is it really possible that he'll be spending his life with me?..they have a daughter and he loves her so much...my boyfriend and his wife has been separated for almost a year now..his wife is trying to fix things up for them...he told me he loves me now..we've been on for 6months..will he choose me over her?
2007-10-13 20:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by cleopatrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if his wife wants to fix things, u could be in for the fight of your life, yes he does love u now, but maybe his wife never tried to fix the problems, he loved her once too, and may still. u never commit or get into a relationship with a married man, for one it hurts the spouse of that person, for another he could leave u hanging and decide to return to his family which happens often.
2007-10-14 03:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, it is way too soon to tell. You guys have only been together for six months. I will say this if he wanted to be with her then they would still be living together as a married couple. It has been a year that he has been seperated from her; so, that is a good indication that he doesn't want the marriage to work. Maybe, they are seperated and not divorced because they can't afford the divorce. I will tell you this that it is way too soon for you to begin obessing on whether he is going to choose you or her. You don't want to scare him away; so, for now play it cool .
2007-10-13 21:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone can answer this except him. Why did they seperate? He did love her at one time enough to marry her and have a child with her. How long was he with his ex? Have you asked him if he wants to go back? Theyve been seperated for almost a year has he ever talked about when they are divorced or even said anything about getting the divorce papers? They do have history together its really hard to say.
I'm sorry but its really hard to tell. U need to talk to him.
2007-10-13 21:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its too early to tell... 6months in a relationship... he might choose you over his ex but their daughter will be... SHOULD BE... your boyfriend's priority... are you ready to take the risk?...
well, good luck then!
2007-10-13 21:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by princess of happiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dumb. i dont know if you are the one seeing my guy cause it alll sounds the same. stick around long enough and you will see if he goes to you when the first moment of uncomfortableness comes for him. that kid thing, is a weak azz excuse. he stays cause he wants too. there is custody and legal ways to deal with the kid. men just want their cake and eat it too.
2007-10-13 21:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible... and I really do wish the two of you the best.
Just make sure you are not ignoring certain signs and/or any red flags.
Good luck.
2007-10-13 21:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋