i am hes first g/f ever and he not really in to sex how can i make him more in to it
i am not fat or ugly
i wont leave him because of it but i love sex
i wont cheat
need help
2007-10-13 20:16:54 · 20 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have never asked a question about this before
2007-10-13 21:01:31 · update #1
i have asked before but i removed the question because i wanted to put it differnt
2007-10-13 23:49:35 · update #2
You did complain about his before and I doubt anything new can be said...
Talk to him and/or seek help.
Something is obviously wrong and no one here is gong to be able to come up a magical solution that will solve this problem with no effort on your part. Do nothing, nothing will change.
Recap:
1). Do nothing (like right now).
2A). Talk to him and force the issue, find out what's wrong and find out what you can do to help the situation.
2B). If he can't/won't talk or if it's a problem beyond what you two can handle, see a therapist/psychologist for help.
3). Leave.
Communication is key to any relationship.
2007-10-13 20:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're not alone. i've been married for 12 years, he's just lost interest. says he's not cheating; or gay.. i have even masterbated in front of him, i'm not fat or ugly. but, like you don't want to cheat. what to do? Unless someone understands that there ARE men out there that just do not like sex. yes, i've asked him for a divorce, he won't hear of it. if you love him, and like him, one person told me, if you let a 6 inch piece of meat dictate your marriage, your marriage is not based on the right 'head'. If you love him, buy a toy, they are amazing, satisfying and saved my marriage... but nothing compares to the real thing. good luck
2007-10-16 20:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sudden approach will scare him even more. If I was no longer interested in sex with my wife, it might be because of some reasons. Firstly, find out why he's no longer interested, and act on in, slowly/gradually. You can't just suddenly surprise him in a latex suit in a compromising position and expect him to be suddenly interested. Maybe it might because of his work? Financial problems? I can't tell you exactly how to spice up a man's sex life, so first we must get to the root of the problem.
2007-10-14 03:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Fuyuki Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex or Intercourse. Intercourse is just one part of sex and if that is all that really is happening your sex life is poor.
Make sex an every day thing. Not in bed but every part of your time together. Touch and smile and go onto other things. Make little sexy remarks that will stick in his head. Grab his arm when your walk together. Dress so others look at you when your out. Make yourself sexy and make your day full of sexy things. He will come around.
2007-10-14 03:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell your not ugly or big cause you wouldnt have the confidence to post this question.. surprise him when he gets in wear sexy mamma clothes (barely nothing) call him daddy sit on his lap and feed him his dinner have the bath ready for him but while he is eating dinner tell him in a soft sexy voice how much he turns you on then moan.. kiss his chest and get him ready.. then take him for the bath and bath him but really sexy.. my husband loves bathing with me but everyman is different.
sounds like your man is a little shy you have to compliment him and ripen him more!
2007-10-14 03:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
variety is the spice of life. you are going to have to take over for a bit, and be the aggressive one. try new things with him and teach him that sex can be fun and enjoyable, not an obligatory marital task.
2007-10-14 03:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by The Beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, it is a problem you both have so you both need to come up with a solution.
2007-10-14 03:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Sit on his face. That'll get his attention.
2007-10-14 03:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Pep Lofton 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Use your God given talent and imagination.
2007-10-14 04:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMEGA3 huh ! is that like limpbegone lmao
2007-10-14 03:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by ur asking me lmao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋