:10 · 10 answers · asked by sexgod669 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-13 20:05:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whoevers interested in outdoor things, fun. long days long nights. preferibly women

2007-10-13 20:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by Michael H 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex gf hang out alot and stuff but usually with like other guys and a few girls too. She seems really REALLY close to this one guy and i know he likes her, but i really want her back. she ended the relationship but it was on good terms and everything. i dont wanna do anything dumb like try and make her jealous but what can i do to make her get it while we're hanging out with these other people?I want to be able to show affecton without it being REALLY obvious i guess...all tips welcome, we're both 16 if it helps

THANKS!!!

~Mark Changy

2007-10-13 19:59:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an 18 year old female. I go to college and I plan to get my bachelors. I'm currently searching for a job and preparing to get my license to drive. I'm not really looking for anything serious right now but I would like the company.

2007-10-13 19:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by Ni Ni 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if people consider it molestation for a 16 year old guy to touch an 11 year old even if she goes along with it but she realizes it wasnt right nd felt ashamed later in life.

2007-10-13 19:55:45 · 30 answers · asked by Alix 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why and husband are two sides of coin they cant face each but they stay together. IF THEY CAN FACE EACH OTHER WHY THEY STAY TOGETHER?

2007-10-13 19:54:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My problem is there are girls didn't like me because of my beautiful face. The other guys are very good to me. I'm glad and thankful a lot of them. I had asked them that why they are always doing anything good to me? They answered, I'm very sweet and cute girl. I think they are right? But I didn't understand there are girls very envy of me..? I had no do anything wrong to them. They said I'm beautiful girl and like to captivate with other guys but I never do it! But they didn't believe what I said is right. And they also said I'm a bad girl. I'm very sad and that make me feel very pain. I'm crying. I hate of myself. I have only a beautiful girl who is my best friend. She is a christian. We are always together us happy and enjoy. She had helped me a lot. I'm sure she is a wonderful girl. But this year, she is not here. She was going and stay in Phillippian to worship God. I miss her so much. She is a kind and humble girl. Since that day, I need to be with other girls. I'm a girl. Why?

2007-10-13 19:52:52 · 2 answers · asked by Stupid 1 in Singles & Dating

well i've been with my daughters father for 5 years now...im 25..he's 34..he always pretty much nice to me up until we moved in together..he has a son which lives with us..and i have a son as well ...we always argue over them...and ever since we moved in together he's mean and calls me names all the time..im getting very tired of it...he really knows how to put me down..by calling me the meanest names.i think if he really cared for me or even espected me as a woman he wouldnt be calling me such awful names and always trying to put me down. plz answer!

2007-10-13 19:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by deleon_jenifer 2 in Family

Even if you aren't seriously behind, but you just wish that you could have them paid without even thinking about it?

2007-10-13 19:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i try 2 let my boyfriend no that im feeling insecure because of him acting sneaky, he gets angry and blows it all out of poportion resulting in yelling & screaming without being resolved, then acts like nothings wrong. then the nest day same thing over again...WHY?! i wont b able 2 move on till my feelings r addressed. Somebody please help!!!

2007-10-13 19:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Melisa A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just about every guy I have dated has abused me in some way shape or form. Whether it be emotionally or physically. I'm sick of this. I'm 23 and dont think I deserve this. So, should I just give up on the whole dating thing?

2007-10-13 19:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by jiujitsubabe 1 in Singles & Dating