well i've been with my daughters father for 5 years now...im 25..he's 34..he always pretty much nice to me up until we moved in together..he has a son which lives with us..and i have a son as well ...we always argue over them...and ever since we moved in together he's mean and calls me names all the time..im getting very tired of it...he really knows how to put me down..by calling me the meanest names.i think if he really cared for me or even espected me as a woman he wouldnt be calling me such awful names and always trying to put me down. plz answer!
2007-10-13 19:52:05 · 14 answers · asked by deleon_jenifer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you're right. I've gotten mad at my ex (when we were married) many many times. But I never called her names. Thats disrespectful and degrading, and you just cant do it to someone you truly love. Looks like you've been had. sorry
2007-10-13 19:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jefe' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is tough... you've been with him so long its hard to break away. The only thing I can think of is that maybe you should move out and find your own place so you and your son can live together alone. Then once your son moves out, move in with your man again. Considering this situation, him and his son, you and your son, I am sure that all of the tension thats being received in the house is because of the kids; no offense to them, I can see how its just hard though. If he starts to hit you, please leave him.
2007-10-14 03:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am so sorry u r going thru that. Trust me I know from experience- if you know u are worth more (which u r) u need to move out- also its not good 4 ur son to see someone treating u like that. Gather up the strength and resources and leave him. If he shows u hes changed THEN give him a chance with u.
2007-10-14 02:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer and do not need other people to clarify it with you. You know what you must do, just do it, leave, it is hard initially but when you have moved on you will say to yourself "I should have done this a long time ago". DO IT.
2007-10-14 02:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by daskaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never really know someone until you live with them. i say its time to give him a reality check. if he cant say anything nice then he shouldnt say anything at all. and if he cant follow that simple instruction then i would start packing my bags because you dont deserve that. your children dont need to be going through all that drama. everyone in the house is equal so if it cant be that way then its time to seperate.
2007-10-14 03:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u married a guy whose 34 and u'r only 25 y the hell would u do dat
2007-10-14 02:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anand B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him NOT US!!! tell him you need to have a serious talk and tell him all of this stuff. and if he doesn't listen or whatever suggest therapy. if he doesn't go or it doesn't help leave him, its not worth it. and you only live once so dont waste a minute with someone who doesn't love you...
~Mark
2007-10-14 02:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by mark_changalang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, your daughter and son should get out and go to a place to get away from the verbal abuse and other abuses I'm sure are going on there...wish i had for my son's sake...too late now.
2007-10-14 02:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's quite a complicated issue..
But,
why don't you try talking to him because open conversation always makes the problem solved!! Simple isn't?
2007-10-14 02:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥Shaista♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no respect , there is no love. get out before you lose your self esteem and respect for yourself
2007-10-14 02:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Dizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋