2007-10-13 20:44:29 · 22 answers · asked by KDK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should i do
I know that she's happy.. and that's whats important...
any advice if i should just leave her alone??
2007-10-13 20:51:29 · update #1
Should i just live with the fact that she found someone else and just move on...
From what friends have told me she doesnt have a very strong relationship with her boyfriend.
2007-10-13 20:53:31 · update #2
and the last thing i want to do is ruin the relationship
2007-10-13 20:56:06 · update #3
I have always believed in the saying that we only live once, if we don't take chances in life, we won't get anywhere..If you think that letting her know about your true feelings for her is worth giving it a shot,(Frankly, i don't think i can ever live with the question "what if") then by all means tell her.It is the only way you'll know if she also has the same feelings about you..But this also comes with a compromise, be prepared to accept that if it doesn't work out the way you wanted it to, you might also lose her as a friend.Good luck.
2007-10-13 20:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Eternal spare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since she is in a relationship with someone else then you should probably not tell her how you feel as this will complicate matters and there is no need to break up a happy relationship. You should just stay friends and be there for her as a friend.
2007-10-13 20:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you said it perfectly. You are just friends. Please take notice that if you already have a friendly relationship with someone, telling them you love them may ruin it. Especially if she is currently in a relationship with someone else. If you really feel the need to tell her just be prepared for the consequences.
2007-10-13 20:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been in your situation a lot of times, and usually I just be the one that be beside her. The hardest thing with it is to define your action to her as not just friend.
you could be romantic if you want, and with more affection shown by you, she will question your actions. don't be too agresive though, when the time is right, you could tell her your feeling, or if she asked you about it, that's your only chance, so don't blow it
2007-10-13 20:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by mahesfi1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay! if ur her true friend, you will or should be happy for her. Let her figure out herself with her man. Do not interfere. If ofcourse due to any reason it dun work out between them, you can def. tell her how u ve felt for the longest time and that will touch her heart and in all honesty , she will appreciate and respect you for the same. Its hard for a girl to ignore true love. :))
2007-10-13 20:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Reina L 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dont do it. If you did start a relationship on those grounds, how strong would it be. If she will leave someone for you then she will leave you for someone else. And who wants a girl who would do that anyway.
2007-10-13 20:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she is in a relationship then it isn't your place to tell her somethingn like that. I lost my best friend because of it. He just wouldn't stop telling me that. Why would you wait until she is in a relationship anyways. Just be her friend, better that than nothing at all. One day if the time comes to tell her and it is right then do it.
2007-10-13 20:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh that's hard! I would honestly do it. Because, than you won't be sitting around wondering "what if?" However, you will have to be prepared for the chance that you may lose her as a friend. Lastly, I wouldn't straight up say "I love you", I would say something like you have feelings for her, or something
2007-10-13 20:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by foxxy_snow_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well There is nothing u can do! Cause a Friend knows Everything abt you.. and If That so then May be she knows ur value and have chosen someone Better then you.
2007-10-13 20:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree, be there for her. Don't disrespect the relationship she is in now by telling her that. Hopefully, one day you'll get the chance to tell her.
2007-10-13 20:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋